feel of a large penis a womans point of view

[RopesWife]

I think it really depends on the girl. I'd say most seem to enjoy some extra depth, there is certainly a pretty large group that has relatively shallow vaginas or who find contact with the fornix too tender. I think most will agree they like being stretched by girth, but I find it frustrating to fuck with only the first four inches of my dick. When there is sexual incompatibility, you move on quickly.

Nice, baby. I'm going to have to see what other interesting opinions you have around here.:wink:

But answering the question, I would say that I feel like I have to do a lot more work to make the sex good for both of us with a smaller cock. Gripping down more really. With a large cock I there is the obvious stretch or feeling of fullness, but I also feel like that frees me up to relax a little bit and enjoy the pressure and probing. Its kind of like the difference between doing situps and getting a massage. I can contract down when I need to, but I don't feel like I have to squeeze down hard to make it good for both of us. It gives me a lot more control over my orgasm.

 

[RawDog]

Its kind of like the difference between doing situps and getting a massage.

Excellent analogy.

 

[B_ccc888]

I'm curious:
* does it physically feel better to be with a bigger-dicked man, or is it more psychological (that is, are you turned on my the thought of having a bigger-dicked man and the sense of accomplishment of being able to take all of him)?

* are little dicked guys an annoyance--"pity fucks"--or can you genuinely be turned on my a little guy's stroke, and not just his pussy-eating skills?

* what do y'all consider a "big" dick? [among by black gay/bi friends and I, less than 7" (18 cm) is small, 7" (18 cm) is tolerable, 8" (20 cm) is accepatble, 9" (23 cm) is marriage material, and 10"--"double digits"--(25 cm) or more is considered "big". Ten inches (25 cm) is like winning the lottery. Eleven inches (28 cm) will have you "dickmatized", and 12" (30 cm) or more is a news story because you are likely to go "psycho" on any person that tries to have your man after all the work you put into to learning to take and taking that huge piece multiple times a day, everyday. (Isn't funny that guys with huge dicks are insatiable and have crazy high sex drives? LOL)]

Yo!

I would rather have an average of 5-7 inches dick that is thick and hard as rock

than 12 inches useless FLABBY JUNK that I can only swing around like a thick soft rope instead of penetrating any pussies :tongue:

 

[B_ccc888]

Most penises are falling between 5-7 inches............

Most guys here are likely in the upper side of this common and average side about 7" top.......

Unless you can show me a taped measure along with your junks

I don't buy it whenever you say you're 8" or 9" or 12"

overly Huge dicks are actually gross and turn off for gays or girls as well......

Just a proportional, thick, nicely shaped and hard dicks are mostly adored and admired by most of us.

 

[amandainatlanta]

I havent posted in forever but thought i would give my two cents. I am actually one that likes a really big guy. It not always more pleasurable (as far as the physical), but there is something about the size of the guy that is amazing. The pressure is part of it, but something about knowing he is inside you with his length that is a huge turn on. Unfortunately I am one that is not that deep, so large guys have always hurt a bit, but...and dont judge, but i have always found that larger guys are much better for anal than vaginal

 

[Symphonic]

I'm kinda curious here - what are some things you guys out there are wondering about when it comes to what women are feeling/thinking about when havin sex with a large penis...if anything?

Actually I'm really concerned about how she feels in regards to pleasure and whatnot. I don't want to hurt her, I don't want her to get bored, I am concerned I am using a bad rhythm, and I always, always worry about her safety in regards to even what she likes ( like, if she wants it rough, how rough is "too rough"? ) and really my sex is all about her, and nothing about me.

 

[D_Paddy Gonia]

How does the sensation of insertion differ from that of stroking? I know for me insertion is intense....stroking feels good but doesn't stimulate the nerves on my head (for obvious reasons) like insertion does.

 

[crossy]

The initial penetration with a thick lubed dick is awesome friction for a girl. A small head and a significant midshaft girth >5.5 prolly feels the same. During stroking the vag expands and a skinny dude might have to work hard and be very creative to keep the show on the road

 

[eroticexotic1]

I have a few questions.

1- Do bigger cocks give better orgasms? I am a very petite woman, so a longer penis is sometimes very uncomfy.
2- After having great sex with a big cock can you go back to an average cock? Oh, of course, but it may not hit all those nice spots.
3- Do woman like being able to take in 9inches? I can't do it besides orally
4- When you are taking in a huge cock what feels better- The actual pressure from the big cock in your vagina or how relaxed and large your vagina stretches to accommodate the large penis The "stretch" or pressure I find very arousing.
5- What feels better a 8in length 5 inch girth penis or a 6 inch length and a 6 inch girth penis? I would take a 6 length 8 girth anytime.
6- does the sight of a big cock instantly make you wet and horny? or do u still need stimulation Instantly no, but if the whole package is nice it yes it will make me wet seeing a bigger penis, I actually am a very visual girl, I am that 1 in however many that actually likes to watch porno.
7- what is the perfect size to you?

I would say 7" L 6-7" girth

 

[eroticexotic1]

Still no one answered my question about "ugly" penis, is there such a thing? what do you mean exactly by ugly ?

Ugly I believe would be in the eye of the beholder. Yes, I have seen less than attractive ones.

 

[eroticexotic1]

How about the size and width of the head of the penis ?? is it important to the feeling of the woman also ??

My experience is YES, like a screw driver only as good as the bit!

 

[eroticexotic1]

Hello everyone!
I know it may seem obvious, but what exactly is arousing in a large penis, from a female point of view. Men might view a sizeable dick as a symbol of power, as a means to unfallibly catch women's eyes and erotic interest...
But as a woman, what is it about a massive one? Sheer aesthetics, the anticipation..., an image of virility?

Asthetics and anticipation, because I know how good it will feel.

 

[D_Percy_Pebbles]

Jeez erotic, you resurrected this thread from the grave lol!

 

[eroticexotic1]

Hi, just saw the question and thought I would answer how it is for me personally.

Well hubby found one that was 9and half inches long, and when I sat on it while hubby watched I thought this nice and it was, but when the guy wanted me in the doggie position, it hurt like hell when he put it fully in. I took it for about ten minutes and then had to tell him that it hurt too much and so he got on top and that was better but still hit my end stop which I did not like. So for me I will stick to 7 max and still enjoy hubbies 5 which is quite thick and yes thickness is for me more enjoyable rather than just plain length.

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Agree 100%

 

[eroticexotic1]

Jeez erotic, you resurrected this thread from the grave lol!

I just joined and this was of considerable interest to me, I like opinions.

 

[D_Percy_Pebbles]

I just joined and this was of considerable interest to me, I like opinions.

Awesome! Welcome to the site!

 

[Joboo6]

I'm kinda curious here - what are some things you guys out there are wondering about when it comes to what women are feeling/thinking about when havin sex with a large penis...if anything?

I knew several girls back in the day that had sex with this particular guy because he was known to have a large penis. These girls were not typical fuck around girls, one was engaged and the other two were in committed relationships. Only reason I know is that he and I have been friends since childhood and he had to tell someone. I never repeated this back then. Two of the girls I spoke of came back for more, several times. His penis is like a 1/16 inch short of nine inches, if he bone pressed which they now say is the proper way he would have been over, but his dick was a little over seven inches around and he is an attractive guy, an asshole but attractive. I've had the pleasure of seeing a girl take his for the first time several times. When they see it you can tell they are immediately excited. From my experience watching I would say the girth is what does it. He would only get four or five inches in and after a few minutes they would have an orgasm. Once they came he was able to get deeper. I only remember one girl that was frequent that could get on top of him and just pound ever inch into her but she would take him deep very slowly at first and after a little bit she could easily take all of him. She was a pretty small girl too.

 

[Joboo6]

I knew several girls back in the day that had sex with this particular guy because he was known to have a large penis. These girls were not typical fuck around girls, one was engaged and the other two were in committed relationships. Only reason I know is that he and I have been friends since childhood and he had to tell someone. I never repeated this back then. Two of the girls I spoke of came back for more, several times. His penis is like a 1/16 inch short of nine inches, if he bone pressed which they now say is the proper way he would have been over, but his dick was a little over seven inches around and he is an attractive guy, an asshole but attractive. I've had the pleasure of seeing a girl take his for the first time several times. When they see it you can tell they are immediately excited. From my experience watching I would say the girth is what does it. He would only get four or five inches in and after a few minutes they would have an orgasm. Once they came he was able to get deeper. I only remember one girl that was frequent that could get on top of him and just pound ever inch into her but she would take him deep very slowly at first and after a little bit she could easily take all of him. She was a pretty small girl too.

And interesting side bar to me is I had a male friend that when we were 12-13 we jerked each other off, quite often. Then at 14 I got gf's and stopped with him. At 18 we happened to have a random encounter and when I saw how much bigger he had become than me I was attracted to his penis. I mean really attracted, so much so that I sucked him to completion. I thought back then it was just because it was big but the guy I talk about above was well bigger than him and I had absolutely no attraction to his.
Another thing I forgot about the above mentioned guy was he had at least two gay guys that sucked him off regularly. I remember them calling his apartment every week trying to schedule some time. Oh well...

 

[W/In 1 Stand Dev]

I am curious about how if you are a male in a relationship of whatever sort with a female, currently,...how does the conversation about her past lover's penis sizes even come up?

I would think if you are secure and in a healthy relationship being compared to past boyfriends in any aspect wouldn't even occur.

Besides that, I am a "less history, more mystery" kinda guy.

 

[Trott.lint]

@W/In 1 Stand Dev In my case, I knew my gf's ex, played soccer with him & knew he was huge flaccid. That didnt bother me in my 20s because I thought an orgasm is an orgasm and as I was giving my gf orgasms everytime we had sex, I thought size must be irrelevant. But she made a couple of comments, such as disappointment at me not reaching her backwall ('should we try a different position so you can reach the back?') & when, having become aware of the difference size can make from the internet, I asked her casually whether there were different types of orgasms caused by different sizes. She answered calmly, saying yes 'when it stretches you & hits the back, the orgasms are very deep and long lasting and involve lots of tingling during cul de sac contact and afterwards'. I felt a stab of crippling pain but didnt let it show for fear of looking like an pathetic insecure worm. She took my casualness for complete security (I can be a good actor) & so was happy for a while to tell me more about the differences caused by fullness, stretching, rolling vaginal orgasms etc etc. (One comment really stuck: when he hit the back wall, she described it as an OMFG moment that sent her wild). However, the moment she realized I was too curious & might be too interested, she backed off completely saying 'size is completely irrelevant, it's love and emotion that counts.' Since then, that's been her lie, she's clamped up. I've eroticized the pain, maybe it's the way my psyche best deals with it.