My husband and I have been together for 15 years. I love him more than anything or anyone else in this world. We’ve both spent the last several years working to better ourselves physically, mentally, financially, and spiritually. We’ve grown to a highly-connected place where we’re finally feeling safe and free to begin to express our innermost thoughts and desires.
Our journey has led us to a place where we want to explore both our sexualities as a couple (I’m gay, husband is bi, lean gay) in a safe, fun, gay, open, and nude environment. We’ve landed on spending a Christmas weekend in Palm Springs.
We’re looking for ideas on places and experiences to try. We’re still working through our boundaries and what we may want to do, but so far we’re feeling:
*Clothing optional resort
*Body positive atmosphere for average guys
*Good crowd around our ages 43 & 40
*Healthy socialization
*Couples massage - both for stress/sports recovery and sensual from two strong beefy men.
*Nature fun
*Bathhouse/steam/sauna/spa
*Fitness/gym: both for actual fitness but also for fun
*Sling
*Voyeur/exhibitionist fun
*Possible 3threesome/group fun: either watching or being watched, maybe random walk-in
*Possible MMF fun
*Possible trans fun
At this stage in our journey, we would consider ourselves Vanilla with a fun swirl. Things that we’re not really into:
*Overly extreme, hard core, rape fantasy, or aggressive touching places
*Overly kinky/Pig Play
*Unsafe activity: bug chasing, unprotected anal. We’ll both be recently mpox vaccinated and COVID and flu boosted; we’re TBD on PrEP
*Hardcore drugs (weed ok)
*Individual play: we’re in this as a couple and it’s built on trust. We’ve set a hard boundary that we’re in this together 100%.
We would love any suggestions or sharing that you may have.
Our journey has led us to a place where we want to explore both our sexualities as a couple (I’m gay, husband is bi, lean gay) in a safe, fun, gay, open, and nude environment. We’ve landed on spending a Christmas weekend in Palm Springs.
We’re looking for ideas on places and experiences to try. We’re still working through our boundaries and what we may want to do, but so far we’re feeling:
*Clothing optional resort
*Body positive atmosphere for average guys
*Good crowd around our ages 43 & 40
*Healthy socialization
*Couples massage - both for stress/sports recovery and sensual from two strong beefy men.
*Nature fun
*Bathhouse/steam/sauna/spa
*Fitness/gym: both for actual fitness but also for fun
*Sling
*Voyeur/exhibitionist fun
*Possible 3threesome/group fun: either watching or being watched, maybe random walk-in
*Possible MMF fun
*Possible trans fun
At this stage in our journey, we would consider ourselves Vanilla with a fun swirl. Things that we’re not really into:
*Overly extreme, hard core, rape fantasy, or aggressive touching places
*Overly kinky/Pig Play
*Unsafe activity: bug chasing, unprotected anal. We’ll both be recently mpox vaccinated and COVID and flu boosted; we’re TBD on PrEP
*Hardcore drugs (weed ok)
*Individual play: we’re in this as a couple and it’s built on trust. We’ve set a hard boundary that we’re in this together 100%.
We would love any suggestions or sharing that you may have.