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So, these friends of mine set me up on this date with a nurse from New Mexico. They say she is "very nice". So I just figured that she wasn't so grand looking and that she was...well...very nice, and I agreed to go on a date with her. So I met her and she was a big blonde woman with sharp blue eyes and a big nose and a big smile, and all this long curly hair to the middle of her back. She was funny as hell, and smart as she could be and she ATE REAL FOOD which is good, because it's kind of a drag to date a chick that refuses to enjoy a good meal at a steak house. So we dated for a few months and she had to go back to school in New Mexico, and she left and we didn't see eachother again. She was a little fleshy, I think. I'm not sure. She sure was a lot of fun. She had BEAUTIFUL boobs, and a soft butt. She fukked like a maniac and did everything else like a champion. I really missed her for a long time. I guess she was fat. Or maybe not. It doesn't matter. I certainly hope she didn't get mixed up with anybody that would punish her for not being skinny. She was such a good person that would be just awful.
You should probably try to ignore attacks against your body type. You are not fat anyway, but you don't need to be around critical people. Nobody is perfect, and that's something you not only have to live with, but will eventually learn to celebrate.
 

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You're a cute guy, and have a healthy, slightly imperfect body like everyone else does...you're not fat, or obese or anything else.... this guy was obviously a MAJOR asshole, so you're better off that it didn't go any further....btw, if you should ever find yourself in Knoxville, Tennessee......:wink: I've told many a hardbodied gym rat " congratulations on fixing your outside... now work on the inside"...I've seen alot of pretty faces with the ugliest personalities....
 

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Consider yourself lucky that you didn't waste any time with this psycho.

Regarding your question, it won't hurt to trim a few pounds but your real issue is flabbiness and poor muscle tone. You don't have to become a gym-rat but you should def get fitter. It'll improve both your health, your looks and your self-esteem.
 

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well, maybe to a body builder going into compeition would you be carrying excess body fat but all things being equal you are not fat!
 

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You're a cute guy, and have a healthy, slightly imperfect body like everyone else does...you're not fat, or obese or anything else.... this guy was obviously a MAJOR asshole, so you're better off that it didn't go any further....btw, if you should ever find yourself in Knoxville, Tennessee......:wink: I've told many a hardbodied gym rat " congratulations on fixing your outside... now work on the inside"...I've seen alot of pretty faces with the ugliest personalities....


i do wanna move to the states , but never been there so would like to visit places maybe stop of at soem peoples houses :p
 

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One, you're not fat or ugly. Two, sounds like this guy was just throwing a tantrum and being hurtful because you didn't want to hook up immediately. If he really thought any of that he wouldn't have asked to meet after you sent the pics in the first place.

On a side note, I've noticed so many guys that seem to think anybody who doesn't have a six pack is fat. Meanwhile, most of these guys aren't too in shape themselves.
 

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i do wanna move to the states , but never been there so would like to visit places maybe stop of at soem peoples houses :p

We southerners are noted for our hospitality, and in that tradition... I'd be glad to talk and get to know you and show you around our area on your visit...:)
 

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1. You're not obscenly overweight ~ just think of yourself as curvy...like Beyonce.

2. Stop trying to find validation online, and learn to tell people to fuck off. Feel free to start with me.
 

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Mate your body and face are great and you are in no way fat / obese / huge by any meaning of those words. You have a normal body and if he is calling you these names then I say tell him to piss off and go find someone who will treat you better and not be so quick to throw out the verbal abuse.
 

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The guy is just scum, plain and simple.

Plenty more for you out there.

Like me, 36, getting a bit of a belly, but I don't give a shit about it, and I have certainly got more belly than you :biggrin1:
 

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hey all wasn't sure if this is right place to post this, well here the story goes.
i was talking to this guy online everything going well we exchanged pics and all then he asked if we wanted to me today, thats when things took a turn for the worst as i genuinley couldn't meet as already had plans plus w ehad only been talking for few hours so didn't really want to meet , he started calling me fat obese all names under the sun against fat/ugly overweight people , now i know i not a looker by any means i accept that , but i been having very stressful time latley and the fat thing sort of got to me , so i gonna post pic up and let me know what you think guys and be honest :)

ps. you dont have ot post but i thought it would be good just to get this out of my mind , but feel fre too , maybe post face poc too so you can comment on my looks.

ps part 2:p this are the pics i sent him
First your body is fine. Compared to me you have the body of a god. This person was just trying to hurt. Dont worry about what one person says.
 

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If you ask an American, many would say you are normal weight especially if they are from the South or the Midwest however in Europe you might considered slightly on the heavier side judging by your pics. (The best way is to check your body mass index, fat percentage, along with your height, age, sex, body frame etc. so you could make a better reference if you are overweight or not.) There are lots of Americans are very fat and you would look skinny by comparison. Overweight is an epidemic in the US and their perception on weight are changing especially when dealing with chubby kids. Very sad indeed! Since you are in the U.K. I don't really know how they perceived your body because U.K. as an island country which tends to have a different mentality than (Western) Europe except the Netherlands which are also quite different for different reason. Anyway the guy you encountered was quite immature and shouldn't addressed you like that. Just move on and don't let strangers influence you how you perceive your body. You will find plenty of people who find your body attractive including me! :)
 
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well too tot man i do love beyonce
well i was clincally obese according to UK standards , but sorta just stopped eating and not sure if i am now :s yeah i am planning ot go gym when i get a job and can afford it :) then when i buff and supe rhot you can all look at them pics too :D
 

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Im sorry about your e-encounter with that jackass. I think there is a huge internet cadre of people that 'get off' on luring people in with conversation...push the 'lets trade' agenda and then take pleasure in rejecting the other person over something ridiculous. Its just histrionic bullshit in the digital age...like others have said...you probably dodged a bullet. Like the saying goes...rejection is a necessary step on the winding road to success.