Women, I'd like your advice on how to handle addressing some issues with a new partner. Maybe some men have faced similar issues. I used to have no problems getting and maintaining an erection. Girlfriend's complimented me on my stamina. That all changed when I became severely depressed, which has lasted for almost 10 years now, but is seemingly greatly diminished. The medications I was on interfered significantly. I haven't functioned normally sexually since 2003, and have had only one 5 month GF in that time and attempted casual sex a couple of times 18 months ago. With the ex-GF from 5 years ago and the attempted casual sex (one time I got hard, the other I didnt) I suffered doubly: troubling getting & staying hard and coming way too fast when I could get hard. I anticipate becoming sexual with someone I went out with once and will see again, whom I find extremely attractive, in perhaps the next week. I don't know what my functioning will be like since it's been so long since I've tried to have sex, so long since I've functioned adequately, and now that I'm off some meds and others have been cut back. I mostly worry that I won't have much stamina. I think I'll need to retrain my body to read my arousal and adjust so that I can hold off coming until I want because I haven't really had a serious sex life in so many years. I have a Cialis Rx. I've taken 10mg on 2 different occasions when alone to see how it affected me. It greatly increased my sex drive--multiple masturbation sessions in one day (2-4), no trouble with erections, and the effects lasted for up to 4 days, tapering off. I dont know if Ill need it, but at least I have it. But I dont think it will help with the stamina issue. I'm thinking that if we get to the point where we're about to have intercourse that I want to comment on my history to let her know that my performance will probably not be so great. I have no reason to believe that I won't get my stamina back with enough "practice," but I'm sure it will take a while. What do you think of me saying something like, Ive had some problems due to medications that Ive been on, but there have been changes in that, and I havent had sex in a longtime, so Im not sure how well Ill function now. It might take me a while to get things back in order, but I really want you right now. Just want you to know there might some issues, and they dont have anything to do with you. ? What would be a good way to address this? Its really embarrassing coming so quickly (a couple of minutes) when I used to be able to last a really long time whenever I wanted. Thanks.