Failing with sex?

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  1. flichenstein

    flichenstein Member

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    So me and my girlfriend have sex yesterday and it inly took like 5-10 min for me to cum, was kinda angry (yeah right) at myself.

    Cuming early seems to be back for me. So my question is, the only thing to do is like kegels right?

    No other good tips etc etc?
     
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    Take GABA and it helps you hold back just don't take too much or you'll get sleepy
     
  3. Joll

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    I'm the opposite - takes me forever. :(
    Wanna meet somewhere in the middle? lol.
     
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    What is GABA? ;o

    haha no ty ^^
     
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    LOL! :tongue:
     
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    What's the problem? Few minutes fooling around and go again. Bet you last longer second time. :biggrin1:
     
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    I've stopped in the middle a few times to fool around -

    and start all over again =] + longer foreplay
     
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    I've only had this problem with one girl before because she turned me on so much during sex. It was a crazy animalistic attraction, the kind where phone sex with her got me more worked up than full on sex with other girls. The thing is though, I would cum, then I'd go down on her for 10 or 20 minutes, recuperate while doing that, and I'd be right back at it.

    Now, if you have a longer refractory period, you can always masturbate a few hours earlier in the day. It's the same principle as don't be starving before going out to eat, or you'll eat to much. If you're super horny, you're going to blow your load too soon.
     
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    5-10 minutes is longer than the average guy so I wouldn't sweat that!

     
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    I'm with joll on this one. With my wife it seems that I can't cum very easily. We'd fuck for like 30 minutes and I would start getting soft and she would start drying up... Sometimes saying power is NOT such a great thing.
     
  11. flichenstein

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    hehe rly?
     
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    Yes start to do kegels try to do 200 after 2 weeks you can do 500
     
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    was on an anti-depressant , Celexa, talk about frustration of cumming to "soon", how about wanting to cum but it takes forever, your ass is cramping, and you run out of lube!. You can only go fast enough. When commercial of ant-depressants say no "sexual side effects" that is what it means. On Welbutrin back to normal. LOL
     
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    go slow....

    now if you want to orgasm but not cum then thats more difficult but possible "Keagal excersises will sort that out"
     
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    The "Stop and Start" exercise should help condition you to last longer. Once you can hit about 20-25 minutes on this exercise you'll have much better control as well.
     
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