My wife and I have been chatting/talking/whispering in bed the last while, about fantasy and turn-on's to fuel the sexual encounter in bed (of course). One of my turn-ons is the idea of sleeping with other people, and she reciprocates this fantasy 100%. (Especially her with other people). As it stands now it's in the realm of fantasy, where it can be anyone, anytime, no holds-bar and that's what makes it hot. I am always the one to bring it up in bed, but she loves it and it seems to be a turn on for her when I do. In the last little while she's been extra quiet about it, and when I ask if it's still a turn on, she's been saying it's "intriguing," to which I want clarification for. What she says is, "Well I wonder if we'd actually end up trying something like that." The tone in her voice could suggest a mild discomfort with the idea we might actually head down that path, or perhaps a quiet excitement about it. It's a very ambiguous tone to say the least and I am trying to understand it. Anyway my head is swimming with ideas, thoughts and possibilities. I am on the verge of asking her in a serious manner if it's something we'd consider...? I am nervous about the idea, and frankly scared about potentially what it could do to our relationship. I wonder if it's best left in the realm of "hot sexy fantasy" or if it's something to talk about further, especially if it's something she's genuinely curious about and would like to try at least once. On one level I am no opposed to it, it is a fantasy and the idea of it really happening it a huge turn of but on the other hand... you know. Thoughts?