feel insecure about my height

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I think women are initially attracted to height on sight but can quickly be turned on by other factors. I'm not very tall myself but I've had many sexual partners and I've found they are far more impressed with my endowment once they find out about it, rather than how tall I am.
I once fucked a girl who was telling me about an acquaintance they had who was a giant in height, about 6'8, and she had assumed he'd be hung like me (like a horse), once she found out he was actually hung like a baby it seemed he became somewhat a point of amusement to her, still a valued friend but she had clearly lost interest in him as a viable sexual partner. Some may say she was just shallow but that little story just illustrate to me how height on sight is attractive but then you need to have something more appealing in addition.
 

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I am tall and I've heard that there are numerous studies that say tall men find it easier to succeed in business and with attracting women. To the extent that may have benefitted me over the years I guess I should be grateful.

But, believe me, there are also plenty of disadvantages to being extra tall. Next time you're out clothes shopping see how much variety you can find in pants with a 38" inseam, for example. I don't much like baggy clothing and, since I've trimmed down to 200 pounds, a large shirt fits my torso just right; but I have to wear XL shirts in order to have enough sleeve length. And casual clothing that comes in the generic S to XXL sizes (such as sweats) have pants with inseams way too short for me. In order not to look ridiculously "high water" I need to wear L or XL sweat pants but my waist is only a medium. Sure, there are plenty of tall men's clothing stores (if you live in the big city, which I don't) but now you're talking pricey. With the rest of my body being in proportion to my height I also have to special order gloves in XXL or XXXL sizes and I suffer the same lack of selection for shoes in my size (14).

Getting into and out of smaller cars is literally a pain. Most furniture doesn't even fit my body properly. In my prime I was 6'6" and, even though that's two inches shorter than the height of a standard door opening, I had to be careful when passing through doorways not to be on the rise of my step lest I crack the crown of my head. Believe me, that hurts. I can't take a soothing hot bath in my bathtub without some significant portion of my body being exposed to the cold air, so I had to go out and buy a hot tub to sooth my aching back Trust me, there are some significant advantages to being of average height.

But where relationships and sex are concerned I've never found height to be an issue. I've dated girls from less than five feet tall to nearly my own height and have had sex with both men and women of all heights. Physical intimacy seems to always work itself out regardless.
 

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I have nothing to add about how a 5-foot-10 guy has height issues when he steps up to 6-foot-2 for a moment.
Standing 6-foot-7, with size 16 shoes, and a hand span of 11.25 inches; you know nothing about real height issues.
 

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I think women are initially attracted to height on sight but can quickly be turned on by other factors. I'm not very tall myself but I've had many sexual partners and I've found they are far more impressed with my endowment once they find out about it, rather than how tall I am.
I once fucked a girl who was telling me about an acquaintance they had who was a giant in height, about 6'8, and she had assumed he'd be hung like me (like a horse), once she found out he was actually hung like a baby it seemed he became somewhat a point of amusement to her, still a valued friend but she had clearly lost interest in him as a viable sexual partner. Some may say she was just shallow but that little story just illustrate to me how height on sight is attractive but then you need to have something more appealing in addition.

Really? You impress women by stealing dildo videos from the Internet? Please, enlighten us to how that is done.
 
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I have said it before and I will say it again. I am one short fucker 5'5" tall. I even became a 1/4 inch shorter after crashing a parachute. Anyway ladies and gents' so the fuck what. I don't get worried about being short. I am a hell of an athlete. I have a great body and a handsome face. I have strong leadership ability and have no problem getting big tall guys to follow my lead to accomplish tasks. Hell, I was an Army Ranger. I got called "trench gun" a nickname that related me to the short 12 gauge shotgun used in world war 2. Now I know some other guys who are quite worried about this height thing. Get the fuck over it. You are not going to grow anymore. Be the best you can be and do the most you can do. I know plenty of self concisious tall guys. As for the whole meeting women thing don't worry about that either. I managed to smash more than my fair share along the way. In fact I can lay claim to a few girls that just wanted to see why I was so confident. I found a woman who is just right for me. She is really fucking pretty too. At 4'11" she is just the right height. We fit together perfectly when I hold her and you cannot beat that.