fantasy not good in reality

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  1. smallnj

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    I have this fantasy that i have sex with my wife and cum inside of her and then she has me go down on her. I told her about it last week and she said we should try it. so last night i completed the first 1/2 of the act and then when i went to go down on her i lost all interest in doing it. Has anyone ever had this similiar thought and then changed their mind? Or any other fantasy that wasnt as good as you thought it was going to be when you went through with it.
     
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    Not yet...

    But in my case my imagination is sooo wild and if i play many of my fantasies are so out of this earth scenarios that would impossible to play them- bcause I would need Hollywood special effect help...:rolleyes:
     
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    I work part time as a pyrotechnician. Call me.
     
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    I haven't tried going down on my girlfriend after I came inside her, but I had this fantasie about cumming on her face. So I asked her if it was allright with her if I came on her face, she was, so I did it and it wasn't half the fun I expected it to be.

    Maybe it has something to do with the fading hornyness (does that word exist?) after cumming, or maybe it has had something to do with the fact that she didn't enjoy the load in her face.

    Just my two cents...
     
  5. rob_just_rob

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    I've done this... depending on the woman involved, and how she approaches it, it can be very sexy. More specifically - if she gets really excited by it, I do, too.

    I have, however, tried out other fantasies that weren't as good (some were downright awful) as I imagined them to be. The thing with fantasies is that they go exactly as you want them to... real experiences with real people don't. Sometimes that's not such a good thing for the fantasy.
     
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    Nine that would be nice but I'm wish more the 'Matrix, 'Fly Dragon' and alike effects, the scientic ficction scenarios are sooo cool...plus the medieval and neanderthal dinosaurus situations and Atlantis and many many others...

    Yeh..I have to keep them just in my mind...
     
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    Yeh Rob...

    For this i love the erotic drawings ...there you can play nice! Bcause plain pictures are soo boring and in drawings you can do impossible things and the players are fantastic, really from another world!!!! :cool:

    :party: Well, I can channel most of my own and others fantastic ideias in those kind of images...In the end I'm a naughty kid at heart...:tongue:
     
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    Bingo! I do understand what u are talking about...

    I do get bored very easy....for this my sex is fast and furious..if its long and to sweet i get very bored and my hornyness fades...before I even orgasm...:rolleyes: I need 'action' to keep interesting and I enjoy surprises not planned situations too. You make up the thing on spot and play spontaneous...
     
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    Well, I wish I could help, but I have to say that anything I've fantasized about and followed up on in real life, I've enjoyed. This has included facials, anal sex, etc. I will say that I have willingly complied with a partner's fantasies, and they have said it wasn't all they thought it would be - thankfully through no fault of mine. One g/f really wanted me to perform anal with her and then put my cock right in her mouth. She really liked licking my ass (though I didn't particularly enjoy this) and she said she wanted to taste hers. I thought this was a little unhygeinic to say the least, and something only reserved for freaky hardcore porn. But we did it, and once I was in her mouth, she pulled away and started spitting! Then she yelled "gross!" I thought that was odd, because why should my ass (which she enjoyed) taste any different than hers? Admittedly I never went down there on her, just because I thought it was gross to begin with - despite her "anal" (pun intended) tendencies toward ultra-cleanliness. (she was one of those hand washers that grabs the bathroom door handle with hand towels on the way out, etc.). But anyway, she liked licking, she wanted to taste herself, and it didn't work out. So I can relate somewhat...
     
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    This was probably a rhetorical question, but I'll respond anyway for the edification of our viewers at home.:tongue:

    It's my understanding that analingus - licking of the anus - is relatively harmless, assuming the recipient practices reasonable hygiene. There is some bacterial risk. But (to use a blunt term) there isn't a 'shitty' taste unless the recipient doesn't wipe, or shower effectively.

    On the other hand, ass-to-mouth sex (sucking a penis that was in an ass immediately beforehand) is a lot riskier - there are bacteria in the rectum and you can't avoid them when engaging in unprotected ATM. And, yes, the taste is going to be, well, unpleasant.
     
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    Some fantasies are best kept in fantasy. I have fantasies but I don't think that they would be fun in reality. I have more control over things in fantasy. In reality, you don't have control over things. The outcomes are neutral and at times in your favor when fantasies are left in reality.
     
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    Support Group Answer: - I would not consider what you did a fantasy, rather a simple sexual act that can be easily performed with your partner that you had not done before but wished to. You just found that it was not to your taste. Anal, BDSM etc etc would also fall into this bracket.

    A fantasy should probably entail being outside the norm of your sexual possibilities, a different place, people, time, circumstances, sex even etc etc
     
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    Alright, well in that case we just need to get someone to hold the camera and perform in front of a green screen.
     
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