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It’s often said that anger exposes one’s true self. If someone can kill in a fit of rage. Is it truly out of the ordinary ? Or is it perceived that way because no one truly knows anyone’s mental status. If a woman such as Halle Barry is the exception of what an acceptable black woman is by many white men who refuse to take their toast any darker as that radio host put it. Then is it out of the ordinary for Halle’s ex-husband to call her a N*** ?
 
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It’s often said that anger exposes one’s true self. If someone can kill in a fit of rage. Is it truly out of the ordinary ? Or is it perceived that way because no one truly knows anyone’s mental status. If a woman such as Halle Barry is the exception of what an acceptable black woman is by many white men who refuse to take their toast any darker as that radio host put it. Then is it out of the ordinary for Halle’s ex-husband to call her a N*** ?

Maybe the takeaway is that many of us "perfectly normal people" have violent and/or racist capabilities within us. Better to acknowledge and work against those impulses than to deny their existence.
 
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It’s often said that anger exposes one’s true self. If someone can kill in a fit of rage. Is it truly out of the ordinary ? Or is it perceived that way because no one truly knows anyone’s mental status. If a woman such as Halle Barry is the exception of what an acceptable black woman is by many white men who refuse to take their toast any darker as that radio host put it. Then is it out of the ordinary for Halle’s ex-husband to call her a N*** ?

I don’t know, you would have to ask Halle Berry if he had a habit of using that word while they were married.

like I said, it’s very possible for someone to use that word in an effort to really hurt someone mentally, and still not have any subconscious racist feelings about the black race as a whole. Especially If the person doesn’t know the history of the power that were once had.
 

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I don’t know, you would have to ask Halle Berry if he had a habit of using that word while they were married.

like I said, it’s very possible for someone to use that word in an effort to really hurt someone mentally, and still not have any subconscious racist feelings about the black race as a whole. Especially If the person doesn’t know the history of the power that were once had.
What adult is ignorant of the history of the N-word?
 

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Who on this planet doesn’t know that ?

I'm guessing most humans don't. I just asked one of my Brazilian friends, and she says most of her countrymen are unfamiliar with the term and its place in the Anglosphere. Further, she says they often instead use the term 'negro', and are unaware that it would have any offensive connotations.
 

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I'm guessing most humans don't. I just asked one of my Brazilian friends, and she says most of her countrymen are unfamiliar with the term and its place in the Anglosphere. Further, she says they often instead use the term 'negro', and are unaware that it would have any offensive connotations.

Interesting. I stand corrected then.
 
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What adult is ignorant of the history of the N-word?

Looks like malakos already touched on it. Outside of America, hardly any. I’ve heard kids in other countries spouting off the n-word right and left, completely innocently of course. And when I asked them where they’ve heard of it, it was always “from music” oddly enough. Surely they typically grow up bit knowing the full history of the word—and who can fault them, really.

Meanwhile, inside America, there are a ton of people who know that it’s an offensive word. And they probably even have a rough idea of WHY it’s offensive, and what it relates to. But given education in America, I doubt most Americans who use the word REALLY know how much of a punch that word packs when it is used around the wrong people.

I would wager if you were to ask the average American about the impact of the word, the answer they’d give you would be something very simple... probably along the lines of “well it was used during times of slavery and segregation and it was just a word they used back then when referring to black people.”

Those who know better obviously know it isn’t “just a word”

remember back when Justin Bieber was under fire for the video that came out of him telling a joke as a kid that had the n-word in it? He was probably like 12 at the time the video was made. I can guarantee you, at that age, kids have a rough idea of American history—maybe not the details, but they know slavery and segregation was a think. I bet when he made that joke, he thought he was saying nothing more offensive than a swear word... like “fuck” or “shit.” Nonetheless, I highly doubt him using the word highlighted any particular hatred he had for black people in general—he was just ignorant.


Edit: just looked it up. Beiber was 15 at the time. So of course he had a rudimentary understanding of American history at that time, yet still used the word ignorantly
 
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Looks like malakos already touched on it. Outside of America, hardly any. I’ve heard kids in other countries spouting off the n-word right and left, completely innocently of course. And when I asked them where they’ve heard of it, it was always “from music” oddly enough. Surely they typically grow up bit knowing the full history of the word—and who can fault them, really.

Meanwhile, inside America, there are a ton of people who know that it’s an offensive word. And they probably even have a rough idea of WHY it’s offensive, and what it relates to. But given education in America, I doubt most Americans who use the word REALLY know how much of a punch that word packs when it is used around the wrong people.

I would wager if you were to ask the average American about the impact of the word, the answer they’d give you would be something very simple... probably along the lines of “well it was used during times of slavery and segregation and it was just a word they used back then when referring to black people.”

Those who know better obviously know it isn’t “just a word”

remember back when Justin Bieber was under fire for the video that came out of him telling a joke as a kid that had the n-word in it? He was probably like 12 at the time the video was made. I can guarantee you, at that age, kids have a rough idea of American history—maybe not the details, but they know slavery and segregation was a think. I bet when he made that joke, he thought he was saying nothing more offensive than a swear word... like “fuck” or “shit.” Nonetheless, I highly doubt him using the word highlighted any particular hatred he had for black people in general—he was just ignorant.


Edit: just looked it up. Beiber was 15 at the time. So of course he had a rudimentary understanding of American history at that time, yet still used the word ignorantly
There are levels to non black use of the N word..but I dont think any of them stem from an ignorance of knowing it is a word that is specifically derogatory for black people. Its use may very well not be indicative of a malicious, or active hatred of black people, but it definitely signifies a passive hatred or an apathy at best for a particular subgroup of people based upon their ancestry and ethnicity. Canada has black people...perhaps their experience didnt exactly mirror the specific horrors of the US, but it runs pretty parallel with the African experience in the English speaking world, which means a Canadian kid that has the good sense to not say that slur in the presence of other black kids and adults has a better understanding of the choices in words he makes amongst his white peers than a lot of people want to give him credit for.
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a fit of anger can make perfectly normal people do things they wouldn’t normally do. Even kill.

if a person who wouldn’t normally kill can be driven to kill, why wouldn’t it be possible for someone who normally doesn’t use the n-word as part of their vocabulary to suddenly use it?

bullshit. If your first inclination is to use the n word against a Black person because you're angry, that word is definitely apart of your vocabulary.

the mental gymnastics people do to excuse racism is pathetic.
 
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There are levels to non black use of the N word..but I dont think any of them stem from an ignorance of knowing it is a word that is specifically derogatory for black people. Its use may very well not be indicative of a malicious, or active hatred of black people, but it definitely signifies a passive hatred or an apathy at best for a particular subgroup of people based upon their ancestry and ethnicity. Canada has black people...perhaps their experience didnt exactly mirror the specific horrors of the US, but it runs pretty parallel with the African experience in the English speaking world, which means a Canadian kid that has the good sense to not say that slur in the presence of other black kids and adults has a better understanding of the choices in words he makes amongst his white peers than a lot of people want to give him credit for.
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I’m sure they know it’s a derogatory word directed at black people. But I doubt most people actually know the IMPACT the word has when when wielded in such a way against them.
 
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You'd be surprised. I've come across white women who would suck my dick and fuck me but god forbid their families find out.

Ever think that might be because their families harbor more racism than themselves?
 
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bullshit. If your first inclination is to use the n word against a Black person because you're angry, that word is definitely apart of your vocabulary.

the mental gymnastics people do to excuse racism is pathetic.

Not trying to excuse it. Trying to EXPLAIN a possibility for it.


This is LITTERALLY a quote of the post I made when addressing it:

“don’t get me wrong, I’m not excusing his use of the word—obviously it’s unacceptable, and indefensible.”

what part of that didn’t you understand, so I can make it clearer for you? Christ, the patience I must have to put up with these liars....
 
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How is a word that is widely used against a group of people a personal attack ?

many people don’t understand that the word ISNT a personal attack, and use it as such. People who arent as educated on the history of the word may be inclined to call a black person they don’t like the n-word, but they wouldnt use it with a black friend or black stranger.

a true racist would happily call a black stranger the n-word without ever interacting with them or knowing them.

If you want to come to an agreement on the matter, I would say the people using the n-word in this way are being ignorant. Ignorant about the racist word they are using. But that doesn’t necessarily mean they have to harbor racist feelings towards the black race as a whole.
 
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