I find that flamboyance offers a refreshing view on the masculine gender role. Maybe those flamboyant guys weren't acting. Maybe they can't be who you want them to be. They were just being themselves. I know three straight guys who act effeminate. One of which has a really big cock.
My boyfriend cries a lot. A lot. A whole lot. He cries when he feels patriotic. He cries when overcome with grief. He cries when overwhelmed by happiness. He cries when he's sick enough to be afraid. He cries when he is proud. He cries when he has accomplished something huge. The man cries. A lot. A whole lot.
His father doesn't think we are in love. I wanted him to tell him about how we held each other and cried when we realized that the love we had for each other was mutual and strong. He said,
"Yeah. Let's not tell my father anything about me crying. Ever. It's just not a good idea. Puerto Rican men are not supposed to cry. Not unless they are gay. And if I were gay... oh that would just be bad. Don't ever talk to my Dad about me crying. He already dislikes you enough."
LOL Yeah. People have some very rigid expectations of others. And we cannot always live in those tiny boxes.
I haven't sent you any love lately, dude. But I still feel it. :biggrin1: