Being faithful to your mate is always an issue, and very hard sometimes. I know that I have passed on getting pussy because it was the proper thing to do. A few times I had wished later that I had gone a head and done the deed. I was fortunate with my 3rd wife in that she was as adventuresome as I am. She had been with many guys and as we got to really know each other, found that she was not above giving a guy a good ride even when she was married. I mentioned one day that I usually was very faithful, but did like to have something going on, on the side. She told me that she was the same way, and that she was always looking for someone interesting (man or woman). I am not really sure why her and I are not still together. We were so much alike in many ways. I am curious what others have done or dealt with this subject.