I have been recently catching up with old friends from high school and college and when i see pics of them, i am shocked. ALL of them have gained weight, gotten out of shape and are just not aging that well. has anyone else noticed this about their old friends from their youth? and what gets me is that they are all married and with kids. does being married and having kids really have to do that to people? there is one girl from college that looks even better than she did then, but other than that - wow. not a hundred percent good news.