"Fat sex"
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Yeah, I'd rather have someone slightly overweight than slightly underweight, but either end of the extreme is gross.
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I was at a party last weekend where I met this extremely nice girl and she was very pretty too but about 30 pounds overweight, I liked her but wouldn't lust over her.
I have a strong aversion against obesity as it runs in my family, and I do believe one should love him or herself but I also think you should strive to be the best you can be, physicially and mentally.
I have a strong aversion against obesity as it runs in my family, and I do believe one should love him or herself but I also think you should strive to be the best you can be, physicially and mentally.
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Well we all have different standards for that don't we?
I was unhealthy at 98 lbs, I was unhealthy at 128lbs and I'm still not so healthy at my current weight. Study genetics of disease and you will understand that many people who are a little overweight are faring far better in longevity and health than their skinny peers.
But to each his/her own.
I was unhealthy at 98 lbs, I was unhealthy at 128lbs and I'm still not so healthy at my current weight. Study genetics of disease and you will understand that many people who are a little overweight are faring far better in longevity and health than their skinny peers.
But to each his/her own.
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I happen to study medicine and I can tell you that there are plenty of thin people who are just a heart attack away from their last breath. They are jogging every morning and eating low fat diets, etc. But if it's not your cup of tea, then it isn't.
Hmmm.....now I'm wondering how my pussy felt to him a couple weeks ago. Oh well. If he wants to say then he'll say.
I like Ramsey's thinking about all this, it's about compatibility. :smile:
I like Ramsey's thinking about all this, it's about compatibility. :smile:
Whitemonstr, so you didn't hook up or have sex with this slightly overweight woman you met at the party? I think you're missing out, man. The next time a cute heavier woman is willing to offer you her pussy, take it. As my father used to say to get me to eat broccoli, "You don't know what you're missing!"
I don't think it is fair to tell someone to have sex with someone who they don't find sexually attractive for whatever reason, however I don't understand why he would come into a thread about the joys of larger people and state his opinion on disliking it not once but twice on the same page. Each to their own.
I noticed that too. Whitemonster seemed to want to be contrarian. I'm not advocating people to have sex with someone they're not attracted to. It's just that he said she was nice, pretty, only 30 lbs. overweight (which is not necessarily "obese"). Even though he did not "lust" after her, he "liked" her. Basically, there seemed to be enough attraction to make it worthwhile, so I couldn't figure out why the post didn;t end with him experiencing her in all of her glory.
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It's counterproductive to take a thriving thread that is being responded to more often than almost any other thread on here in days and bump it because someone didn't respond to you in an hour. Just sayin'
Probably because he didn't want to. Lots of people don't have sex with people they don't want to. I don't have sex with people i don't find asthetically pleasing and I am sure you are the same. I don't know why it bothes you so much that you had to comment then bump because someone didn't answer fast enough.
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Good one. But what if people strive to be the best they can, and one of the things is being big? I know it's hard to understand but people do. The thing is that my GF gained quite some weight over the years. She's around 330 lbs now and still gaining, but she is so happy with it. She loves being her size. Her confidence is very attractive to me and a real turn on. I didn't know I'd love such a big woman though wouldn't go for anyone else now anymore.
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I'm just curious since you and your GF fetishize the morbid obesity and her continuing to gain weight. You obviously feed off each other (no pun intended) but since you don't mind admitting this could you answer a question for me?
Do you plan on her weight gain eventually making her bed-bound and unable to walk or go to the bathroom or clean herself properly? Because that is wear she is headed when you do the math. It sounds cute now, but are you prepared to have to do EVERYTHING for her that she can't do? Having someone get so large that they can't leave their home or bed is not a pretty site. Watching the bacterial skin infections and other sad things about being at the top percentile of human obesity is not fun. But then again you might get off on being as important to her as she will need you to be at that point.
I'm not hating on you for what you like and encourage now- but what about later? Who's lives are going to be affected then by the decisions you presumed would only affect you two and your personal relationship with one another. These are the things I'm thinking about. What about you?
Whether you are a compulsive binge and purger, an extreme anorexic or THAT addicted to food and weight gaining...you DO become a burden psychologically and physically to others. And this is precisely why someone who is gaining or has gained a massive amount of weight can be a huge turn off for long-term thinkers with a calculator.
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I can honestly say that i've never been with a woman i would call fat, bbw or lite bbw but am curious. Actually a bit more than curious lol.
