If you decide to leave, you will be missed.
I myself took a leave of absence from this place, for my own reasons (the general level of BS and overall rudeness had reached, for me, an all time high, and I needed the account closed so as to not be tempted to return...so i get that part of it)
I will say that it is just a heads up. I have recieved one for a news post. Entire thread gone. I ran afoul of the TOS and was "modslapped" (really it was a series of poliet pm's that opened up convo, but I guess that doesn't have the same ring as "modslapped", lol)
My first sexual experiences can not be recounted here unless I edit or alter them to fit into the TOS rules regarding minors. A lot of people are in the same boat. I just hope you don't make a hasty desicion based solely on this. Acknowledge it, and move on. You seem to have a large group of poeple who will miss you. I will miss you a bit myself (I would miss you more had we interacted more) and do not want to see you depart over an isoated incident.
If it is part of an overall feeling, the final straw that is breaking the camels back, then do what you feel you need to. I won't try to guilt you into staying if you do not want to. Always know, however, that you have many people who would be happy to welcome you back, should ou leave and then latter decide to return. And if you do, you can always have the mods link the accounts. Hell, so long as the name is still avalible, you can have it back.
Whatever your decision, I wish you well. I am glad that either you have changed your mind about leaving, or there were no Admins on to hit the button, or you asled for a set time before the account closed, because i was able to post here. If you have not offically asked yet, know that they can move fairly quickly once they confirm it with you. My account was disabled within 2 hours...max, from time I requested it be closed.
All the best, and massive hugs for the road.