I suppose it's all in what you're looking for. For me, this forum has been a Godsend in many ways. I now no longer want to be bigger after talking with Max and can see SO MANY more things from the female perspective after dialoging with Zora, TAG and Carolina. I have found underwear that fit and now know that some of my personal experiences have happened to other people.
I just don't have the time or energy to waste time trying to figure out who's who. I interact with who I want to interact with and live the rest of my life away from here. If some here are lying, God love 'em--that's on them. Lying doesn't put you in good graces with the God I believe in and he will judge-not me. As long as I tell the truth and stay true to who *I* am and get intelligent interaction from my friends here, what more could I ask for?
Many of the pics in the photo gallery are Photoshop fakes or stolen. Who cares? I take pride in ther fact that I do not lie--that I am who I say I am and who I present as. I stopped going to the gallery long ago after the novelty of it wore off. If I want to see a penis, I'll play with my own or IM a cam buddy.
Pretenders are a major part of the Internet. If you choose to let them stop you from getting what you want out of a forum, then they have won.