Explain your Percentage Choice 100/0 - 0/100

helgaleena

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Me and my wife are pretty much just a story of odd, remarkable luck.

Growing up, I never considered myself gay, just bi because of a few experiences with other guys. Never wanted to have a love relationship with another guy at all. Met my wife and it was love at first sight.

A year after we started dating, we were just sitting around talking and she confided with me that she'd been with a woman before and that she liked it. I told her I'd been with guys before and that I didn't regret it either. She was cool with it and so was I. Over the last couple of years we've been helping each other accept who we are individually.

I'm still not really crazy about the idea of having a love relationship with a man, and for the life of me, I just can't see myself falling in love or experiencing the same level of romantic feelings towards a man that I can towards a woman. It's almost like I am drawn to relationships with women but sex with men. Don't get me wrong, my wife and I have an active sex life and we have a LOT of fun with it. But we both think about gay and lesbian sex situations and are open to the possibility of her having friends with benefits.

I have to admit, I've changed my percentage several times since I've been a member here, and it depends on how gay/bi/straight I'm feeling at the time. To complicate things and play devil's advocate to my own situation, I guess if ever I had to choose between either being gay OR staying married to my wife, I'd choose to stay married any day.

I guess my best and only answer to your excellent question is this:
True love crosses all genders and sexual orientations.
:veryhappy:
 

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I find all of these comments very interesting considering that I feel that sexual orientation can be fluid. I was born female and changed my gender to male but I am more attracted to bio men than bio females. I'm a trans man but I'm not attracted to other transgendered people. I decided to join LPSG because maybe I could find someone open minded for friendship/intimacy.
 

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I find all of these comments very interesting considering that I feel that sexual orientation can be fluid. I was born female and changed my gender to male but I am more attracted to bio men than bio females. I'm a trans man but I'm not attracted to other transgendered people. I decided to join LPSG because maybe I could find someone open minded for friendship/intimacy.

cool, pretty much like buck angel? thats hot
 

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Mine might be the case of many guys here. I have posted 99% Straight 1% Gay. I think that the reason for this is that I have no interest what so ever in men. Not at all, its just not something I am interested in at all. However I can very much appreciate a guy with a good body, or other impressive traits. That doesn't make me in anyway attracted to him, but perhaps impressed by him? Anyway, i think thats the idea of it
 

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lol... black and white/absolutist psychology never made much sense to me. Sometimes ambiguity exists in life, it's just how it is.

I like women very much but I do have a bit of an anal sexuality. i can't imagine doing it with a guy, but often like looking at trans porn now and then. I think a lot of people are fluid in sexual terms, people experiment in college, you have men who have sex with men (but consider themselves straight), etc.