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One of our recurring fantasies is for my wife to becoming a sex worker. She already has an Amateur Porn channel (mostly us doing BDSM) on you-know-where-hub.

Recently we have been talking about prostitution, or getting paid to fuck. Now since prostitution is illegal where we live, the legal way out is being an escort. She has a concern that she might not be attractive enough (silly concern, just look at her pics), but apart from that she is game to becoming a whore (her word) if I can handle the operations. She is even open to a BDSM theme though I have concerns around that.

Does anyone or their wives here have any experience with being escorts (not just hiring one)? Also can't wait for COVID to be over so that I can take her to the local Swing club and have everybody drool over her.
 
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Couple things I'd encourage you and your wife to really think long and hard about prior to undertaking...

1- Is this truly a mutual fantasy, or is this just something she's willing to go along with? The women of this site are often asked for insight on how to talk a female partner into something the male wants to do. Your words of saying "she's good with it" don't convey this is something that she is initiating. It should be, because it's her body and she's the one doing the act. I'd suggest asking her point blank because...

2- once you go down this path, you can't undo it. I know of a woman who had been a stripper, had done nude modeling, had even done hardcore sex scenes on film... but when she first exchanged sex for money, she lost it. Lost it. Clearly this was a woman who had no issue with making money by using her body, had no issues with her sexuality... but when she became a prostitute, she had a complete breakdown. She thought she was good with being a whore, but when it came right down to it, she wasn't. That was a boundary she didn't know she crossed until it was too late. Lots and lots of therapy ensued. She ended up becoming a born-again christian, who from what I understand, became very, very vanilla.

This seems to be a difference between the genders... a man can be a gigolo and he'll be admired by men and women may think "well, he is high sexed"... but a woman may go into a depression that she's a whore forever. I use that word because a- you say your wife used that word, b- the woman I'm referring to used that word, c- many other people will use that word and they won't intend it to be nice. This could be a label your wife may carry for the rest of her life and you may not understand why she can't just put it down.

Maybe try role-playing this first. If that scratches the itch, let it be. Don't risk illegal activity and potential life-altering changes.
 

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Couple things I'd encourage you and your wife to really think long and hard about prior to undertaking...

1- Is this truly a mutual fantasy, or is this just something she's willing to go along with? The women of this site are often asked for insight on how to talk a female partner into something the male wants to do. Your words of saying "she's good with it" don't convey this is something that she is initiating. It should be, because it's her body and she's the one doing the act. I'd suggest asking her point blank because...

2- once you go down this path, you can't undo it. I know of a woman who had been a stripper, had done nude modeling, had even done hardcore sex scenes on film... but when she first exchanged sex for money, she lost it. Lost it. Clearly this was a woman who had no issue with making money by using her body, had no issues with her sexuality... but when she became a prostitute, she had a complete breakdown. She thought she was good with being a whore, but when it came right down to it, she wasn't. That was a boundary she didn't know she crossed until it was too late. Lots and lots of therapy ensued. She ended up becoming a born-again christian, who from what I understand, became very, very vanilla.

This seems to be a difference between the genders... a man can be a gigolo and he'll be admired by men and women may think "well, he is high sexed"... but a woman may go into a depression that she's a whore forever. I use that word because a- you say your wife used that word, b- the woman I'm referring to used that word, c- many other people will use that word and they won't intend it to be nice. This could be a label your wife may carry for the rest of her life and you may not understand why she can't just put it down.

Maybe try role-playing this first. If that scratches the itch, let it be. Don't risk illegal activity and potential life-altering changes.

Good points, thank you.

To your point, while the porn thing was her idea and I played along, this one has been mine.
 

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It actually started like this. She wants us to move to a bigger house. I joked that maybe we could pay for it by having her turn tricks (like Chandler asked Monica to do in "The one with the Boots"). She laughed and we got talking more about it.