OK, this may take a bit to get through, but I want to tell you guys something. A couple of years ago, I found this site by googling "I have a large penis". But here's the thing -- I don't; in fact, I am below average. I don't know what kind of Freudian slip I made when I typed that -- wish fulfillment, fantasy, who knows? I probably meant to search for the term "I don't have. . ." because for a long time, I have not felt good about myself for being underendowed. So I was pretty fascinated by the posts, and began lurking (I posted something once under another username, but I can't remember what I wrote; probably something neutral). I read all the posts about how you guys with the big dicks did not like being objectified because of your generous endowment, and I admit I used to think, Some problem. But many of the frequent posters whom I read would talk about how they were/are more than any one of their parts, and that enjoying having a big cock was just a facet of themselves. That it was a part of a healty self-image to enjoy who you are, how you were built, how your personalities developed, etc. This is getting a little sappy, so let me say this: I began to think that, well, OK, I got short-changed in that department. But I have a great smile, a good head of hair, I'm sane and healthy, with only a few bad habits. Why I wanted to write is to say that though I don't "belong" on this forum, so to speak, I'm awfully glad I found it. All the posts I read were essentially saying, "Be happy with who you are." I let one characteristic over which I have no control become a way to denigrate myself and it kept me from accepting who I was. You guys have a wonderful community here; thoughtful, considerate, open, friendly, and wise. Thanks very much for all the posts that helped me become a much happier man. See you around!