Fantasy differ from sexuality

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Everyone has a fantasy, I'm wondering what other peoples are?

In terms of sexuality I consider myself a gay dude. Been with a couple of women but majority dudes, came out to the family and friends all that shit.

But still my biggest fantasy is to have a bisexual threesome with a dude and chick. It would seem cool to me to have the other dude almost act as if he is 'teaching me' how to please a chick. Demonstrates licking her out and then I copy what he does. He shows me the art of licking her clit and pleasing her. Sensually playing with nipples, just showing me how to please her. Making her wet of enjoyment before watching him slide in and out. Following suit copying his every action.

I just think the thought of the bromance within the act of having sex with a woman turns me on. I get a long with str8 guys more as all my interest are the same in sports etc and I think this extends from that. Plus I only have a couple of gay friends and they seem to be repulsed at the thought of a vagina and that seems strange to me, I've always felt more open in sexuality.

I'm wondering if anyone else has fantasy's that that differ from the norm of their sexuality?
 

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You are bisexual, even if you lean towards men. So your fantasy doesn't differ from your sexuality really. Maybe if you had a fantasy of a threesome with two women or the like, that'd be more of a difference.

For me, not really. All my fantasies are with women. However, I have had dreams in which during a threesome a guy would stroke my cock and the like. Whatever that means...
 

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LOL. Ok I think I have been taken out of context.

@bav4 The fantasy I described is actually a fantasy I would want to happen. Not something I can just get off to while wanking to porn, like a gangbang (sounds hot with porn stars in reality no).

@pcghabsy I honestly don't believe I am bisexual. But I look at sexuality different to others. I believe there is a spectrum, everyone has a percentage in which they enjoy sexual attention or actions with both men or women. I definitely think sexually I am much more attracted to women than my other gay friends but still have a larger percentage to men than women.

However, when it comes to a defining title of (gay, str8 or Bi) I determine this by the sex or sex('s) I would date. As I would only see myself in a relationship with another man, I determine myself to be gay.

But as I said this is just my point of view and everyone has a different one.
 

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I think I have "standard" and "luxury" fantasies.

So - most of the time it's just ordinary - two naked guys fucking, and I usually see myself as the top. Or occasionally a bit of leather/bdsm sex. And very occasionally some of that is with female subs rather than male.

But my full on 'luxury' fantasies are where I am something more than human. A sort of godlike vampire / demon. With even bigger muscles than I really have ( 4 or 5 times a week at the gym ), and big leathery wings. They kind of flap, appealingly, sprouting from my shoulders, as I get my cock sucked by my trembling victim.

So, nothing to worry about ... :smile:

:sasmokin:
 

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I have a bit of the same fantasy too of being taught by a couple on how to please the woman, Im still in my mid-late 20s and the few times ive swung its all been with couples who were from their 40s to mid 50s and all of them let me creampie the gf/wife. Ive watched a lot of porn, read some books on how to go about it and nina hartleys guide to eating pussy was really good imo, the desire and everything has to be there but I want the male and female to teach me how to how to hit the walls to make them feel good.

Of the couples ive swung with, 4 of them had bisexual bf/husband and all of them had a bit of a cuckold relationship in them(but it was never humiliation/degradation stuff), they all asked if I did anything with a guy and I told them no. One guy just asked and never brought it up again, second stroked my cock for a few seconds while his wife sucked both our dicks.

The last couple was a lot of fun and new experiences, I fucked and creampied all of them but this was where I fucked the female in "fucklicking" while the husband was underneath licking her clit till I creampied her and ate it. I had never done it before and just that power shift of being able to ask him to do without refusal was a big turn on. Ive done that twice with them and cant wait to do it again.
 

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So could you clarify your question?

I thought I did clarify...but just in case:

I was just wondering if other people consider their sexuality to be one thing (when/if you define it) but still have a fantasy for an opposing sexuality that you would like to explore if given the opportunity?
 

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Before i came to LPSG , and became aware of photoshopping , camera angles etc ,etc, i wasted a good percentage of my time not only fantasizing , but trying to meet some of the guys with so-called 12,14 ,even 15 inch cocks . My thanks to the community here , i am now , somewhat wiser , and pursue goals and experiences that have at least some chance of becoming reality . 12,13,14 inch cocks indeed . Ridiculous.
 

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One of my fantasies I grew up jerking off in the shower thinking about, actually came true for me. Back when I used to have a smaller cock, I would fantasize about having a big dick and a hot girl being in the shower with me and watching me jack my big dick.

Well, my dick kept growing from a small dick into a big dic. Well, relatively big, not as big as most on here. I hooked up with this chick from high school several years back and we wound up getting in the shower together. And I couldn't believe it when we were both down on our knees facing each other and she was watching me jack off, watching her facial expression, her big blue eyes, I could tell she was intrigued, really into it, fascinated. She told me later that no guy had ever let her watch before. And she was telling me how big my dick is while I jacked off, and that was probably the hardest I ever came in my life. It was an incredible fantasy come to life!
 

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I have a bit of the same fantasy too of being taught by a couple on how to please the woman, Im still in my mid-late 20s and the few times ive swung its all been with couples who were from their 40s to mid 50s and all of them let me creampie the gf/wife. Ive watched a lot of porn, read some books on how to go about it and nina hartleys guide to eating pussy was really good imo, the desire and everything has to be there but I want the male and female to teach me how to how to hit the walls to make them feel good.

Of the couples ive swung with, 4 of them had bisexual bf/husband and all of them had a bit of a cuckold relationship in them(but it was never humiliation/degradation stuff), they all asked if I did anything with a guy and I told them no. One guy just asked and never brought it up again, second stroked my cock for a few seconds while his wife sucked both our dicks.

The last couple was a lot of fun and new experiences, I fucked and creampied all of them but this was where I fucked the female in "fucklicking" while the husband was underneath licking her clit till I creampied her and ate it. I had never done it before and just that power shift of being able to ask him to do without refusal was a big turn on. Ive done that twice with them and cant wait to do it again.
I've fuck licked before, but never had the privilege of being underneath when the pussy was creamed
 

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In general, a lot of my fantasies are things that I would most likely never do. It's interesting how it works, but I wouldn't say it's uncommon.
 

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I thought I did clarify...but just in case:

I was just wondering if other people consider their sexuality to be one thing (when/if you define it) but still have a fantasy for an opposing sexuality that you would like to explore if given the opportunity?

You're using "sexuality" to mean only sexual orientation ("gay, straight, bi")?

?
 

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Fantasizing about having sex with men, and not acting on it while being in a relationship with a woman is called being in the closet.

Maybe the man is gay, maybe he is bi, but 100% straight men do not fantasize about having sex with other men. That's the definition of sexuality. If a man is sexually attracted to other men, he is gay or bi be definition.
 

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What about someone who has identified as gay - come out and told their friends and family that they aren't bi, but gay - and this said person is in a relationship with a guy, while at the same time fantasizing about women. Is this person also in the closet? I am just curious, this is where I feel I am right now. I wouldn't say I fantasize about women but when I drink I only want to hook up with the women around me. As with most people, I feel my sexuality could be a psychological study; there is much to the makeup of it.
 
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What about someone who has identified as gay - come out and told their friends and family that they aren't bi, but gay - and this said person is in a relationship with a guy, while at the same time fantasizing about women. Is this person also in the closet? I am just curious, this is where I feel I am right now. I wouldn't say I fantasize about women but when I drink I only want to hook up with the women around me. As with most people, I feel my sexuality could be a psychological study; there is much to the makeup of it.
Do you mean a bisexual man pretending to be 100% gay, and being "in the closet" about also likening women? Why would someone do this? I'm curious.

Being in the closet is all about social pressure. There is very little social pressure for a bisexual all man to deny his attraction to women. I suppose there is some scenario where it would play out this way, but not any I can think of off the top of my head