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So I dnt know how much anyone is going to be able to help me???
I met this guy at my friends house a week ago and we hit it off!!
He was an old friend of hers and we stayed up drinking just me and him...and we talked for hours and then we ended up havin like a big hug.
Yeah just a hug!!
But then eventually one thing lead to another and we got a bit frisky!!
No we didn't go all the way....
Anyway we decided we would like to see each other and stayed in touch and he kept texting me alot since then...
But my friend started slagging him off afterwards, saying he was unreliable and stuff.
All of a sudden it seemed he could do no right although she kept tellin me she didn't want me to get hurt by him.
Then the next thing I know she says she went to the pub for one drink with him and grabbed his fone when he went to the bar and saw a text from another woman on there.....
So I confronted him with this and he said it was an ex and that he really likes me and wants to see me still.
The next day she tells me he slept at her house that night, as he was at another friends and drove her home...and that he kept sayin that he was a" free agent" and that I was "alright" when she asked about me.
And she seems to think he likes her...despite him texting me all week.
So when I confronted him with it.....
He said she "had been trying to sleep with him that night!!!"
I honestly don't know what to think of these people....
She is supposed to be one of my bestfriends,
I thought he seemed quite nice and we mite be able to have some fun together maybe a bit more.
Plus we hit it off in a friendly way and he has a son the same age as mine ...so that is a bit dissapointing too!!
According to her, he is unnattractive and she wouldn't even go there...
he totally protests his innocence and put up quite a fight about it!!
I'm beginning to wonder if they are both backstabbing bastards that I could do without!!
Well if anyone wants to be objective feel free!! X
So I dnt know how much anyone is going to be able to help me???
I met this guy at my friends house a week ago and we hit it off!!
He was an old friend of hers and we stayed up drinking just me and him...and we talked for hours and then we ended up havin like a big hug.
Yeah just a hug!!
But then eventually one thing lead to another and we got a bit frisky!!
No we didn't go all the way....
Anyway we decided we would like to see each other and stayed in touch and he kept texting me alot since then...
But my friend started slagging him off afterwards, saying he was unreliable and stuff.
All of a sudden it seemed he could do no right although she kept tellin me she didn't want me to get hurt by him.
Then the next thing I know she says she went to the pub for one drink with him and grabbed his fone when he went to the bar and saw a text from another woman on there.....
So I confronted him with this and he said it was an ex and that he really likes me and wants to see me still.
The next day she tells me he slept at her house that night, as he was at another friends and drove her home...and that he kept sayin that he was a" free agent" and that I was "alright" when she asked about me.
And she seems to think he likes her...despite him texting me all week.
So when I confronted him with it.....
He said she "had been trying to sleep with him that night!!!"
I honestly don't know what to think of these people....
She is supposed to be one of my bestfriends,
I thought he seemed quite nice and we mite be able to have some fun together maybe a bit more.
Plus we hit it off in a friendly way and he has a son the same age as mine ...so that is a bit dissapointing too!!
According to her, he is unnattractive and she wouldn't even go there...
he totally protests his innocence and put up quite a fight about it!!
I'm beginning to wonder if they are both backstabbing bastards that I could do without!!
Well if anyone wants to be objective feel free!! X
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