Fantasies...

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  1. dancinfool

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    I had been reading on jakinworld about fantasies and how fantasizing about men doesnt necessarily make you gay (straight guys worry, usually for no reason)


    I am straight (about 95%) and i estimate that i think about men 75% of the time and women 25% of the time. when i think about men, it is usually of them masturbating or having sex with other men or women. in fact, i usually only think about women if i have a girlfriend or if i am thinking about them having sex with men.

    what about you?
     
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    yer, you are the same as me. I think about men mostly when i masterbate, but i would only want a relationship with a women. Also, i prefer to see man on women sex than female on female or male on male. :)
     
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    yeah, i definately am not turned on by lesbian porn at all
     
  4. Imported

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    Javierdude22: This could be interesting..

    The same goes for me, yet I find myself in serious problems with my sexuality and would consider myself 50/50 on the sexuality scale. Maybe even more towards guys.

    I wonder though...on the streets...do you tend to turn your head or take that longer than 1 second peek at a dude? If so, what is the ratio in turning your head and looking between man and woman?

    Javier
     
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    I have only been with men and have only been attracted to men. However, I have had a person recently approach me about getting to know him and his girlfriend better. I asked specifically what that entailed but never received a direct response (I think I know where he is headed).

    To be completely honest though... I think I would never be able to be with a woman. I simply am not attracted to them, sexually (although I do think women have beautiful bodies - those who are in shape).

    Any other women feel that way or do you find yourselves sometimes wondering? Have any of you been approach with a similar proposal as the one I've shared?

    bb
     
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    If i am masturbating, its usually to someone i saw hot in the street (usually male, as I am gay), or somewhere, but if i am having sex, its strictly the person im with for the moment, my total concentration is on satisfying them and being a good, no great, sex-partner for them.
     
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    I don't think about "men" in general when I'm jerking off, but I do think about their big dicks fucking or getting sucked by some hot chick. And when their big dick starts to bust a nut, that usually does it for me too. So is that a fantasy about men or about big dicks?
     
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    Well, then, black10, you're pretty typical: Many males can fantasize about male genitals, but not the male body as a whole.
     
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    joe22xxx: Now this is a real honest comment. I like watching myself jerk off in a mirror. So I guess that's getting horny looking at a male body. What if it's MY body? B)
     
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    Right there with you, Joe. If I am on cam masturbating, it turns me on to watch myself, but I am not into other women at all. I like to think about great sex I've had with men, or about men jerking off or having sex with each other, but it's always all male.
     
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    I'd say that what I fantasize about and what I want are too different things.
     
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    Well, BB, You seem to be going through the same feelings my girlfriend is going through. Although, she wants to try it at some point. She has told me she is somewhat turned on by good looking girls, but not really INTO them. She did, however, express her desire to try it out, just to see how it goes. (after all we are young)

    I told her, that I would rather her be one on one with a female first, to make sure this is something she is comfortable with. (I know, the male delegation is prolly calling me an idiot right now, but who cares?)

    I would suggest the same to you as I did to her: absolutely no feeling is wrong. If you are only slightly into women, fine. If not at all, or somewhere in the middle, that is also fine. with that in mind, regarding the proposal, just do whatever you like to. Nothing more, nothing less.

    Ken
     
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    this is getting interesting :lol:
     
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    I'm glad that that Jackinworld survey link is available. It's good to know that the men who responded were comfortable enough in answering these questions. I know it was hard for me to admit that more of my masturbation fantasies involve men than women, even though I consider myself more straight. (Or rather, that there's a whole lot that goes into determining which way one swings, and just because you find another hard dude kind of appealing, that it doesn't instantly peg someone as bi or gay. I'm sure some members differ.)
     
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    @Big Stuff:
    I agree. I know it'd be easier to do something with another man before doing something with a man and a woman (where we're doing something together; actually, one of my fantasies involves me doing a woman doggystyle while she sucks one of my friends or vice versa).
     
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    I think about men only when I strangle the ferret. I know some of you are thinking, "NO WAY!!!" :eek: :D
     
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    Although I do think about males and females in my jerking fantasies, there are limits: beastiality, violence and kink turn me completely off.

    But one thing to remember about fantasy is that it's a victimless 'crime.'
     
  19. D_Humper E Bogart

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    What can I say, being seduced by my boss is perfectly reasonably, even if she is plump and in her 50s...*drools*

    Shame I'm unemployed, but y'know.

    I tend to "go for broke" when it comes to fantasies, I used to end up picking up one kink a month, or something weird like that, but suffering is never my thing, although nihalism is weird.

    I don't truely believe I'll loose my virginity and then die horribly afterwards do I? :ph34r:
     
  20. Imported

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    JoeAgain: Bah figures dont have the right option for me.. :p
    Anyway, mostly girls, sometimes girls and guys, and every once in a while a big disembodied Godzilla size dick rampaging through dowtown tokyo.

    Can you add that option please? :D
     
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