Originally posted by duracock9x6@Jan 28 2005, 02:03 PM
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Well this thread has really gone haywire. One thing that has come up is southern expressions. Let me talk about southern hospitality. I was taught to be gracious. There are some guys here that I would just adore to see full body poses. But I would never asked them to give them to me. I might hint. :excl: But I am not going to call their names either in private or on pubic forum and ask as much as I want too.
I was also taught that I would not like some people very well. I would not believe some of their stories. I was taught to be gracious and leave it alone unless it actually was important such as how long they really worked and how much I owed them. I have heard college stories and I suspect they have been embelished. Some are hilarious to hear and some are not. But I don't tell people that they are bad storytellers. So yes, on this forum, there have been some posters that I wondered about if they were exagerating, but that is true in real life and we deal with it all the tme. People exagerate about how long it took to do this. How hot it was on vacation and on and on. So I take all of this with a grain of salt and go on. I am not going to tell someone that I think that are a pompous ass or whatever without very good just cause even though I may think that privately.
So we all have to know that we are going to like some people here better than others. That is true in the real world. That is life. We owe no explanation for that. But it is rude to announce that to the whole crowd verbally or in writing. No need to humiliate or embarrass someone with this piece of truth.
We adults must be very careful in dealing with young people. Legally that is through age 18. But really it is through age 21 or so depending on the young person. They are not through maturing in mental, emotional or physical development. They have so many questions. And they aren't sure what they are going to look like and for most of them having this new adult body is something still somewhat new. They are very concerned about physical issues and don't know the answers unless they have taken the time to really research them. But we adults because we have lived longer and done more research either just by living or actually using a book or the internet know some of these answers. We have a moral obligation to help these young people grow into adulthood. They need to be welcomed into adulthood. They are eager to be adults and we should help them all we can to achieve that goal.
Overlord has problems. Do I know for sure just what kind of problems. No, I don't. But you can rest asssured that he has my full support through whatever he has to deal with whether it be mental, emotional, physical, or all three. That is my calling to deal with young people and I remember the hell I went through with puberty and growing up and not knowing answers and not feeling secure with myself. That is part of being that age. I will help any young man through that if I can.
Then Overlord has physical problems to add to that. I am sure he is scared shitless. We are all worried about his penis. We have forgotten that an oversized heart could kill him. A liver out of control could wreck his health. Here is a young man wondering what is going to happen to him. He came here to deal with penis issues. Rest assured he is dealing with those other issues somewhere else. And if I were a betting man, I would say that he is more concerned about whether his tongue will get to the point that he can't talk. I suspect he is more worried that his penis will mess up and he can't urinate without some medical procedure.
Overlord, I just skimmed over this whole thread. Son, I will support you emotionally as much as I can. YOu can pm me anytime. If you do I will give you my e-mail address. I can't fix your body. But I will be there for you. And I know others on this forum that will do the same. Several have already.
You keep coming back son. I think about you and look at my boys and wonder how they would feel. Yes, a tear comes up when I think about it. I feel guilty that I just didn't realize how serious it is and how worried you must be.
Yes, I am a softie and I know it. I am not well myself. But I get great satisfaction knowing that I have helped some young person get through a rough situation.
I don't think some here really read all your posts and realzie what is going on. The motto that I follow is Forgive them, they haven't realized what they have done. They don't really realize that you are sick. It may not help them, but it certainly will help you to let go of any hurts that have been assailed to you.
To the other young people who felt victimized, just remember that the vast majority of adults love young people. Some of us would rather give up our lives then to see you lose your own. You are our future and we love you and don't like seeing you victimized by an adult in any way. We abhore such behavior. Sure, you can pm me anytime and ask any question. I suppose if you posted your pictures, I would see them before I even realized that they belonged to a teenager. If you sent a picture of your penis because you thought there was something wrong, I suppose I would tell you what I thought just like a doctor would. But never, would I ask for pictures of teenagers to guak at and I am not going to get all sexed up over teenage boys. You are not really adults yet in body, and emotions and so that is so wrong to do. Adults who do that should be ashamed fo themselves.
In closing you guys under 25 that have been raked over the coals and felt victimized, for the mature adult world I apologize. And rest assured that the vast, vast majority of people on this forum agree. And we will support you in any way we can in your changing from being a teenager into a true mature adult. Any question, comment or just an "internet" hug is there if you need it.
I love young people. Precious in the sight of God are our young people. We adults have been given the awesome responsibity to nurture them. We must never forget it.
