feel of a large penis a womans point of view

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Hi, just saw the question and thought I would answer how it is for me personally.

Well hubby found one that was 9and half inches long, and when I sat on it while hubby watched I thought this nice and it was, but when the guy wanted me in the doggie position, it hurt like hell when he put it fully in. I took it for about ten minutes and then had to tell him that it hurt too much and so he got on top and that was better but still hit my end stop which I did not like. So for me I will stick to 7 max and still enjoy hubbies 5 which is quite thick and yes thickness is for me more enjoyable rather than just plain length.

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I've had a couple male friends with big fat cocks that looked odd. Not arousing. Tapered, big in the middle. Looked like an animal penis. It's gotta be straight with a nice head. Yes I can get wet looking at a perfect cock on an ugly man, as long as I don't see the man attached.

Yes, the orgasms are harder. Perfect is 8 x 5+. I have pity fucked a few small ones on otherwise great guys, but if it doesn't feel spectacular, no amount of good head will make up for that and keep me around.

I'm more physically responsive to something that psychologically moves me, like a perfect cock. But if there's not chemistry, there's no sex. If I jack off to a stranger on the Internet, it doesn't mean I'd do it in reality!
 

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Excuse my english,iS THERE significative difference in making sex with e big/huge dick respect to a normal size? i think that if a girl take a big cock often she have difficulty to feel normal dick normal is for me 4-5 in girth...is true what you think about?
 

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The responses from the women really make a lot of sense. For views, it has more to do with aesthetics rather than just size. For sex, it has more to do with the sexual feeling of the act rather than size.

I think anyone who cares enough to take the cues and pleasure their partner will be in fine shape with a woman. Size may matter to a point, but to a much lessor degree.

My 2c

A cut penis looks generaly UGLY. Looks like a dog's dick.
 

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I think it really depends on the girl. I'd say most seem to enjoy some extra depth, there is certainly a pretty large group that has relatively shallow vaginas or who find contact with the fornix too tender. I think most will agree they like being stretched by girth, but I find it frustrating to fuck with only the first four inches of my dick. When there is sexual incompatibility, you move on quickly.
 

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Big dicks in my opinion are often just a psychological turn on. Some women find them uncomfortable or painful - particularly if the man doesn't know what he's doing or has no idea about the anatomy of a woman. Positioning can be crucial. I worked as an escort for a couple of years (in Oz and New Zealand - wouldn't do it here in the UK as the industry isn't yet legal and is way too dangerous and exploitative) and learnt a lot through that. I really don't think size is that important as the best orgasm I ever had was given by a client with an average size penis and who wasn't particularly fantastic looking - just shows you. He had me begging him - lots of tongue use, kept bringing me to the edge of orgasm and pulling back - nearly fainted when he finally pushed me over the edge. I never come from penetration alone, got to be some clitoral stimulation (gentle though - with some men you'd think they are trying to sand off a rusty screw (pardon the pun) - keep your nails short and smooth - how would you like a nice sharp bit dragging over your bell-end? Ha ha!). Then there was a famous person I slept with famed for his conquests who was pretty average, and a German pilot who was the best looking man I'd ever slept with (almost paid him!), who also turned out to be so so really. Turning on a woman is definitely about gentle, small but persistent movements rather than wham, bam thank you maam! I don't mind getting a good seeing to once in a while as i guess that's what a lot of men like - and some women may get off on that but I think it can be more psychological than actual physical pleasure - but as long as they are willing to slow down and listen to our needs too. I really like being brought just to the point of coming and then being penetrated which then tips me over. Prefer girth to length anyday. But have seen all sorts of shapes and sizes - from hugely long, large all over, (tend to be on tall skinny men in my experience), to the short and wide, to the pencil-thin and long, to the micro penis and none were a guarantee of anything (penis size is all genetic anyway so if your dad had a big one you are more likely to have the same)
 

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I've had a couple male friends with big fat cocks that looked odd. Not arousing. Tapered, big in the middle. Looked like an animal penis. It's gotta be straight with a nice head. Yes I can get wet looking at a perfect cock on an ugly man, as long as I don't see the man attached.

Tapered cocks is actually the most common. It's not many guys who has a cock that's has the same thickness from bottom to top.
 

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what am I wondering about??? I'm hoping I am not hurting her, and I am doing it right for her. at 7.25 x 6.5(base), I am careful to ease in, not force my cock in. if it's just too tight, I would rather be on the bottom and let the lady take me in at her own speed. That was many years ago, when I was single. been married(& faithful) a long time to the same lady. we have 3 kids. and she still likes to ease down on me. she still tells me I have a big cock, she still likes that "full" feeling, she likes it balls deep, cums all over. calls me "comfortably large", her "big weiner man", and "skinny dude, with a fat dick." she loves my girth, and doesn't want longer because it hurts. she had a previous bf who was longer but thinner than me, and she said she could not get off with him.
 

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it had only been a day for one thing and for a second how do we know what to ask, it's yoru end of things
Threads can hit three pages or more in a day. How do you know what to ask?

I'm kinda curious here - what are some things you guys out there are wondering about when it comes to what women are feeling/thinking about when havin sex with a large penis...if anything?

Seems explanatory enough.
 

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Girls; any preferences for cock curve? The last girl I was with said it hit all the right spots when "grinding the corn", but haven't had any other comments. I'm about 7x6 but it curves upward. (I assume this is one of those "depends on the girl" things).
 

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Girls; any preferences for cock curve? The last girl I was with said it hit all the right spots when "grinding the corn", but haven't had any other comments. I'm about 7x6 but it curves upward. (I assume this is one of those "depends on the girl" things).

Depends on the girl and the position.

I very much like an upward curve because for face to face sex it's more likely to hit the g-spot. It's also more likely to slip past the cervix into the fornix rather than ramming the crrvix head on.
 

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I'm kinda curious here - what are some things you guys out there are wondering about when it comes to what women are feeling/thinking about when havin sex with a large penis...if anything?

Ok, I've got one...

My base girth is 6" and my mid-shaft girth is 5.5". Does a wider base feel any different than a narrower, or equal base? Or am I just thinking too much? (Length is 6.5", so hitting it too deep isn't an issue)
 

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My answers are in purple

1- Do bigger cocks give better orgasms?
It really all depends on the guy
2- After having great sex with a big cock can you go back to an average cock?
You have to out of necessity
3- Do woman like being able to take in 9inches?
Again I guess it depends on the woman
4- When you are taking in a huge cock what feels better- The actual pressure from the big cock in your vagina or how relaxed and large your vagina stretches to accommodate the large penis
I try not to over think during sex it ruins it
5- What feels better a 8in length 5 inch girth penis or a 6 inch length and a 6 inch girth penis?
My knee jerk answer is the the first one... but there are probably exceptions
6- does the sight of a big cock instantly make you wet and horny? or do u still need stimulation
stimulation
7- what is the perfect size to you?
No such thing... but I can tickle myself :biggrin1:

* does it physically feel better to be with a bigger-dicked man, or is it more psychological (that is, are you turned on my the thought of having a bigger-dicked man and the sense of accomplishment of being able to take all of him)?
physically it just feels better
* are little dicked guys an annoyance--"pity fucks"--or can you genuinely be turned on my a little guy's stroke, and not just his pussy-eating skills?
Depends on how little we're talking and whether or not he knows how to handle what he has
* what do y'all consider a "big" dick? [among by black gay/bi friends and I, less than 7" (18 cm) is small, 7" (18 cm) is tolerable, 8" (20 cm) is accepatble, 9" (23 cm) is marriage material, and 10"--"double digits"--(25 cm) or more is considered "big". Ten inches (25 cm) is like winning the lottery. Eleven inches (28 cm) will have you "dickmatized", and 12" (30 cm) or more is a news story because you are likely to go "psycho" on any person that tries to have your man after all the work you put into to learning to take and taking that huge piece multiple times a day, everyday. (Isn't funny that guys with huge dicks are insatiable and have crazy high sex drives? LOL)
I consider 6 average 7 above average 8-9 big and everything bigger than that is a challenge and I love a challenge:naughty: