Facials: degrading or expressions of love?

[Skull Mason]

I come on command wherever the girl tells me to. More than a few times I have been asked to come on her tits, stomach, ass, back, and yes, face. Some girls love come in their face, there is nothing wrong with it. It is like saying if a girl has sex with more than one guy she is a slut. Its all just taboo shit that someday people will hopefully grow out of.

Some women actually get turned on by the virile warrior seed, and lust to have it all over them.

 

[Kallisti]

n fact, there were a number of women interviewed that said they had little or no choice concerning facials, anal sex, and not using condoms. In addition, there is a big problem with STD and even HIV because of the porn industry's practice of not using condoms.

All of us have a choice about anything we do. These people who work in the adult film industry who claim they didn't have a choice, what they mean is they didn't have a choice IF they still wanted to work in their chosen field. I work in an office for an internet distributor of household appliances where we are required to adhere to a dress code. Now I guess technically you could say I don't have a choice of what I can wear or not wear. But the truth is, I could go back to being a gardener or a construction worker if I felt strongly enough about wearing jeans and t-shirts whenever I want. Also, people in the adult film industry are required by law to get tested for STDs and AIDS every 30 days and must adhere to many other safety rules (and laws) that they 'don't have a choice about' in order to work in their chosen field.

Besides, what do women think men get all over their face when we go down on them, aquafina bottled water?

True that. I pretty much take a facial every time I go down on a woman. But then again, I enjoy it.

If a person doesn't want bodily fluids on their face, don't put them there. If you don't want to deposit bodily fluids on someone's face, don't. But if you want to and they are cool with it, then hey- where is the harm?

 

[abaco]

But the truth is, I could go back to being a gardener or a construction worker if I felt strongly enough about wearing jeans and t-shirts whenever I want.

This is true, except it neglects the effects of a lifetime of repression on the human mind. A woman raised to believe she is inferior to men, especially one who has not received a decent education (or even a normal socializing) may feel a complete lack of agency, or control, in her own life. A first-timer who enters a room with several other men ready to shoot a scene may further be afraid to speak up against their wishes by simple intimidation. If she's desperate for a paycheck, she may subject herself to just about anything so she can get it over with and get out of there. In some cases she might even think there is something WRONG WITH HER if she can't subject herself to humiliation that seems de rigueur. It's still a humiliation even if she is compensated financially.

And I don't think most young women really see professional gardening or construction as a viable option for them. I think you yourself have far more options, and thus MORE choice, than an 18-year-old with no skills except the use of her body.

 

[Magnum10x2]

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[jenni79xxx]

I think that we are all different; some feel degraded and hate it while some feel degraded and love it...some feel loved and some just let the guy do it because they love him...for myself - I never feel loved, but sometimes I let the guy do it because I like the dirty feeling or becuase I really like the guy...

 

[D_Dolly Pharton]

I personally find it degrading!!! I don't allow that on my face no matter how much I love the guy etc not gonna happen. I'm ok with it anywhere else (cept my hair lol) but I'd prefer it to be inside me (and inside the condom as well)!! But when its not I do like to be able to lick it afterwards. I don't know why girls would want a guy to do that on their face.. maybe low self esteem... lots of girls will do whatever men want just to be liked or feel love.. who knows but I think it's disrespectful and degrading and just gross

 

[D_Drew Peacock]

I think it depends on the woman and perhaps as much on the relationship between her and the man. Some women, like my wife, just don't like oral at all, not giving and not often wanting to receive either. It is a matter of personal preference. Making it a political statement is an interesting exercise but is largely irrelevant to what happens on a given night between two consenting adults in the privacy of their room.

IMHO, porn is just destructive as it normalizes the unusual and twists sex, taking the private and dragging it into the public sphere. I would be delighted to have my wife enjoy giving and receiving oral pleasure as I think it would add to our repertoire of ways to please each other. That just is not likely to happen so I will love her in the way she wants to be loved. That is what love is, giving the person what they want, not imposing what you want as a demand. The latter just doesn't work anyway in a relationship.
It just breeds resentment and resistance and pushes people apart.

 

[B_Demention]

I can see why it appears degrading, but I do hope people know it's got nothing to do with men wanting to put women in their place or anything - it just feels good and looks hot - there's no intentional maliciousness or belittlement behind it.

 

[B_Bette]

Do you feel "loved" and "appreciated" when a guy blasts one in your eye?

It's all about the situation/context. With the right man, if the chemistry and dynamic are exactly what we both need, if he rocks in the sack, if we're in love....I want his jizz all over me.

Otherwise, in most other situations, if the love isn't there, if it's casual, jizz is just...jizz.

 

[ourkid]

Myself, i'm a pleaser........if it turned a girl on to do something to me, i'd do it. Whatever it is, within reason, I would do it. It would turn me on just to see her turned on or get off.

With facials, I feel the same. Its something that really turns me on and my GF knows it so she lets me do it. Its just so unbelievably hot to see my cum on her face and I can tell it gets her turned to see me so turned on by looking at her. I know it would be easy to make her feel degraded so I have to handle it right. We don't do it all the time either, its just one of those naughty things you do every now and then. Its damn hot though when we do it and i'll just stand there and tell her how beautiful she looks with my cum on her face.

I don't understand why women would find it degrading if you do it with someone you love who wants to please you anyway they can

 

[Darpon]

I never knew that it was degrading until other people said so. I've never seen it as degrading. I'd say spanking women, pulling their hair, or hurting them in other ways would be degrading, but women spank themselves, or ask for it, and one of the women here told me how I should try pulling on the girl's hair during sex. So, you know, it's all perspective.

Personally, I don't think of it as having her get down below me so I can cum on her and degrade her/put her in her place/boost my ego/prove how manly I am. I've never seen it that way; I just think a girl getting cum all over her face is REALLY hot. And if the girl laughs because it's ridiculous how much she's getting covered? REALLY HOT.

Personally, I'd love it if a girl were to be jacking me off while we were both standing, and I could shoot it on to her face without warning. I'd just want to see the surprise on her face and hope she finds it as funny/hot as I do.

Personally for the third time in a row, I just think cum looks hot on a girl. On her breasts, on her face, on her stomach, on her back, wherever is hot. And it's the hottest when she laughs about it.

I don't find it degrading at all, and if and when I get a girl, I hope she wouldn't find it degrading either.

 

[ourkid]

Nice post Darpon.........I completely agree. I think most women have us figured completely wrong on this subject!

 

[LizC]

I don't think it's an expression of love, but I do think it's very hot. It makes me feel dirty and sexy, like a little slut. Once, I got to blow 3 guys and have them cum on my face, and I scooped it all up with my fingers and ate it- YUM! Its my favorite thing to do, but I know I am in the minority. But as far as I am concerned, nothing better than a hot creamy load.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

My husbands semen and where it goes has no reflection on how much he loves me. If he wanted to do it on my face i would let him, but i wouldnt prefer it there. Thankfully he's never asked and hates it in porn as much as i do.

I have a hard time with shower water dripping in my eyes. It would be rather physically unpleasant for me personally.

We have sex in the dark a lot of times and he pulls out maybe once a year.

 

[Lng_1]

The way I figure, if my wife wants my cum in her mouth, who am I to say "no"? If she wants me to cum in her pussy-- no problem. On her breasts-- I'm there! No matter where she wants it, I'll be happy to comply..... But the idea that if I cum on her face I am degrading her, makes no sense to me. It is like a man saying that if she doesn't swallow, she doesn't love me..... GIVE ME A BREAK!

 

[javyn]

Why is it when a woman wants to be indulged her partner is expected to...yet when a man has a request, such as a facial, it's always met with hostility?

I don't think it's the facial that's at issue here, you can replace "facial" with lots of things.... it seems that "degrading" is anything a man might enjoy that isn't a woman's idea in the first place.

So many here talk about dumping men for not going down on them. Fair enough. But fair is fair, if she refuse s to take it on the face, I dump her. To me it's just being a selfish lover, and not worth my time.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Why is it when a woman wants to be indulged her partner is expected to...yet when a man has a request, such as a facial, it's always met with hostility?

I don't think it's the facial that's at issue here, you can replace "facial" with lots of things.... it seems that "degrading" is anything a man might enjoy that isn't a woman's idea in the first place.

So many here talk about dumping men for not going down on them. Fair enough. But fair is fair, if she refuse s to take it on the face, I dump her. To me it's just being a selfish lover, and not worth my time.

How do you manage to find a girlfriend at all. Look at your post history....you have a vile and rude attitude about women all across the board. It's not just about sex with you. Why don't you go back and read the other reponses in this thread. I'd say that most women had a pretty gracious attitude about letting their man do it if they wanted to, but they don't prefer it there. I think most good women would do something to please their man in bed.

 

[javyn]

I did read all the responses it's nothing but trite bolstering "oh i'd never let my man..." and hypocrisy. I realize though how most men these days are neutered no matter what their size (ie, HazelGod), but a real one wouldn't stand for that crap.

And don't give me the "review your history" spiel. You accused me of misogyny after my very first post because my taste in porn differs from yours. Again, it can be summed up by one word, "hypocrisy".

You can ad-hom all you want and continue to troll around on every thread I post on like you have been doing. Doesn't change the fact that you are a hypocrite.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I think my husband and i usually don't ask the other person to do what they don't particularly enjoy. There are times we do things just because the other person likes it, but i dont think i would ask for it much if i knew he didn't enjoy it much.

I agree there are some women that are complete and utter bitches with hypocracy, but i equate sucking cock with eating pussy. Taking a jizz load all over your eyes and hair is not the same thing as eating pussy, unless she pisses a load on his face.

 

[javyn]

And what's wrong with piss-play? Whom is demeaned, the pisser or pissee?