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Hello guys! I always had this fantasy of jerking off with other guys together in a camaraderie type of occasion but never had the chance (or the balls when I was younger). My fantasy it's literally for fun and I would rather do it with straight type of guys since I'm not into anything else (no sex or touching).

During last years I have been involved in long relationships so never really free to have fun innocently around. I have now a long relationship and I don't know if I should share this need with my boyfriend?

Did happen to you guys to be in a similar situation? What you have done?
Thanks!
 

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Hey man,
I'm somewhat similar, I literally just like the jerking off aspect but don't like being touched by or want to have sex with other guys. And prefer women (I'm in a relationship and have always found women attractive, but love the camaraderie of masturbation amongst other guys although).

But where I did get confused was... you said you had a boyfriend? So is it more you have no desire to cheat but like the allure of jerking off with other men, or you do you have concerns your boyfriend might not understand? If he did, would you feel comfortable him being part of the fantasy?

I've done some jerking with other guys but usually the question of sex comes up and it kills the vibe as I literally am not interested in that with them / a guy at all. I've seen a guy fucked in front of me or forced to suck dick, and I've watched cruised and had guys wanking near me. That's about as much as I'm personally interested in without sex/or even blow jobs coming into it. I mainly just have this other side of me that releases sexual tension by watching guys release sexual tension but bizarrely, beyond that, I literally have no interest.

Do you think you will likely explore soon or is it more just increasing thought?
 
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Thanks Jimmy! Anyone else on this? Really struggling here..
 

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I think if your relationship is anything more than casual, you should be able to share this & get to a place of understanding. Better that you go into it together (whether it includes him or not).
Also, it helps to have the location in the thread title so people can more easily find your 'local' ad.
 

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Hello guys! I always had this fantasy of jerking off with other guys together in a camaraderie type of occasion but never had the chance (or the balls when I was younger). My fantasy it's literally for fun and I would rather do it with straight type of guys since I'm not into anything else (no sex or touching).

During last years I have been involved in long relationships so never really free to have fun innocently around. I have now a long relationship and I don't know if I should share this need with my boyfriend?

Did happen to you guys to be in a similar situation? What you have done?
Thanks!
I HAVE ran into a few surprises jerk-off session with a few previous room mates over the past few years... all started with a morning wood cockbulge though
 
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