Pass. Seems degrading/demeaning... something a guy does TO a woman as opposed to WITH her.
Something struck me as funny with this, since all the oh yeses for receiving were dudes.
I’ve answered this before. It’s partner dependent. As in two partners, non sequential. So, not something I seek, at all.
The first was probably not intended. Wasn’t his general style. (He's why I joined) It was surprising, and erotic. I’d say hot, but that stuff cools far too quickly.
I had a rebound relationship, then came home, started dating an older guy.
We play with external orgasms a lot. No real reason other than play.
He’s a visual guy through and through, so I’m assuming that is a part.
It’s funny, I don’t think I’d ever ask for it out of the blue. But in the heat of the moment, if he asks where, I might answer with it. But, I know he likes it, I don’t mind it and it’s sometimes a kick for my libido.
I’ve asked why he likes it, and his answers have been on the visual side and, in a vulnerable moment, about acceptance. We talked more deeply about it, on both sides. A good convo.