Faking it

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  1. hotwetkiss

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    Any of you girls been with a guy who you think may have faked an orgasm?

    I am pretty sure it happened to me once although I can't be 100% certain.
     
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    What makes you think that he faked it?
     
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    WoW, a guy faking it! I don't think I could fake it...it's pretty obvious when I orgasm lol.

    Isn't it pretty easy to tell? or are some guys different and thus hard to tell?

    Teflon
     
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    Well thats just it I wasn't too sure if this guy had cum. He done all the jerking and shuddering (lol) but as we were using condoms there were no telltale signs left behind as he took it with him to the bathroom (Sorry too much information but you know what I mean).

    But something aroused my suspicion and I thought to myself "this guy just faked that" really freaked me out.

    Felt really insecure for weeks after.
     
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    I'm sure it was nothing ;) It's not easy to fake at all for a guy(I am pretty sure) and most guys I know can finish fast enough to not bother even if they did feel the lnclination. I can't say I've ever felt the need to *shrugs*

    Is there anything specific that made you think he might be faking?

    Teflon
     
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    And if he did fake, so what?
     
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    I think there's a distinction between some one (male or fermale) who fakes to deceive on an ongoing basis and someone who gives all the signs of coming (and may be trying to orgasm) but may not actually do so (and does not make a big deal about whether or not they came, but gets into the passion with exclamatory noises nonetheless). Let me give an example here from the male perspective.

    When I was 17 -- no problem orgasming with ejaculate 4 times in 2 hours
    (and not screwing particularly well, but that's another story). I could have maybe 6 or 7 orgasms like that say over a 5 or 6 hour period. If I tried for another, I'd likely be shooting blanks but otherwise it would feel like an orgasm for me. And beyond that, I may still be able to get hard enough for screwing but not orgasm at all 'till I recuperated.

    Fast forward to my early thirties -- By then I'd learned to last longer, screw better, and time my orgasms with my partners' 99% of the time, if they were able to climax through penetration. I remember a session where a new gf was really getting into it .. we came together the first 2 times, with her giving me the signal both times. She wasn't getting sore and just wanted to keep going. She'd never experienced simultaneous orgasms like that with previous partners, and was having a ball. On times number three and four, I knew that if I ejaculated, that would likely be me done for a while .. she was "on a roll" [no pun intended] I didn't want to stop and negotiate strategy .. so when she told me those times she was about to come, I behaved in a similar way to times one and two, holding her more tightly, picking up the pace ever so slightly, and making some noise (but not actually screaming arggh: I'm coming). She had an appointment to go to, but we had enough time to do it a fifth time, and on that final time I did ejaculate and actually come with her.

    After that session, our onging lovemaking was usually one or two big o's together per session, which I could handle ok. I never felt bad about the 5-time session, and she never knew the difference. Was that deceitful faking?
    Too bad. LOL
     
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    I faked it once.

    I had a condom on, as I always do. I was really drunk, the person I was with had cum and was one of those people who got sore afterwards.
    I faked it, pulled out, excused myself and went to the bathroom to dispose of the wrapper.
     
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    I've orgasmed without cumming before, and not just after having several other orgasms. Sometimes I orgasm multiple times without cumming before having a final really intense orgasm that includes cumming. Perhaps the guy you were with had one of these mini-orgasms. Was there something else that happened besides no indication of cum that led you to believe he was faking it? A strange attitude on his part or something?
     
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    Don't like faking... I'd rather be told honesty. Whether I feel like crap or not is my own problem. :D


    Sure i've faked things in my life... but since I didn't learn how to orgasm myself until much later down the track, this is one area I wasn't allowed to stuff up in ^^
     
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    I thought my friend faked it too my frist time, but he assured me that he deffinatly didn't, he slept like a baby afterwards, and I knew he didn't fake.
     
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    I faked it a few times because I take too long to cum. In all honesty I wish I could cum quickly but it's just natures curse.
     
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    :confused:

    I did not think this situation was possible at all..

    How can a man fake an orgasm?
     
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    Ok..I mess up and double posted..
     
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    I have - not too dissimilar to Jeff. If you have a condom on, you can just make the same noises and actions as if you were having a real orgasm - surely I don't need to tell the ladies this? :biggrin1:
     
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    I've only faked an orgasm once. That was because I knew I wasn't going to cum, and my partner had already cum.

    (I have faked a better orgasm quite a few times, though).

    My advice is to not worry about it. You felt insecure for weeks???? Come on. It's his problem, not yours. If any of my partners were faking (and statistically, it's quite likely), they were just cheating themselves out of an orgasm.
     
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    Ops ..I forgot to read the posts...

    Thanks..I'm so distracted...

    Well, most men like to show the fruit of their aroused production with or without condons. I like seeds milk productions he made for me...dont remember ever see condom empty after a bang..hmmm.

    Well...I will double my attention now...:wink:
     
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    I suspect it happens more than people think. For whatever reason, some guys just take a long time to cum or actually have trouble cumming sometimes.
     
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    I wouldn't worry about it. I've had to fake it several times with my wife after we've partied too much. With whiskey dick, sometimes it just takes too long to cum and I can tell she is starting to hurt a bit, so I'll fake the orgasm to satisfy her that I've been satisfied. Of course, in the morning, once her head clears and with no evidence that I did cum, she "pretends" to be pissed at me, which leads to very satisfying orgasms for both of us. :)
     
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    Good ol'whiskey dick...
     
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