Feel guilty about young guys

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Not sure if others share this feeling, but when I find myself attracted to 20 and 21 year old guys (and early to mid 20s) I feel guitly about it. There are some very good looking guys in my area (and at my gym). It's mainly physical. A guy's body is only like that for so long.

Is this unsual or do some of you also catch yourself sometimes thinking this way. Oh, I am NOT married, if that matters.

Thanks!


i have such conflicting feelings about this. i'm in my 50's and have younger guys hit on me. plus, on this site there is great young eye candy that i would love to perv at. i am old enough to be their mothers. i have never been married or had kids. i've never wanted to. i think i might have the heart of a cougar.
 

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For the record, I like both older (at the very minimum 25 years or older) men and women. :smile:

Something about maturity and age is much more attractive to me than youth and immaturity. Both in look in and attitude! :tongue:
 
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Unfortunately, just because someone should be an "adult" based on age doesn't mean they are always an "adult" based on attitude.

Most 20 year olds are far from adults based on attitude. Then again, there are plenty 30, 40, etc. year olds that fall into that same category. :cool:
 

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Yes, but that's addressing who you're drawn to, which is subjective. I was responding to her concern that she should feel guilty about it because they're younger.

Yeah I purposely didn't quote you because although I got the idea for my statement from you, it wasn't in direct response to what you said. :tongue:
 

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For the record, I like both older (at the very minimum 25 years or older) men and women. :smile:

Something about maturity and age is much more attractive to me than youth and immaturity. Both in look in and attitude! :tongue:

Damn! Too young for you! But I am very mature for a woman in her 40s! Maybe CG........:biggrin1:
 

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I just think this is something I am going to do very soon. I already pretty much know who, but I some days tell myself, "are you serious about this?"

He has an amazing body, and just overall attractive face. Kinda shy tho
 

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Just had to register my vote of disagreement on this one. I like my guys to have got a bit of learning into them first. And guy faces do lovely things as they mature. They develop a ruggedness.

Amen to that! I'm still young and I perv on the older gents like it's my job.

I am currently with someone who is 10 years older then me. Boy let me just say I'm happier now then I ever could have imagined. Hooray for older men. >:F
 

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Not sure if others share this feeling, but when I find myself attracted to 20 and 21 year old guys (and early to mid 20s) I feel guitly about it. There are some very good looking guys in my area (and at my gym). It's mainly physical. A guy's body is only like that for so long.

Is this unsual or do some of you also catch yourself sometimes thinking this way. Oh, I am NOT married, if that matters.

Thanks!

Nothing wrong with that :smile:
 

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I admit that I enjoying looking at young guys that are fit, but I have learned never, ever to flirt with them! It's like an open invitation to hit on you constantly. And they are persistent as hell. I guess they think we're all cougars who don't get enough.

So I look but make sure I'm not seen looking.
 
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I just think this is something I am going to do very soon. I already pretty much know who, but I some days tell myself, "are you serious about this?"

He has an amazing body, and just overall attractive face. Kinda shy tho

go for it!
 

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I can def relate Ellie. This guy's body is amazing. He's the long lean type -- not skinny but def not overly muscular. Cute smile too. Nice tush lol.