Fears, orgasms then stop

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My girlfriend seam to really get fear wen we go to bed. We always starting slowly, at her rythm... Then she geting 4-5 orgasms in 10-15 minutes. Cool.
But after she can't handle it anymore, she's begging me to stop in tears. So i stop. Without having "my fun"... So it's not easy.
Same old story with about all my ex-Girlfriends.

Lub can't change nothinh, it's a torture for her body and for my desires.
 

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Hiya hunni where are you from? Your profile says Canada !

I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt here too,
How long you been with her??
3 1/2 years, other before 6 1/2 years, before before 2 years and ? A lots after each ones, i'v been a barman on the Nightclub Street of my HomeTown.
 

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"I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt here too"?
How can i loosing time talking about that? :/
I'v got a Gallerie if needed?
 

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It could be fun to get a talk.
So your welcome to be back a get a look to help with my problem...
;)
 

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1. We really didn't need the pic.

2. You sound selfish. I don't want to help you. I want to help Her.


Went there hunni, complete catfish load of tripe, yet another to be swept under the carpet Lol

Sometimes I enquire myself of why I'm so patient and get fished! X
 

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Went there hunni, complete catfish load of tripe, yet another to be swept under the carpet Lol

Sometimes I enquire myself of why I'm so patient and get fished! X

It's the symptoms of a caring heart and being human Holly :)

Whilst I don't want to contribute to a thread that is clearly about fake profiles and the like, when I first read it I could relate to the situation because I had an ex that was similar - she would get panic attacks in the middle of sex and practically kick me across the room trying to defend herself. It stems back to an assault she suffered years prior but had never worked through. Anyway, I was starting to sympathise with the OP ... until the random chat started.
 

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It's the symptoms of a caring heart and being human Holly :)

Whilst I don't want to contribute to a thread that is clearly about fake profiles and the like, when I first read it I could relate to the situation because I had an ex that was similar - she would get panic attacks in the middle of sex and practically kick me across the room trying to defend herself. It stems back to an assault she suffered years prior but had never worked through. Anyway, I was starting to sympathise with the OP ... until the random chat started.
Yeah full of bull unfortunately hunni, I like to give advice/help when possible but some people are beyond it imo xx
 
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Yeah full of bull unfortunately hunni, I like to give advice/help when possible but some people are beyond it imo xx

No doubt. I’d like to think our Canadian education system is better than that. I’d like to think Canadians are better than he, alas, some of my fellow Canucks sincerely disappoint me.

Let me apologize on their behalf. ;)
 

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Well, i'v just try to talk about some solutions for my sex life.
I did'nt want to get someone here angry.
I think that my (French Canadian) English is to bad "maybe" for subjects like that.
I'm sorry. I'll found out for that kind of problems, somewere on the Web...
 

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Well, i'v just try to talk about some solutions for my sex life.
I did'nt want to get someone here angry.
I think that my (French Canadian) English is to bad "maybe" for subjects like that.
I'm sorry. I'll found out for that kind of problems, somewere on the Web...

It wasn't the language barrier that made me not want to help you.
 

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Leave her. Seriously, break up. If you aren't compatible physically then your emotional compatibility will suffer in the long run.

Don't you think she's being selfish? I'm not saying that she is, but don't YOU think that way? Yeah, see? It's never going to work for you.

Do both of you a favor and end it now before it becomes too much and you begin to resent each other.
 
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