Feeling awkward about people knowing you're big?

[wizard1]

Whole circle knows, although it was drunken friend that said it was a foot long lol. Fb shows pics to her gf's and I don't mind,I enjoy the compliments.

 

[BigBen]

It wasn't about me, but about one of my friends. He is somewhat anti-social and uncomfortable dealing with people and that is the first thing people say about him, but someone always follows up that remark with some remark about his giant dick.

I can so relate to this post....I am not anti social, but when one of the first things someone mentions is about my endowment...it is never welcome. Apparently, there are a lot of guys who think that is enduring or "friendly" or "bonding" to bring up my size in public, especially around people I have just met or don't even know. Awkward, always. But also annoying...and that person just added themselves to my list of people I do try to be anti social too.

 

[sangheili90]

I'm around 4.5-5" flaccid, which is well above average, and because of this will have a noticeable bulge, mostly whilst sitting down but sometimes standing as well. I've had many instances where people, both men and women, would notice my bulge and blatantly stare, some even in very sexually thirsty ways.

I'll cite some examples

- In my Chemistry class during lab for some reason I was sitting against the lab bench facing the rest of the room. I noticed this girl who wasn't sitting too far away staring at me so I naturally checked myself and noticed what she was staring at, which was a blatantly obvious bulge. One of her friends looked to see what she was staring at, noticed it and then immediately turned her head away in embarrassment.


- Had a Latina who was my lab partner in Anatomy and Physiology in college, very relevant to this, who developed a real obsession with my bulge. First time I noticed it was during lecture, we sat next to each other and I see her staring at my crouch and again had a massive bulge through my jeans. She'd stare at it for several seconds, briefly look back to the professor but only to return to staring at it again with a hungry smile on her face. Instances like these happened several times over the course of 2 semesters.

Besides that I've had several experiences of people noticing it and staring, those ones just stick out in my mind. Most of the people I spend enough time around will pick up on it at some point, though it isn't something that I parade around or mention at all.

 

[Lynx]

oh, boo hoo

 

[george2323]

I'm around 4.5-5" flaccid, which is well above average, and because of this will have a noticeable bulge, mostly whilst sitting down but sometimes standing as well. I've had many instances where people, both men and women, would notice my bulge and blatantly stare, some even in very sexually thirsty ways.

I'll cite some examples

- In my Chemistry class during lab for some reason I was sitting against the lab bench facing the rest of the room. I noticed this girl who wasn't sitting too far away staring at me so I naturally checked myself and noticed what she was staring at, which was a blatantly obvious bulge. One of her friends looked to see what she was staring at, noticed it and then immediately turned her head away in embarrassment.


- Had a Latina who was my lab partner in Anatomy and Physiology in college, very relevant to this, who developed a real obsession with my bulge. First time I noticed it was during lecture, we sat next to each other and I see her staring at my crouch and again had a massive bulge through my jeans. She'd stare at it for several seconds, briefly look back to the professor but only to return to staring at it again with a hungry smile on her face. Instances like these happened several times over the course of 2 semesters.

Besides that I've had several experiences of people noticing it and staring, those ones just stick out in my mind. Most of the people I spend enough time around will pick up on it at some point, though it isn't something that I parade around or mention at all.

Can I see an example?

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

I've known guys that would hide the fact that they are large. One guy told me that he's actually been rejected because he was too large and his size was out of the range of comfort for some people which makes him hesitant to bring it up.

 

[uc7dad]

size should be honored

 

[whitewood87]

I do everything pretty much to hide it around all real life people that are in my life. Whats honestly the upside? You get few odd looks, maybe couple people you dont want or like flirt more with you, and some people outright start being bitter towards you. Friends, family, coworkers, and neighbors dont need to know that kind of thing about me I believe.

 

[uc7dad]

size should be honored

thanks buddy

 

[canon]

Anyone else feel a bit awkward about people knowing that you are big?

I've been told that I am huge, but I feel that when that conversation has ever happened, I think that if I was to say that I am well endowed people would think I was making it up and lying about my size.

Also as I'm sure we all know, girls do talk so all my ex's told their friends about my size which has felt awkward at times as can get some unwanted attention/looks and are seen in a different way as they all know what you have.

It's obviously very flattering still though

I am a very private person when it comes to anything sexually related, including size. The only way anyone would know my size would be if they had seen it grow from a very normal flaccid size to a much larger size when erect. I consider this confidential and would not only be embarrassed but be vocal in telling the person that violated confidentiality. I don't discuss private matters except with someone that I trust to keep both sides of the conversation between us. I am not ashamed or embarrassed, just prefer privacy.

 

[Notaes]

My wife’s family knows I am hung and that I can fuck for long periods of time because she told her mother. Actually I feel quite good about it.

 

[englad]

There have been a couple occasions where that has happened.

The main one was a one night stand (very good quality one) I had who was supposed to be crashing at a close female friend's house. She knew he had stayed at mine, and after he walked back to hers he blabbed about a number of really specific details about it. Including the specifics of my size and including being too nervous to bottom for me (as he was mainly a top anyway). Way too much information in my opinion, and really inappropriate to tell one of my close friends.

I suppose there was a small part of me that thought well nice to know I left an impression but the next few times I met up with her, I felt really, really awkward. Like she could see me naked or something.