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I had the same experience for the first time yesterday. Just walked around the changing boned up and loved it. Even knocked out a quickie in the sauna as it was empty (I cleaned up...)
 

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It took forever for me to be comfortable naked in front of people... but Ive never boned up... Hell if I had a semi, Id prolly just be glad, always seems I have the shrinkage in the locker room. lol
 
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If I started to get hard, I thought of grandma getting hit by a mail truck. Morbid, but works.

Just thinking about my mother-in-law has the same effect on me. That kills a chub in less than a second! :biggrin1:
 
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If you dont flaunt it no problem. You can hide it abit. The more times you shower the less it will feel awkward. I get them too. I'd say most guys do. Good luck. The other guys are probably jealous.....

Ditto.

Anymore, people dont care. Hard or soft you are there for a well deserved shower.

The more you do it the more comfortable you will be. If you do get hard...dont lean over a walk funny. Just act like you dont even know it and go on with your business.
 

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I confess I got a 3/4 erection this morning at the gym. I'd already finished my workout laps, shaved, and showered. I stepped into the warm sauna to dry off. Warm sauna's on cold days are like heaven to me, so that alone probably firmed me up. As I'm drying off, my penis thought it was a good time to wake up too. While I'm drying off with my back to the door, someone else stepped in to dry off too. He had to have seen everything, but I just finished drying off like normal. I don't think I was giving a show, but you'd have to ask the other guy's opinion. Sometimes an erection just happens. 3 minutes later at my locker, no boner, no problem.
 

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Lots of erections plainly in sight in the NYU gym showers, especially in the evening.
 

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I have to chime in on this one. Ever since I was a teen anytime I would strip naked I would get an instant hard on! That was true even if I was at home alone in the shower. So I was petrified when I joined a sport team and everyone had to take a shower. I remember just having to RUN in and out as fast as I could so I could grab my towel to cover up what I viewed as my ever-growing problem!! Like most of the people here said, as you do it more and more it will become easier. I still have can have an issue when I’m in a strange gym or nude beach even today. Key is to relax! I know hard to do. Just keep your towel close by to cover up!

While it was an issue…. I’m glad I can still get a hard on at the drop of a hat!
 

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I have the opposite problem I get stage fright and go back inward like a damn turtle going into its shell!!!! LOL!!! But I think a lot of men have that issue and will pull at their penis to make it longer.

I'd rather have this problem...! :smile:
 
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With experience and age, you learn to control unwanted erections. I've been using open showers for 20+ years now, so no matter how hot the guy is showering with me, I don't get hard.
 
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I confess I got a 3/4 erection this morning at the gym. I'd already finished my workout laps, shaved, and showered. I stepped into the warm sauna to dry off. Warm sauna's on cold days are like heaven to me, so that alone probably firmed me up. As I'm drying off, my penis thought it was a good time to wake up too. While I'm drying off with my back to the door, someone else stepped in to dry off too. He had to have seen everything, but I just finished drying off like normal. I don't think I was giving a show, but you'd have to ask the other guy's opinion. Sometimes an erection just happens. 3 minutes later at my locker, no boner, no problem.

I have this EXACT problem!

I have to chime in on this one. Ever since I was a teen anytime I would strip naked I would get an instant hard on! That was true even if I was at home alone in the shower. So I was petrified when I joined a sport team and everyone had to take a shower. I remember just having to RUN in and out as fast as I could so I could grab my towel to cover up what I viewed as my ever-growing problem!! Like most of the people here said, as you do it more and more it will become easier. I still have can have an issue when I’m in a strange gym or nude beach even today. Key is to relax! I know hard to do. Just keep your towel close by to cover up!

While it was an issue…. I’m glad I can still get a hard on at the drop of a hat!

I'll share a trick with you guys that I used, so that I don't get hard in the open shower. As convenient as it is (in terms of clean up and the fact that you're already naked), do not masturbate in the shower at home. Once I stopped doing that, my subconscious stopped associating taking a shower with sexual gratification, and the erections stopped. That's not to say that I don't jerk one out when I get home thinking about the hottie(s) I took a shower with that day at the gym. I just don't do it in the shower at home.

If that fails, think of someone so absolutely reugnant to you getting it on, or focus on the oldest, ugliest, fattest guy in the shower (there's always one). Finally, give yourself a blast of cold water from the shower - they don't call it "shrinky dink" for nothing. If these tricks don't shut down a hard on, nothing will! :smile:

To be honest, I have seen young guys get hard/chub in the open shower. If they're not doing anything to encourage it, it doesn't bother me. We all have a dick and know how one works. That is, we all understand that unwanted erections happen at inopportune times. To me, it's the sign of being a healthy male. I have even taken it as a compliment when we are the only 2 in the shower, and the other guy starts getting hard. :tongue:
 
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When I read the title, I thought it meant "nudity in facing showers" and it reminded me of showers in the squash courts where I used to play. It was in a 1970 sports complex and there were big shower facilities near the gym, but the squash courts were some distance from these and there was a small dressing room with two showers in the same small area. It meant that you showered in very close proximity with your squash partner.

I would invite anyone who would come, especially from work, and sometimes when they saw the showers, they seemed a bit anxious about showering so close but I don't think anyone ever decided not to.

The complex was redesigned about 10 years ago and all the collective showers went - and now the complex itself has disappeared.
 

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It is good to hear about guys getting over the fear of being naked in the lockeroom/shower. I agree with most posts here, don't worry about the erection thing, I see it all the time in my local gym shower. Just do your thing, and if it happens don't do anything to bring attention to it. Just walk around like you don't even notice and keep doing whatever you are doing.