Fantasies...

[13788]

LoveGirl: Umm...uhh...This wasn't designed much for women, so I didn't answer. 1. I don't masturbate, ever. & 2. I only think about my boyfriend. Not once have I thought about anyone else like that, he was my first, he's the most romantic person ever, our lives are perfect (cept the big penis...and my past), and I've never been unhappy. The few women that vote for 'men' can't be differed from the men who vote for 'men' so the intent and result of the poll is shot to chit, if you get my driftwood.

 

[D_Humper E Bogart]

Love Girl, I wouldn't be so harsh on people that are different.

Some people have different feelings, your loyalty to your b/f is admirable and if you don't masturbate then that's OK, but some women do and some have feelings that may be in contrast to their normal lives (I mean, nuns can't be that holy can they?)

The few women that vote for 'men' can't be differed from the men who vote for 'men

I don't believe the sexuality is symmetrical, I reckon gay men want something different than straight women.

I mean, having no babies is surely an advantage, no? :lol:

 

[Pecker]

My favorite fantasy is a simple one. I imagine I&#39;m on the down escalator at Neiman Marcus sniffing ladies panties, wearing a spiked dog collar, a pair of rubber speedos and 6" spiked heels while the candle wax on my nipples dries and all the while I&#39;m throwing shit at a fan. <_<

Ugh. I hate kink. Give me the movie star fantasy anytime. :wub:

 

[D_Humper E Bogart]

He ha ha&#33;

Just thinking about what Lovegirl said in another thread, emotional fantasies are really satisfying, y&#39;know, where you end up curling into a little ball afterwards, coo softly and dream of love....

OI&#33; STOP WANKING OVER ME&#33;&#33;

 

[madame_zora]

Pecker, you&#39;re killing me&#33;&#33; I found that kink got boring a lot faster than just about anything else I got into. And just for the record Orca, I can&#39;t help myself...

 

[SpeedoGuy]

Fantasies during sex/masturbation?

Not many fantasies occur during sex as I am usually concentrating too hard on the job at hand. During masturbation though, my fantasies mainly involve rehashing old encounters from the past. Often my mind will add some fictional variations to past flings and these are probably what I enjoy most. Its rare when I invent a completely new situation and fantasize about it.

SG

 

[13788]

blondeboy14: I usually fantasize about having sex with women, but sometimes I think about what it would be like to jerk off with my friends

 

[13788]

23cmargentina: all kinds of things...... even money&#33;

 

[B_RoysToy]

Pretty self centered, really. I&#39;m usually looking at my dick and thinking about how good it feels and looks. Most of my fantasizing takes place before jacking myself when some incident or thought gets me horny and wanting to take my cock in hand. The hot (and big) cocks you guys show in the gallery do their share of turning me on and getting things just right for the stroking session.

Keep posting the pix, guys,

Luke

 

[madame_zora]

And the choir sings, "Hallelujiah"&#33;&#33;

 

[D_Humper E Bogart]

This is going to sound so self-centred, but do you get turned on by your own genitals?

I even get aroused by my own pictures, it&#39;s weird, but watching myself become hard in the mirror is probably one of the sexiest things in the world for me.

Now all I need is a &#39;spectator&#39;.

 

[madame_zora]

Orca, I think from the posts I&#39;ve read that a LOT of guys get turned on by their own genitals, which is pretty easy to understand (especially for me&#33. Cocks just do a lot of cool stuff when aroused, which is exciting to see. To see the size, shape, colors, veins, everything change as you get aroused is pretty hot. Also, the act of jerking is very visual. Obvioulsy, shooting off is about as hot as any sex act can get, so you&#39;d have to be dead below the waist and above the neck not to get off watching yourself jerk off. I envy you guys that. With women, most of it is hidden and you just don&#39;t get to see what&#39;s going on, which is probably why female genitals are less interesting to look at for fantasy. I only like looking at mine if I&#39;m using toys, so I can see some movement&#33;

 

[D_Humper E Bogart]

Well, women&#39;s genitals are pretty decent as well&#33;

I never thought of it like that y&#39;know, but I&#39;m not sure if everyone sees an errection as "a ways to a means", or it&#39;s "the means in the first place."

 

[tracksuitboy]

Originally posted by dancinfool@May 19 2004, 08:48 PM
I had been reading on jakinworld about fantasies and how fantasizing about men doesnt necessarily make you gay (straight guys worry, usually for no reason)

OK folks, I just don&#39;t get this at all. If a man identifies himself as heterosexual then why does he fantasize over men or men&#39;s cocks when he&#39;s wanking? Surely this means that the supposed herterosexual man is not 100% straight after all? I am a 100% gay man and the straight-est I can ever get is watching straight porn and then only if I like the man (and/or his dick) - therefore my "fantasy" is still gay-based. Please would a straight man explain why he would fantasize over a man&#39;s cock?

 

[jonb]

Well, tracksuitboy, the female genitals are pretty much hidden. Also, there&#39;s the argument that "straight" means "preferring women". Basically, 10% of men prefer men, 82% prefer women, and 8% are even-split. This refers exclusively to sex; relationships with men and with women are different on numerous factors.

And then there&#39;s the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid, which is multiple dimensions, but the same 21 points, each on a scale of zero (hetero) to six (homo). The grid has seven rows which consist of:

Sexual attraction
Sexual behavior
Sexual fantasy
Emotional preference
Social preference
Self-identification
"Lifestyle" (This basically means if you affiliate more with straights [zero] or gays [six].)

From there, the Klein Grid adds three columns, representing past, present, and ideal. The basic point of the Klein Grid is that sexuality is more fluid. Kinsey&#39;s scale, while better than the "pop" three-point scale, was still only one-dimensional.

 

[D_Humper E Bogart]

Never knew there was so much into "sexual identity." It allows for a pretty briad range of personalities, that&#39;s for sure.