Fantasy : Partners wanting Big Cock. Anyone think of this?

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  1. D_Barzillai Whackingsauce

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    Just a general question : Do any of the men here like to Fantasizes about their partner having sex with big cocks. I say Partner because this qualifies for both Hetro partners and Homosexual partners. I do and was just wondering what the average man thought about. Does that make them feel threatened or angry to know your partner was with or wants bigger?

    Also Do women like the same fantasy. Do they like to Think about having sex with big studs?


    It's always been a fantasy of mine no matter who I am with? I love hearing about adventures with big cocks, and other lovers (GF and now wife), partners in general. I don't feel threatened or insecure. I think I am average and am okay, but the idea is sort of hot. Any thoughts?
     
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    With my ex GF I always fantisised about watching her fuck a guy with a big cock, and actively encouraged her to go out and find one. She didn't get too far and only felt a few cocks thro trousers, but the stories she would tell of what happened when she got to feel them really turned me on!
    She always said if we were to have a MMF the guy would have to be attractive and have a big cock!
     
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    This is my favorite fantasy too and one that has got me in plenty of trouble - my ex used to fuck guys with big dicks and i would like to hear stories describing how stasifying they were to her and how they were bigger than mine - usually i would cum when she would describe a story in detail. Before we married we lived 250 miles apart and she would bring a guy over to her apartment, telephone me and then describe the sex in detail why i would listen playing with myself.

    After we married all of our erotic activities stopped and we just kept everything to ourselves in the bedroom. We divorced and i was off again with other women hearing about them being fucked by huge dicks. My last gf would describe her previous boyfriends as having cocks around the 10 inch and 13 inch range (kid you not) . I loved hearing about the stories and to this day i wait when i am involved with a girl in bed to describe to me the guys they had been with hoping they will tell me about guys with big dicks to satisfy my obsession.
     
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    So it seems I am not alone in this. There are guys out there who get off on that thought. I wonder what it is that drives that ?

    I am dying to hear from some of the women about how they view this Fantasy that men have, and if they share the same fantasy.


    I too once had a long distance relationship : We did the exact same thing. She'd call me up and speak to me of her exploits with other men, and women.

    To take it further : It's not always big cocks it just the idea of her with other men or even a woman or two. I wonder what that is really about.

    Thanks for speaking out guys
     
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    I'm not small or big, 7x5, and have thought about what it would be like to see my girl being fucked by a big dick since I am not equipped. She has always wanted to try a guy with a really big dick just to see if she could handle it. I brought up to her the suggestion of buying a penis extension. She seemed interested. Have any of yoiu ever tried that or at least thought about it?
     
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    the only big dick i've ever fantasized any girlfriend of mine fucking is my own. lol. i don't know, i guess i don't understand the appeal of wanting another man to fuck your woman (or man, if you're gay). to quote the song, i guess i'm just a jealous guy. :p
     
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    For me this Fantasy does not come from me feeling that I am small, or unable. I think the extender might spoil that thought for me. I think it's the idea of someone other than me, that drives it, and it's her excitement from other than me (maybe it just not make sense, there would be no fantasy in : thinking of a small dude, or someone having troubles getting it up, a large member guarantees satisfaction).

    The funny thing is it's a fantasy at this stage. I was in a partnership where we did that and it was cool and she and I got off on it but I am married now and I am not in the head space to have her seek out other men. It's just the "Idea." I Think I fall in the just above average and women seem like what I have but I do on occasion think about my partners with other men, (and Even women but I think for most men that one is a gimme) lately it's been past men, not so much meeting someone new.

    It seems this might not be a huge idea for women. I think they play along, and would find it sexy if their partners suggested but it might not be something they think about...

    The Driving questions is : What or where does that come from I wonder, are men drawn up in the grand design with this need to be with multiple people and therefore expect there partners to feel the same. Do men bond differently than women, Is it a built in submissive tool inside us - we dominate outside but inside it's different?
     
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    If my cock isn't big enough for someone, then they can find someone bigger. But I won't be with them when they do. If I'm not good/big/etc enough for someone then they can fuck off :biggrin1:

    It does not turn me on in the slightest my partner being with someone else full stop. Whether they are bigger or smaller, black, blue or polkadot.
     
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    are we talking over 10+ inches here or what?


    cuz some 9+ inchers are less than my girth which any girl would take mine instated... in between 6-7 is the best girth..over 7 may have a little problem with many girls.


    I dont have those fantasies...
    cuz I think i am the fantasy lol!
     
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    A year or so I go, I met a couple in their late twenties/early thirties who had the same fantasy - except the husband wanted to watch. He basically sat near us, but not too close, and watched, usually silent. Sometimes he'd make comments about my size or whatever. The wife would berate the husband about how a young person (me) was bigger than him, better in bed than him, "more man" than him, etc. It was an interesting experience...I think we met up two or three times.
     
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    Rivas_Boricua4Ever That I believe is what they refer to as Cuckold. I would not want my wife or have my Ex-Girl friends debase me. I'm sure it's awesome for some and that's great, but the fantasy for me is again not how I am inferior to someone else, (I think I can stack up alright next to alot of guys - there is always someone bigger, for most of us on this site) but rather thinking about her pleasure even if it's with someone else is what turns me on. I think maybe it's a territorial thing. I get to know that even if she's getting off on someone else, she's with me, and in the end shares that with me. A soft of pride, knowing that she would still come back for more with me, only with an Added experience

    Though for you Rivas that sounds like a fun opportunity. Good for you. I always wanted to be a part of something like that in my single days. I would love to have had the chance to have sex with a married woman in front of her husband. I guess the Fantasy goes both ways for me. I think about sex with other people and I guess I could not deny that thougth for my partner - If I can think it, I just know my partner is thinking it too and why not explore that we are all human and why would a woman be any different, and know that my partner has those urges is a real turn on for me.
     
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    I know what it is and I know what it is called...I'm just saying that's the closest I've got to that situation.
     
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    My wife and I have spent nearly all of our 37 years of marriage dealing with this fantasy. She and I have never slept with anyone else, but have a passionate and imaginative lovemaking history. It probably started when, in the 70's, we began to explore the burgeoning pornography industry. Since my wife is so open-minded, she seemed pretty turned on by finally seeing other cocks for the first time. (If I am to believe her...and I do...mine is the only one she's ever seen "in person.") Their size, shape, color (she likes them dark, even more than huge...great for me, since my genitalia are of slightly less than average size, but are nice and brown), ball sac, veins, etc. seemed to appeal to her sense of voyeurism and mine too. Because we're so confident in each other's desire for fidelity, we've found it extremely erotic to talk about big cocks and her reaction to them. We even talk realistically about her enjoying another man's dick while I also participate - with her, not with him. We've also discussed in fantasy terms her sucking on another woman's pussy. Just yesterday we had a session during which, after become heated up looking at a hot black/white porn flick, she put on quite a show with a realistic looking fake black cock(sucking and licking it in a very realistic frenzy) and then got off while I plunged it into her pussy. After all these years, these fantasies are still strong, but will never become reality. However, it's all so exciting that our sex life is still very fresh and, for me (and her too, I trust), every time is more enjoyable than the last. It really just keeps getting better and better. I attribute this to our liberal attitude toward "talking about" our mutual fantasy. We've even woven in talk about some of our well-endowed friends, whom I've described to her. That never fails to get her off...sometimes just the mention of an acquaintance's name and his big cock, while my wife is on the verge, will give her a shattering orgasm. It may not be for everyone, but it's worked for us for years and will continue to, I'm sure. The key ingredients are a mutual love of voyeurism, complete love and trust in each other, and a liberal and imaginative lovemaking mindset. These admittedly are hard to find and I consider us lucky and rare to have enjoyed this for so long . I think I'll go fuck her now!
     
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    Sorry my bad in my Grammer choice Rivas. I'm sure you do know what it is...I t was more of a quesiton mark on my Part, there should have been a question mark!

    "I think that is what refer to cuckold, correct?"

    would have been better wording on my part. Sorry dude. Don't want you to get mad there. Like I said sounds like a great story.

    Cheers

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    No worries, man. I wasn't mad. Just explaining myself. :smile:
     
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    I'm 7" and I have always wanted to see my wife fuck a large 9"+ cock. At one point she was all for it, but lately not so much. She has a couple of large dildos (9", 10", & a 10" that is REALLY thick), and there is nothing I enjoy more then stuffing her full of the dildos and fucking her loose pussy. Maybe someday I will be able to look into her eyes while a hung stud takes her deep.
     
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    i have watched my ex do this - moan in pleasure while she was getting filled up from behind with a big cock while she was sucking me off

    the look was pleasurable

    she enjoyed it and i did too
     
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    My wife and I share fantasy of her doing a big cock younger stud. She has never been with another guy. She's 44 and pretty hot. She is thinking about picking up a guy while we are on vacation to give it a try. I'm cool with it, but she won't allow me to watch, she thinks she won't enjoy it with me watching.. She knows I'm on the big side of average, and says she thinks she'll find at least as big. When I bring it up during sex, she gets off on it, so I know she wants to try it.
     
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    oh hell yea........shit like this is hot.. i like to hear stories like this ...it is a turn on to me to hear a girl tell me about sucking dicks especially if they are smaller than mine...and most times they are .. i like to hear her talk to me while she has her mouth full of my dick ....i also like to see gaping holes
     
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    this shit is hot..as you very well know...having a husband/spouse/boyfriend watch you fuck his girl or watch her suck your dick is the hottest thing I have experienced....it is a total ego trip that is surreal....him knowing that he can never satisfy her or fill her up the way that you can is awesome....to have him tell you how big your dick is in her presence and have her agree is total power....to have him touch it and feel it and feed it to her or try and insert it into her is also an awesome feeling.....I have had guys eat their girls out after I fucked them and have also had the guys suck the pussy off the condom..and then suck my dick in total appreciation.....it is also fun to watch them try and fuck the girl afterwards knowing in vain that she will not feel much ..it is all part of the humiliation.....
     
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