Feeling different lately

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by enterends, Dec 28, 2011.

  1. enterends

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    I considar myself a gay man to the point where there not much a woman can do to arouse me. But lately I've been getting tired with gay porn and seeing men naked. I always liked watching straight porn in addition to gay porn just for looking at the guy. Now I'm looking at the girl more than I usually do. And when I watch porn it's only gay porn like 10 percent of the time the rest of the times it's straight. But not to the point where it is 2 women. This all started like 3 months ago. I usually have a sex dream like once every 3 months and I was long over due. But the last one I had was 2 nights ago. It is always with a man. But this last one I had was with a woman. It was pretty fucking hot. So I'm thinking I'm turning bi now I guess. Cause I absolutely had no sexual feelings for women before. But now I'm thinking about making that dream real. Now I want to know if it's common for you sexuality to evolve this past 25 and if it has happened to anyone of you.
     
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    My sexuality is quite fluid. I go through period where I'm sexually attracted to females along with males, so it's not totally impossible. However, my primary attraction is to males.
     
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    Labels are pretty pointless IMO, when dealing with something as complex as sexuality.

    I am to all intent and purpose, straight, but went out last week got hammered and found myself in a door way with a cute guy, his cock in my hand. I didn't do much, but i dont consider myself "gay". Just into fun.
     
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    Yeah, I've gone through some drastic ones too. Although I am a male (on the outside, heheh) I've felt like a girl on the inside when I was as young as I could remember until ages 10 - 11 where I felt like a straight male. From 11 through 17 I felt like a woman and from 17 onwards, I've been shifting every few months from feeling like a gay man, bi man, bi woman and straight woman and rarely even straight man (much to my delight!).

    It's rather confusing really and I wonder if I my comment would even be easy to understand.
    I'm so glad I'm not the only one going through that kind of change though. Really relieved :)
     
  5. enterends

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    I completely understand your comment. I would also be happier if I were more attracted to women than men or at least be equaly attracted to both but it has not gotten that far yet.
     
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    There's a difference between being attracted to women in porn (especially gangbang-type stuff) and wanting to commit to a relationship with one IRL. And though there are women who enjoy sportfux as much as a guy, they're hardly in the majority of the womb-bearing population.

    I've always considered myself latent-bi, but because of my situation (HIV+) choose to keep my bi-curious side to porn consumption.
     
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