Feel guilty about young guys

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  1. slimgurl

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    Not sure if others share this feeling, but when I find myself attracted to 20 and 21 year old guys (and early to mid 20s) I feel guitly about it. There are some very good looking guys in my area (and at my gym). It's mainly physical. A guy's body is only like that for so long.

    Is this unsual or do some of you also catch yourself sometimes thinking this way. Oh, I am NOT married, if that matters.

    Thanks!
     
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    No fantasy is wrong as it is a fantasy even if you are married.. Secondly you are attracted to adults so there is no issue at all. If you want to date one. go for it.
     
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    Trust me, it works exactly the same when the roles are reversed!
     
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    They fantasize about you, its not wrong
     
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    I fantasize about older women coming onto me all the time
     
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    Yeah, it's nothing to feel guilty about wanting, or doing. They're adult, you're adult, just have a good time!
     
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    guys in there late teens and twentys are in there prime. Sooooo damn good looking. full of cum. Live what you can. bro. Its the only trip of its kind. then its over..
     
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    I know that I shouldn't - we are all adults, consenting and all that. But if I could have given birth to someone, I suffer a bit from the "ew factor" when I find out his age. There really has been only one exception.....and holy crap was that a mistake! Body of a god, emotionally & intellectually practically a newborn. Personally, I do prefer younger men, but I have my limits. I can't say it would never happen, it just hasn't happened yet.

    And I have never looked at my oldest's friends as a possible dating pool! :eek:
     
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    Mr. MoT.
    Mr. Pendie.
    Mr. No_Strings

    as soon as i am out of my twenties i so plan to exclusively perv on too young menfolk :biggrin:
     
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    No need to wait, perv now!
     
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    Just had to register my vote of disagreement on this one. I like my guys to have got a bit of learning into them first. And guy faces do lovely things as they mature. They develop a ruggedness.


    I'm not quite old enough for this effect yet (won't be long :tongue:), but I get that little ew factor if they are my parents' age or older, or my siblings' ages. Reminding me of my family members during sex is NOT a good thing!
     
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    right now i am concentrating on perving folks old enough to be my mom/dad :biggrin1::wink::eek:

    i has a system :tongue:

    age doesn't squick me.
    names do.

    tried to date a woman with the same name as a Tia of mine. *stupid common names*
    i mean sex talk so could not be done*shudder*

    ya know.. just randomly, and not even slightly OP related
     
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    Well, maybe it was slightly OP related. You did mention age once after all :tongue:.

    I would like to be more unsquicked by age, but really, it's just not happening. Fine for chatty, flirty play, but actual sex? Not gonna work.

    I get the name thing BTW. I have no doubt that could make me go all squicky too.
     
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    If they were my parents' age, I'd have to use the lube to pop them out of the wheelchair! Never looked at a guy entering his 90's and thought, 'mmm, gotta get me some of that!' :biggrin1:
     
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    I've been flirting whit an 'older' lady. She is 15 years my senior, her oldest daughter is 9 years younger than me. She mentioned a few times that she could be my mother, so she obviously feels guilty about it. But i guess that's why nothing really serious has happened... yet:biggrin1:. But still, sometimes she has to give in to lust and we have done some excellent stuff, stuff I like to call bambi-sex.
     
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    I know what you mean, when I hear someone has the same name as a person I already know, my prejudice reaches it's max level. I always assume they have a similar personality.

    btw, what does 'tia' mean other than 'this is africa'?
    edit: nevermind, i should learn to google before i ask stupid questions :p
     
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    I'd beg to differ with that statement. There are plenty of guys in their 30s, 40s, and even 50s that have a body that would blow a 20 year old's out of the water.

    Granted you have to work harder at it as you get older.

    I personally like a slightly hairier say 35 yo body over a hairless 20 yo body any day of the week! :tongue:

    EDIT:

    Just read that, and I totally agree! :smile:
     
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    Absofuckinglutely.
     
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    I think its not wrong to have a thing for younger guys. I myself had older women hitting on me, and I even had sex with one for a short period (the housecleaner while I was 19 or 20 and she in her late 30s). It was great, and I for sure fantasize doing it with older women. So it is the other way around as well.
     
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    *waits patiently for semi-exclusive perv status*
     
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