Fear of the bulge

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chootie: [quote author=Gubernogin link=board=relationships;num=1044314820;start=0#19 date=04/26/04 at 20:39:09]

No feelings hurt here but you have no idea how I look!!  Would you suggest that big busted women cover themselves up??
Why would you want a picture of something you class as "indecent"??  [/quote]
BIG busted women (most) look good but a few do look real bad but i am not talking about womens breasts here i am talking about bulges in sweats. last night i went out and saw a guy bulging in sweats and i went over to him and asked him if he was getting a hard on and he said no and i told him to adjust himself and he pulled his sweats down and showed me his underwear and asked me what i would like him to do and my response was DONT WEAR SWEATS. (i was at the bookstore if i was on the public streets i would say nothing about it).

i was asking for your picture because texting to other people on this sight we think you lie about your size. i didnt want to see you (believe me i didnt) but since i was typing the response i included it.

 

[Pappy]

[quote author=chootie link=board=relationships;num=1044314820;start=20#20 date=04/27/04 at 17:02:25]
BIG busted women (most) look good but a few do look real bad but i am not talking about womens breasts here i am talking about bulges in sweats.  last night i went out and saw a guy bulging in sweats and i went over to him and asked him if he was getting a hard on and he said no and i told him to adjust himself and he pulled his sweats down and showed me his underwear and asked me what i would like him to do and my response was DONT WEAR SWEATS. (i was at the bookstore if i was on the public streets i would say nothing about it).

i was asking for your picture because texting to other people on this sight we think you lie about your size.  i didnt want to see you (believe me i didnt) but since i was typing the response i included it.[/quote]


And I say again if you don't like seeing the bulges quit looking at mens crotches.

I know what I have and I have nothing to prove to anyone let alone you or any other dried up, has been size queen that needs a picture to get off on.

 

[Ecchi]

That's just sad and ludicrous. Folks can't help if they're over endowed and they certainly shouldn't be prosecuted for it. Its a wonderful gift. But it's just a highlight of how dumb, stilted and ethically backwards it is here.

 

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chootie: Gubernogin this isnt life or death here. i was offering my advice, geez you made it sound like i was telling you to cut your cock off.

if you dont like my advice quit responding to me then. although i have to say it has been fun reading your text on this issue but this is not a dating service so i am going to let this one drop. no need for everyone else to be torchured reading our 'passes' at each other. lol

thanks for the picture (this old queen) promptly passed it along to the 2 other guys that really wanted it. i must be a size queen because it is nice but i will not be jacking off to it though because i have only jacked off 7 times in the last 6 months. (hey that is a thread question --someone post it [how often do u jack off, maybe it is posted,dunno new to site...okay i am rambling]

gubernogin i would be proud to watch your crotch if i saw you in sweats, sike! no your kewl. by the way i am only 29 i havent died yet and gone to queen heaven til i am 30.

:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*

 

[Pappy]

[quote author=chootie link=board=relationships;num=1044314820;start=20#23 date=04/28/04 at 08:24:19]Gubernogin this isnt life or death here.  i was offering my advice, geez you made it sound like i was telling you to cut your cock off.

if you dont like my advice quit responding to me then.  although i have to say it has been fun reading your text on this issue but this is not a dating service so i am going to let this one drop.  no need for everyone else to be torchured reading our 'passes' at each other. lol

thanks for the picture (this old queen) promptly passed it along to the 2 other guys that really wanted it.  i must be a size queen because it is nice but i will not be jacking off to it though because i have only jacked off 7 times in the last 6 months.  (hey that is a thread question --someone post it [how often do u jack off, maybe it is posted,dunno new to site...okay i am rambling]

gubernogin i would be proud to watch your crotch if i saw you in sweats, sike!  no your kewl.  by the way i am only 29 i havent died yet and gone to queen heaven til i am 30.

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Hatchet burried Why don't you start the thread you mentioned? ??? ??? ??? ???

 

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steve_w: okay, so why the double standard here. Think about the kids when women go out in push-up bras and other breast enhancing underwear. I hardly believe any kids have been mentally damaged by looking at women's large breasts, and I hardly believe the same thing would happen if a young child shoud see a male package. Why can women flaunt their sexual organs, and men are forced to cover up, conceal, and wear uncomfortable clothes

 

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rangersean: Steve, there is not a double standard because breasts are NOT sexual organs, except in the way feet are for some people.

Breasts have one pupose and that's to feed young.

Penises are sexual organs and they have only two purposes (urinate and ejaculate). "Nice" people don't like to think about either of those things.

Thanks the ghods I'm not a "nice" person.

 

[jonb]

Actually, rangersean, the penis is also a social organ; everything from circumcision to penis gourds seems to prove my point. But the issue of clothing might have something to do with showing that men can control their penises; until recently, prepubescent nudity wasn't looked at as good or bad. (Pedophilic pornographic picture-trading probably put that permanently in the past, just to add a few more P's to that.)

A lot of men are neurotic about breasts too. Look at Janet.

 

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wishIwashung: Meanwhile, I am thinking about the fact that, within the year, I'll be considered an old queen.

And to think that I had enough issues about turning 29 last week... now, there's even more fun to consider

 

[jonb]

30's not that old really, despite what MTV tells you.

 

[Atlrabbit]

Ahhh the bulge! I spent years in baggy pants or pants with pleats, long shirts or clothes a size larger. And hated every bit of it. It wasn't until I accepted it as a fact of life-as a part of who I am. I'm not obscene but if there's a bulge, then there is a bulge. I'm not wearing a sign that tells everyone to look here. That's your choice.

While I find the story about being charged with sexual harrasment a little hard to believe, I do know guys have been questioned, harassed, made fun of, --I was even followed around the mall by some pervert who made a point of getting next to me when I went to the bathroom. Some have said I should have taken it as a complement but I was just annoyed.

The comments about "we should be careful about what we show" has to be from someone who has not experienced this situation. Most men are honest, easy going, caring people - we're not out to offend anybody. The answer is simple - just don't look. Having a big bulge is not a calling card for admirers.

 

[KinkGuy]

Gee, some of us (well, me anyway) dress to accentuate the assets. Guess I shouldn't be allowed out in public.

 

[grnman]

altrabbit,

I too wore those baggy pants, etc. for years. I was embarrassed by large size. In fact, I was poked fun at as a teen, but that is another story. I also agree it is who we are, so I don't try to hide it anymore, except in certain settings, like at work. At the same time, I don't go out of my way to look bigger either, but I did do that at one time. And, I don't condemn others who wish to show their stuff a bit. To each his own.

However, lately, I have been getting into the low-rise jeans fashion, which tend to be more slimly cut and the low rise affords less room in front, so things tend to bulge out perhaps more than with regular cut jeans. I am trying to let myself wear them anyway, which I think we all have to let ourselves off the hook. If we are large and show, so what. In most cases people don't have to look, if they don't like to see a bulge. I read it many times on this board about women and large breasts and I agree there, but for some reason a cock bulge is obscene but a clevage is just a bit flirty.

Perhaps, it is our role to open society up to a higher level of conscienceness to accept "the bulge." So, I emplore us big guys to bulge away and incite a new revolution. But, seriously though, maybe we can create a little more acceptance by being ourselves.

Jack

 

[Atlrabbit]

Jack,

Go for it - get the low rise jeans if you want to and wear them with pride. It's all about being comfortable with youself and not letting other peoples attitude drive down your self worth.Have fun...

 

[D_Humper E Bogart]

Well, I'll say I'm large from the front and behind and you know what? Dress how you're comfortable with. Anyway, people that bitch about your dick are morons, plain and simple. I mean, be proud of what you've got and all that sort of thing. I know I am.

 

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BRMSTN69: historical note;
It is said thst the queens consort Prince Albert was rather gifted,but in the fashion of the times it was improper to show a croutch bulge.So he had his penis pierced with a large gold ring(studded with jewels no less) he then ran ribbon through the ring and tied it to his thigh and the bulge was gone.

This soon became the rage in Europe and all the proper gentlemen were doing it.
And tou thought a P.A. was for sex, no it was for fasion(yeh,I bet thats what the Queen said)I guess this is a hellva lot better than cutting it off!

 

[KinkGuy]

I've got the Prince Albert and it certainly isn't "jewel encrusted"...crusted sometimes....oh, never mind. Tied to my thigh with a ribbon, I think not.
And...IT IS TOO FOR SEX!!!

 

[madame_zora]

This is the most bizzarre thread, to me. In the arguement of breasts vs. bulges, we are overlooking one thing- cleavage is nudity, but bulges are completely clothed! I don't really like seeing so much of a woman's cleavage (in a work environment) that her nipples are showing, it's just unappealing and distracting for me. But if a man has a bulge in his pants, and it's covered with PANTS, then I don't understand the problem. There was an earlier thread about the white boardshorts that showed everything when they got wet, and that's another issue, but just normal, everyday clothing should be nothing more than a personal choice. I hate the moral majority in this country! geez...

 

[D_Humper E Bogart]

But remember, in a "equal" society, women are expected to show off their bodies, but men are looked down if they do.

There's this man who jogs around the park I visit on my way to uni, and he's always shirtless come rain or shine (or cold). He's fuzzier than I am, but people laugh at my arm hair??!?

Fuck them, more power to that guy for running, I reckon.

 

[madame_zora]

Amen to that! I love it when ppl are comfortable with themselves, very appealing, indeed. Although (since I said Amen) I do remember being uncomfortable with a bulge once. This guy came to church sporting the shortest shorts I've ever seen a man wear, with a full erection threatening to peek out the leg. I could see his well-defined head at the very bottom hem of the shorts, which I felt was inappropriate for church! Outside? It would have been sexy, but my friends and I made jokes about the "weenie shorts guy" for years- still good for a laugh. There again, he should have worn underwear, or shorts of an adequate length not to actually show his head. It all about fitting in to your surroundings. I'm a woman with big breasts, so I don't always have the luxury of wearing every off-the-rack blouse that's manufactured. Sometimes, they're way more revealing on me than they would be on smaller women, but I do hate going into the "foundations" department at better stores only to have the sales clerks try to show me "bust minimizers" rather than bras to enhance my figure.