Fantasize about ex gf or bf?

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  1. Acoke

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    Anyone here ever fantasize about an ex gf or bf? Or wish you could go back and fuck them again? That after experiencing other things, they were better than you thought?

    I had a gf in college. Second girl i ever had sex with. I barely knew what i was doing. She was a petite brunette with big tits and now looking back, her pussy was the best i ever had. I didnt know how good it was then.

    Sometimes i wish i could go back and fuck her way better than i did it then and feel that pussy again.

    Anyone else ever think about stuff like that? Tell me about it.
     
  2. D_Forrest_Hump

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    I had an ex bf who I was very physically attracted to. However, things got ugly and the relationship ended. When I think of the guy now, I get turned off and want to erase him from my head.

    However, I still guiltily feel turned on by fantasizing about him from time to time. I had my first wet dream ever a few weeks ago and he was in it.

    But I don't like it. Because I don't like the guy anymore at all.
     
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    Yep, I fantasize about having a 3some with my ex.
     
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    I fantasize. but non sexual things. ;)
     
  5. HORNY IN MIDWEST

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    Yep, find myself thinking about all the sex we had, and how good it was. It'll never happen but its fun to think about sometimes.
     
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    My ex-GF was a total bitch in the end but I still from time to time think about how fun sex was with her. She was a really tiny little thing and loved hard rough sex. I banged the hell out of her and she loved it!!!
     
  7. dolfette

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    never.
     
  8. avg_joe

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    Don't even have an ex. LMAO !!! I don't like a steady relationship with or a commitment to someone. Prefer an open relationship with no string attached.
     
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    Not really. I remember what worked and what went wrong. That is enough to take the wind out of my sails.
     
  10. B_Nia88

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    no my fantasies are very different
     
  11. ZOS23xy

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    Once in a while. But that's a lot of images to go through.
     
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    YES. I have one ex who was the best sex ever. I could do anything I wanted with/to her. Normally I would just take my dick out and she'd suck it, no messing. She loved sex too and would cum all the time, shove her tits in my mouth. She used to always squeal "oh my god, oh my god baybeeee". But not in a pornstar/artificial way. She actually meant it. This is the only girl who said "I love you" as soon as I put my dick in her. That is the sexual chemistry we had...

    There's another ex I fantasise about sometimes too, who is very similar to the ex I mentioned above but she's probably second on the list of all time greats. She's not really into the hard fucking, which my other ex was into, and the mad positions.
     
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    Just for reference. Usually the sex wasn't great fantasy material and that is why they are an ex.
     
  14. D_Harry_Ballz

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    Nostalgia for an ex always causes you to develop a complex
     
  15. Acoke

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    Thats so incredibly hot. The ex i posted about.... when i was fucking her she used to say "Show me. Oh my god... show me."

    The harder i fucked her.... the more she said it. I swear it would make me want to cum. Its that kind of stuff that i miss. And my wife is hot and talks dirty. But sometimes you just remember something that just makes you so hot you cant forget it.
     
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    that would be sweet a threesome with the ex????
     
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    Not so much fantasise but i reminisce when i hear a particular song. I used to date an older woman, filthy as you like and it was good. However she was bat shit crazy....

    If i ever went to hers and "Word Up" by Gun was playing that meant the kids were away and it was rough anal sex without a word being spoken.. No vaginal sex, no kissing, no speaking until we were done. Walk through the door, pull my trousers down, get me are and then nail her.

    Now every time i hear that song i get a semi at least .
     
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    Yes, it's pretty common and it's why I'm in good terms with my exes after we broke off as the sex is really good.

    But other then that, nothing good will come of it, keep the fantasy to sex alone.
     
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    I've been trying everything i can think of not to. The only thing that works is reading or video games. I need a life an i need one now lol.
     
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