Fawner vs. Admirer

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  1. tim36

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    Lets just say you showed two friends of yours who you have known for a long time and they asked respectfully to see what you have, (presume that both seen it at the same time).


    Which reaction would u be more impressed with:

    One who is so in awe of your big cock that you can tell that they are treating you differently (be it positively or negatively), always in some form or another talk about it, in effect "fawning" on you, and may treat you better or if they always did, even more than usual, but you can tell that deep inside they may feel insecure about it, but cant bring themselves to say it, so they just avoid it dealing with it and keep fawning or putting more emphasis on it in situations or in say when meeting other people if you hang out or go out together and he talks on it to either men or women you may meet in a club or social setting.

    -or-

    The other who has also seen what you have, be truly impressed by it, but doesnt change how he treats you, because of it, he is the same towards you as before, may be a little or feel a little twinge of insecurity, but dont treat you any differently because of it, and in fact just treat you as before they saw you. In order words, they can admire what you got, but dont make a -big- (excuse the pun), deal about it, and and just continue to be your friend, be secure in themselves enough to be happy with what they have and dont try to compare themselves to you, dont broadcast anything and just in general be the same person you became friends with and though you know he admires what u have though he may not verbalize it to you.


    **(I know women know this issue in their own situation only all too well, in term of breast size and how that can be with other women, so your input on this will be welcomed as well and how that might be an issue with too with the fairer sex)**
     
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    It may sound sad on my part...

    but the fawner. I guess it serves to my ego and manhood :p
     
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    I can't really comment on your particular example as I'm dickless :) but fawning is always a bit spooky.
     
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    I think its different for women. As I've been told:

    You tell a dude he looks hot, he gets flattered and overly interested.

    You tell a chick she looks hot, she gets offended.

    And with personal experience, I proved to myself its true. haha :tongue:

    (of course, everyone is different... im just speaking on average.)
     
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    I was trying! lol
     
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    and succeeding! I love compliments, haha... it just gets weird when its from a guy in person! haha
     
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    did it give you a woody?
     
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    And don't take me too seriously, I talk a lotta shit
     
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    no, but it lightened my mood :tongue:
     
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    Hmmph. Next time - I'm disguising my voice.
     
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    hahaha, it seems like its a game now.
     
  12. D_Bob_Crotchitch

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    I'd prefer the friend that didn't treat me differently. We could joke about my penis in private like guys are prone to do. I am disappointed tho. At first glance, I thought it said farmer. I was getting kind of excited.
     
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    Hey Vinny, I am in Matthews, NC, want to meet for a beer?
     
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    hehe, like in Farmer's Daughters?
     
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    I was hoping for a farmer who had farmer's tan, was a clean bottom, and wasn't allergic to hay.
     
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    Ah ok, nice imagery there, I have that picture in my mind now too.
     
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    The farmer's daughter has been done so much it's like sticking it out the window.
     
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    I would like the admirer's reaction better. I find that the fawner reaction scares me. (I fully know that reaction...when I worked out at the gym...I was getting all "buff daddy". I remember getting a lot of people fawning and THAT shit scared me to death. I am not used to that kind of thing.)

    I used to meet a lot of "superficial" people because of the way I looked. I didn't want friends in that fashion. I guess I am different.

    When people are looking at your external more than the internal. THAT is scary when you are actually looking for them to look at you for your spiritual asthetics. External admiration is okay but it is creepy when that is the only thing that that person likes about you.

    :smile:
     
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