Feel of penetration

[Gisella]

During sex, does it feel differently to be penetrated deeply? I know girth can make a big difference. When I watch porn, I see that big girth guys move and draw in all the surrounding tissue and that has to heighten the feel. But what about length? Do those last inches count?

As a girth affectionado woman...what I have to say is:

A long penis without a fat girth does not give the same heaven pleasure than an average one with a fat girth..I must have both or girth to feel what I crave vaginaly...

But if I was into anal for sure a long and thinner would be nicer, I think. And would be the only situation that I would give up girth to lenght.

 

[Aplus]

As a girth affectionado woman...what I have to say is:

A long penis without a fat girth does not give the same heaven pleasure than an average one with a fat girth..I must have both or girth to feel what I crave vaginaly...

But if I was into anal for sure a long and thinner would be nicer, I think. And would be the only situation that I would give up girth to lenght.

I don't necessarily believe this to be true with all or most women though. I've heard many women admit over the years that they had little (to) no feeling deep inside their vaginas. Usually being able to feel only the first few inches on any guy. First few inches I believe to mean no more than the first 3 or 4 inches. Something that initially surprised me when I first heard it, and still somewhat perplexes me to this day...then again I'm not a woman. Not sure if it would be universal with size-queens, but I know some who professed to being able to actually feel every single inch no matter how big?

 

[68306]

Recieving end:
Stretching - you will slowly lose the feeling of normal sized objects penetrating you, as you require larger objects to generate the friction. There are condoms that can still help in this area though.

Elasticity - you can accept even smaller and larger ones, and still retain more feeling for the normal ones. Imagine being continuously impaled by a can of fly spray, then holding a pencil by it's eraser only seconds later, and finishing off with a sensation the huge object couldn't provide.


Sure, the whole forced to breaking point domination thing of massive penetration might be some carnal desire within us, but those with elasticity can do whatever feels right for them at the time, even if it's just a knitting needle that fills them up in the best way possible.

 

[Gillette]

I don't necessarily believe this to be true with all or most women though. I've heard many women admit over the years that they had little (to) no feeling deep inside their vaginas. Usually being able to feel only the first few inches on any guy. First few inches I believe to mean no more than the first 3 or 4 inches. Something that initially surprised me when I first heard it, and still somewhat perplexes me to this day...then again I'm not a woman. Not sure if it would be universal with size-queens, but I know some who professed to being able to actually feel every single inch no matter how big?

I keep seeing this factoid show up in response to length issues and I'd like to explain why length is still important.

If the guy has a 4" penis, during thrusting the woman will feel on the in-stroke 1",2",3", 4" and on the out-stroke 4", 3",2", 1" of vaginal sensation.

If the guy has an 8" penis, during thrusting the woman will feel on the in-stroke 1",2",3",4",4",4",4",4" and on the out-stroke 4",4",4",4",4",3",2",1" of vaginal sensation.

A longer penis will stimulate those 4'' for more duration than a shorter penis can during thrusting.

This is in addition to the pleasurable sensations from pressure around or on the cervix which is entirely dependant on length.

 

[Gisella]

I keep seeing this factoid show up in response to length issues and I'd like to explain why length is still important.

If the guy has a 4" penis, during thrusting the woman will feel on the in-stroke 1",2",3", 4" and on the out-stroke 4", 3",2", 1" of vaginal sensation.

If the guy has an 8" penis, during thrusting the woman will feel on the in-stroke 1",2",3",4",4",4",4",4" and on the out-stroke 4",4",4",4",4",3",2",1" of vaginal sensation.

A longer penis will stimulate those 4'' for more duration than a shorter penis can during thrusting.

This is in addition to the pleasurable sensations from pressure around or on the cervix which is entirely dependant on length.

No I dont think is a factoid if we are talking about an average woman who do not get pleasure by being pressured on the cervix or being pocked by a long thin penis without a fat girth streching the walls..by cushion it.

When I'm talking long in my experience is a 9"....for sure to have a 9"x6" thrusting inside me in long strokes was heaven but not because it was just long but fat too. Is the mix of both measures that is pleasurable at least to me. Girth for me that is good is a 6" and I crave even more.

Well who is talking by a 4" when it not an average but small?? I'm talking an average 6" and a above average 7" will fill me good as an average size woman that do not need to be massage in the cervix at all to get extra pleasure or orgasm by it..but my plesure and orgasm trigger is to be massge in my vaginal walls.

I need girth and an average 6" and above average 7" will satysfied ME. I dont 'need' a 9" lenght.

I do think males have to pay attention that every woman is unique and have different needs and buttoms triggers. And I'm not a girth affectionado because I'm 'guessing" of what I like or feel, I KNOW it already!

Thanks...:smile:

 

[68306]

Rightly said.

Just like many wine drinkers love a good style of red, while some of us are into the entire spectrum. It's what they love, and that is that.


I still enjoy using the wrong tool for the right job though. ... You don't need to be big, in order to be huge

 

[Gisella]

Ah..and by the way..I was married with a 5"x4,5"...I orgasm 90% of the time with it..but because I have lots of natural lub production I had to be drying me up during sex to get fricctions...if he was more girthy it will not happen and the lub would not be in the 'way"...it does not happen with fat girths this situation...we do not loose friccion because I'm wet. It than enjoyable to both of us.

Yep, I need girthy penis for sure. I'm telling you: I'm a girth girthy girl...

 

[Gillette]

When I'm talking long in my experience is a 9"....for sure to have a 9"x6" thrusting inside me in long strokes was heaven but not because it was just long but fat too. Is the mix of both measures that is pleasurable at least to me. Girth for me that is good is a 6" and I crave even more.

Well who is talking by a 4" when it not an average but small?? I'm talking an average 6" and a above average 7" will fill me good as an average size woman that do not need to be massage in the cervix at all to get extra pleasure or orgasm by it..but my plesure and orgasm trigger is to be massge in my vaginal walls.

The 4" and 8" lengths were only for the purpose of example.

I'm not sure you've understood my point. I haven't said that length is more important than girth. What I meant was given that both erections are the same girth, the longer of the two will provide more stimulation because each thrust not only fills that "magic four inch passage" of vagina but continues, with it's extra length, to push through it on each stroke.

I'm a girth lover, too, but length definitely comes into play as well. If I was satisfied by large girth but no length I'd be backing into doorknobs with alarming frequency.

 

[ArtfulDominant]

The 4" and 8" lengths were only for the purpose of example.

I'm not sure you've understood my point. I haven't said that length is more important than girth. What I meant was given that both erections are the same girth, the longer of the two will provide more stimulation because each thrust not only fills that "magic four inch passage" of vagina but continues, with it's extra length, to push through it on each stroke.

I'm a girth lover, too, but length definitely comes into play as well. If I was satisfied by large girth but no length I'd be backing into doorknobs with alarming frequency.

LOL Point taken Gillette. Hey you tried to give a sophisticated mathematical reason in your previous post, but some people just need to picture it. Too much. You're funny! :biggerGrin:

 

[ripsrips]

My wife just started to take my cock in her ass after 2 yrs of marrage just because was scared it would hurt so much as it did her pussy and it took her awhile just to get her pussy from not being sore for days after. I'm only 8.5 long and 7.5 girth. We did some hypno-therapy (sex therapist) and now she's relaxed alot more and we really get rough during sex. We actually watched my twin brother fuck her best friend in the ass so she could get herself a visual of what to expect. As of today and working her ass with increased sizes of dildos 6 months later we have now had anal sex 9 times and she loves it and something new has happened, everytime and only during anal sex she plays with her clit and when she cums she now squirts and not just a dribble were talking close to a 1/2 cup of this almost pre-cum type of liquid.

 

[Gisella]

The 4" and 8" lengths were only for the purpose of example.

I'm not sure you've understood my point. I haven't said that length is more important than girth. What I meant was given that both erections are the same girth, the longer of the two will provide more stimulation because each thrust not only fills that "magic four inch passage" of vagina but continues, with it's extra length, to push through it on each stroke.

I'm a girth lover, too, but length definitely comes into play as well. If I was satisfied by large girth but no length I'd be backing into doorknobs with alarming frequency.

The only thing that I for sure know is thightly fit to a knobdoors is a door...but it may be a fetish to some.

As I said in my first post both is necessary...but my preference will be girth above lenght to specific averages. I'm the one in every poll asking to choose between a 7"x5" to 5"x7" I do choose the girth 'odd' looking one...that for sure can 'look' odd but 'feel' wonderful, to me.

Comparing what some say as a perfect 8"x6" to an 4"x6" is obvious who will give more sensations. 8" is a large and 4" a small.

But between averages above averages lenghts with a good girth (6") at least to me there is not difference because of lenght, again.

Dependending of style a woman like to fuck, by gridding or thrusting or mix of both, they will have diferences in oppinions what are the specifics that satisfies them.

I myself like rough thrustings to the tilt on deep position penetrations..than some larges and extra larges as much long strokes they can acomplish it may be a disconfort. I can not do 'my thing' with a 9" so careless banging as I could with an 8" and 7"...as many women cannot too.

Than realistically...to me, an average lenght do a good job as satisfying me...and and above average girth a perfect one, to me.

 

[Gisella]

LOL Point taken Gillette. Hey you tried to give a sophisticated mathematical reason in your previous post, but some people just need to picture it. Too much. You're funny! :biggerGrin:

Some sophisticated mathematical reasons do not apply for what and how individual women feel and learn by practicing sex in their bodies. We are not equations and numbers where one simple formula will fit all.

Get it.

 

[Gisella]

And we can not forget the foreskin sensations that some women get it as sensational and extra stimulation and others do not even feel it...

Yep..we are all different.

:smile:

 

[Aplus]

Some sophisticated mathematical reasons do not apply for what and how individual women feel and learn by practicing sex in their bodies. We are not equations and numbers where one simple formula will fit all.

Get it.

I do! Just lets guys know that they can never assume or coast. If only sex were so easy all the time...hell none of us would ever go to work. LOL!

 

[68306]

`tis different when it becomes a magical artform


Oh well, virginity should keep me safe from curing the nymphomaniac support groups and creating one for myself ;(


*shakes a lust-filled fist a the devil*

 

[Gillette]

Let's not have a mud fight here, Gisella.

My first post was to address why length would be a factor if the vagina only has nerves in the first few inches.

I understand that different women enjoy different things during sex, be it grinding, cervical stimulation or thrusting which I specified in my example. I don't recall saying that anything was standard for all women

 

[68306]

Yup, it depends on many things... all we offer here are an average of our own experiences.

 

[Gisella]

Let's not have a mud fight here, Gisella.

My first post was to address why length would be a factor if the vagina only has nerves in the first few inches.

I understand that different women enjoy different things during sex, be it grinding, cervical stimulation or thrusting which I specified in my example. I don't recall saying that anything was standard for all women

I do apologize to you Gillete, if when you said "factoide" was refering to the "experts" notions that says different women cannot feel deeper than 3",4" and that size does not matter to all women. That a vagina is 1/2 dead.

I'm all with you as the only woman expert is the woman, she is her own body expert and can voice very clearly her needs and preferences.

 

[AlbertCunning]

Being blessed with not much more than average length, but a decent girth(about 6 1/4"), I'm really glad there are Gisellas in this world.

There's a boost of confidence.....

 

[Gisella]

Being blessed with not much more than average length, but a decent girth(about 6 1/4"), I'm really glad there are Gisellas in this world.

There's a boost of confidence.....

Hmmm...gimme thick, thick everytime...than 'you'll' make me happy inside!

:hug:

Yes, I'm a girth girl!