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Azul Jabali, the woman featured as your avatar would be a nice place to start satiating your curiosity.
 
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Sorry Madamoiselle Rouge. You are a regular poster (and you know how I hate when threads I frequent aren;t updated quickly enough!) I should be more respectful. My apologies.
 

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I think a lot of that mindset is exemplified in this woman's complaints

In Praise of Meaty Women
Great artical. I hope she feels better. :smile:

I haven't read all 250+ posts so this may have been said. But men are more visual and seem to relate that to how good a partner is going to be in the bedroom. Sorry to say the two are not related. Skinny / Big does not = good sex. It's the emotional make up and likes / dislikes of the two involved.

With that said, my last experience was quite amazing and I would be more than happy for it to happen again.
 

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I'm just curious since you and your GF fetishize the morbid obesity and her continuing to gain weight. You obviously feed off each other (no pun intended) but since you don't mind admitting this could you answer a question for me?

Do you plan on her weight gain eventually making her bed-bound and unable to walk or go to the bathroom or clean herself properly? Because that is wear she is headed when you do the math. It sounds cute now, but are you prepared to have to do EVERYTHING for her that she can't do? Having someone get so large that they can't leave their home or bed is not a pretty site. Watching the bacterial skin infections and other sad things about being at the top percentile of human obesity is not fun. But then again you might get off on being as important to her as she will need you to be at that point.

I'm not hating on you for what you like and encourage now- but what about later? Who's lives are going to be affected then by the decisions you presumed would only affect you two and your personal relationship with one another. These are the things I'm thinking about. What about you?.

Answer is NO. I would not let her get to that point. It's not the life that I want, she neither. For me she was beautiful at 250 lbs, and she's beautiful at 330 lbs. I just want her to be happy. However, I want an active life, WITH her, take her to places and see other people. She's not out of shape yet, and I feel that her limit is getting close. I'd say that 350 lbs would be the maximum but we have to make sure will not pass 400 lbs because than she'd be huge. Problem is that she really likes being so soft. She loves being big and is happy with how she looks. I sometimes start the conversation but we'll see. I think her weight is OK but not if we plan to have children. But it's a difficult topic and I know some friends are concerned about her size. We'll see.....

Does this answer your questions?
 

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I don't think it is fair to tell someone to have sex with someone who they don't find sexually attractive for whatever reason, however I don't understand why he would come into a thread about the joys of larger people and state his opinion on disliking it not once but twice on the same page. Each to their own.

The original poster asked about experiences, and if the experiences with larger women are better.

So I stated my experiences.
 

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Good one. But what if people strive to be the best they can, and one of the things is being big? I know it's hard to understand but people do. The thing is that my GF gained quite some weight over the years. She's around 330 lbs now and still gaining, but she is so happy with it. She loves being her size. Her confidence is very attractive to me and a real turn on. I didn't know I'd love such a big woman though wouldn't go for anyone else now anymore.

I somewhat appreciate that more then people who are overweight constantly complaining about how overweight they are and wanting to lose weight while either starving or eat excessively.

Yours is a conscious decision I can respect, the others in most cases I consider as weak just as I think smokers and drug addicts are.

You have a will then there's a way, you have a strong enough will, you are going to make it happen regardless of genetics or imbalanced thyroids or whatever really.

The fat represents a lack of self image and the lack of power to do anything about it.

I've been there as is my family but I've created the tools to surpass it.

So the fat is not esthetically displeasing it's more of a mental thing of what it represents that turns me off.
 

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I don't think size has anything to do with them feeling more. I've been with slim to chubby, as is my present gf, though with a small waist and nice round bottom and big boobs she looks stunning. Not that it's true but thru my experiences the chubby gals, like the one I'm with now have been very tight, get very wet and seem to get much more excited during oral and when having their boobs played with.

Just my experiences so those trimmer ladies don't get offensive. I guess I really love those bigger hips and bottoms and of course more skin with those wonderful soft boobs. Also seeing those big nipples puff up to an incredible smaller size when erect really gets me hard. I never went for someone just because of their size, color or race but have enjoy the gals with bigger curves the most. I have found them to be more adventurous, sexual and very comfortable with nudity.
 

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Do you plan on her weight gain eventually making her bed-bound and unable to walk or go to the bathroom or clean herself properly? Because that is wear she is headed when you do the math. It sounds cute now, but are you prepared to have to do EVERYTHING for her that she can't do? Having someone get so large that they can't leave their home or bed is not a pretty site. Watching the bacterial skin infections and other sad things about being at the top percentile of human obesity is not fun. But then again you might get off on being as important to her as she will need you to be at that point.

Yep, anyone who has seen the 2003 documentary "Fat Girls and Feeders" will have witnessed how scary a BBW obsession can get. I love bigger women (curves are sexy!) but when we start to talk about 'feeding' someone to the point of her not being able to move freely, or undertake everyday activities, I can only think of abuse. Arrrrrgggggghhhhh....
 

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Yep, anyone who has seen the 2003 documentary "Fat Girls and Feeders" will have witnessed how scary a BBW obsession can get. I love bigger women (curves are sexy!) but when we start to talk about 'feeding' someone to the point of her not being able to move freely, or undertake everyday activities, I can only think of abuse. Arrrrrgggggghhhhh....

Just to be clear: I'm not feeding my GF. I'm aware that it's one of the first things people think when a woman gains weight and the guy is OK with it. Some of my friends made about the same comments when they said my GF got really big since we met and I told them it was fine and that I liked it.

She often cooks, she buys all the snacks herself. However, she still goes to the gym, and works out to stay fit. The point is that she wants to be soft. She's proud of being big. I love her and I like how she looks. But maybe it's the confidence that I love so much. She dares to be different, and is confident. What else do you wish for?

I'm aware of the risks and I know she weights a lot, but immobility won't happen. It's disgusting and I'm sure we both don't want that. Like I said, she is getting to a point where she should stop gaining. I'd say 350 lbs but 400 lbs is the ultimate limit. But since she's already over 330 lbs now it may be a good moment to start talking with about it.

Point stated.
 
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I've had sex with girls who were size 6 (UK) up to bbws, to be honest the best sex ive had was with the girls between curvy and bbw, so voluptuous in a sense.

I personally don't think there is a weight:dirtiness ratio, I just find that a lot of curvy girls feel comfortable with themselves and their sexuality and so as a result do not seem to care as much about taboos.

I am not attracted to skinny girls, my main focus is slim girls toned or otherwise and curvy girls.
 

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Having just recently bagged my first bbw, my limited experience says they(she) was dirty, wet beyond belief and tight. It was an odd experience at first, her size dictated what we did. I definately wouldn't let her ride it, there is no recovery from something like that when it slips out and breaks your cock.
 

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i've had both ends of the spectrum. from a 95 pound woman(which was not a fun experience), to a 280-290 pound woman(which was also lacking in enjoyment). but right in the middle is where pleasure can be found. the thicker women in my opinion tend to be wetter and more willing to experiment sexually. they also tend to be more passionate. so my vote is for the curvy woman. i believe they do it better.
 

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I would say I am what would be considered a fat chick, but I'm under 200LBS now, I used to weight a little more, but I started working out and running. Somethings just wont go away lol. I still have bigger thighs and big boobs, and a round ass. I go to the gym for myself and myself alone.

I've been told many times I am great in bed. I am very confident about sex, and how it works. I like knowing what I am doing, and how to make the person I'm with happy. I also don't think that I am a wild and crazy person in bed "because I'm fat" either I was born this way. At least that is what my parents always tell me.