Fathers with daughters, have you ever been attracted to her boyfriend?

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To the fathers with daughters, has your daughter ever brought home a dude you found extremely attractive?

Did you ever flirt with him?

Did you allow him to spend the night at your home while visiting your daughter?

Speak on it...
 
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I highly doubt most parents of their children, regardless of sexuality, flirt with their children's partner. But adding to this thread before things become a fetish chamber, I am not a father. But I am an uncle, and my nephew has lived with me his whole life -- I am basically his father. As a bi dude, some of his friends are hot af and I absolutely do find myself sexually attracted to them. They are 19-22 years old, so I mean this is prime twink-age dick. That said, I never, ever, ever would act on any impulse and am mortified even entertaining the idea.

As for my nephew's girlfriend/female friends, again -- hell no. Creepy af to ever do otherwise, let a lone a betrayal to a family member that I love more than my own life. No normal person on this planet would do anything the OP is implying. Sigh.
 

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I highly doubt most parents of their children, regardless of sexuality, flirt with their children's partner. But adding to this thread before things become a fetish chamber, I am not a father. But I am an uncle, and my nephew has lived with me his whole life -- I am basically his father. As a bi dude, some of his friends are hot af and I absolutely do find myself sexually attracted to them. They are 19-22 years old, so I mean this is prime twink-age dick. That said, I never, ever, ever would act on any impulse and am mortified even entertaining the idea.

As for my nephew's girlfriend/female friends, again -- hell no. Creepy af to ever do otherwise, let a lone a betrayal to a family member that I love more than my own life. No normal person on this planet would do anything the OP is implying. Sigh.
Very well said.
 
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I highly doubt most parents of their children, regardless of sexuality, flirt with their children's partner. But adding to this thread before things become a fetish chamber, I am not a father. But I am an uncle, and my nephew has lived with me his whole life -- I am basically his father. As a bi dude, some of his friends are hot af and I absolutely do find myself sexually attracted to them. They are 19-22 years old, so I mean this is prime twink-age dick. That said, I never, ever, ever would act on any impulse and am mortified even entertaining the idea.

As for my nephew's girlfriend/female friends, again -- hell no. Creepy af to ever do otherwise, let a lone a betrayal to a family member that I love more than my own life. No normal person on this planet would do anything the OP is implying. Sigh.

You mentioned your nephew's friend are hot. If you had a daughter and she wanted to date one of them, would you encourage her to do so? How comfortable would you make him feel in your home if he came over to visit?
 

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I do not have a daughter. The last thing I would do, regardless of my child's gender, is advise them to date someone based on how they look, but to instead, date someone based on they feel about each other. As for my nephew's friends, I hardly know them, but they seem like good kids and are always polite. They recently helped me move, which was super helpful, and they realized I'm an anime fan while helping me move my stuff and we talked all sorts of anime/geek culture and what not -- they seem like pretty chill dudes.

My child's dating life is none of my business, so long as they are safe, responsible, and happy. As for how comfortable would I make them if they were dating if I did have a daughter? As comfortable as any other guest, so long as they are polite and respectful.
 
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I do not have a daughter. The last thing I would do, regardless of my child's gender, is advise them to date someone based on how they look, but to instead, date someone based on they feel about each other. As for my nephew's friends, I hardly know them, but they seem like good kids and are always polite. They recently helped me move, which was super helpful, and they realized I'm an anime fan while helping me move my stuff and we talked all sorts of anime/geek culture and what not -- they seem like pretty chill dudes.

My child's dating life is none of my business, so long as they are safe, responsible, and happy. As for how comfortable would I make them if they were dating if I did have a daughter? As comfortable as any other guest, so long as they are polite and respectful.
Would you allow him to spend the night at your home?
 
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I do not have a daughter. The last thing I would do, regardless of my child's gender, is advise them to date someone based on how they look, but to instead, date someone based on they feel about each other. As for my nephew's friends, I hardly know them, but they seem like good kids and are always polite. They recently helped me move, which was super helpful, and they realized I'm an anime fan while helping me move my stuff and we talked all sorts of anime/geek culture and what not -- they seem like pretty chill dudes.

My child's dating life is none of my business, so long as they are safe, responsible, and happy. As for how comfortable would I make them if they were dating if I did have a daughter? As comfortable as any other guest, so long as they are polite and respectful.
Did you see my question?
 

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If I was a young adult say 18-22 or whatever and my gay father started dating someone my age I think that Would put a tremendous strain on our relationship. Now if God forbid he started dating one of my friends or ex's that would be the end of our relationship.

In fact I might go out of my way to make both their lives a living hell.
 

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my sons bf is actually 8 yrs older than him andhe has already told my son that he has a hot dad--i would never steal a guy from my son but if they broke up and my son said it was ok then i would date the guy
 
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If I was a young adult say 18-22 or whatever and my gay father started dating someone my age I think that Would put a tremendous strain on our relationship. Now if God forbid he started dating one of my friends or ex's that would be the end of our relationship.

In fact I might go out of my way to make both their lives a living hell.
I hear what you're saying however, I'm not referring to actually dating or having intercourse with the person.

I'm asking if you had a daughter and one day she introduces you into her boyfriend and he is extremely attractive to you, would you feel some type of way about him? Would you make exceptions for him in any way?
 
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I hear what you're saying however, I'm not referring to actually dating or having intercourse with the person.

I'm asking if you had a daughter and one day she introduces you into her boyfriend and he is extremely attractive to you, would you feel some type of way about him? Would you make exceptions for him in any way?
No
 

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I hear what you're saying however, I'm not referring to actually dating or having intercourse with the person.

I'm asking if you had a daughter and one day she introduces you into her boyfriend and he is extremely attractive to you, would you feel some type of way about him? Would you make exceptions for him in any way?
I have 4 daughters and 3 of them seem to have inherited my taste in guys. Not going there.
 

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I highly doubt most parents of their children, regardless of sexuality, flirt with their children's partner. But adding to this thread before things become a fetish chamber, I am not a father. But I am an uncle, and my nephew has lived with me his whole life -- I am basically his father. As a bi dude, some of his friends are hot af and I absolutely do find myself sexually attracted to them. They are 19-22 years old, so I mean this is prime twink-age dick. That said, I never, ever, ever would act on any impulse and am mortified even entertaining the idea.

As for my nephew's girlfriend/female friends, again -- hell no. Creepy af to ever do otherwise, let a lone a betrayal to a family member that I love more than my own life. No normal person on this planet would do anything the OP is implying. Sigh.
Many people do. A lot of parents, moms and Dads, dated or got married to their kids friends or partners. There is nothing wrong with that. But in many cases that put a strain on the relationship. Also, some kids dated or married their parents partners. It happened and happening in life
As for you not dating your nephews friends, that’s your choice and he shouldn't have any say in your choices like you don't have in his
 

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Many people do. A lot of parents, moms and Dads, dated or got married to their kids friends or partners. There is nothing wrong with that. But in many cases that put a strain on the relationship. Also, some kids dated or married their parents partners. It happened and happening in life
As for you not dating your nephews friends, that’s your choice and he shouldn't have any say in your choices like you don't have in his
The fact that you said « There is nothing wrong with that. But in many cases that put a strain on the relationship » just proves that there are a lot of things wrong with that. I get it, you love who you love. But there should be limits. And this is quite a toxic fetish for real.
 
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