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OK, this may take a bit to get through, but I want to tell you guys something. A couple of years ago, I found this site by googling "I have a large penis". But here's the thing -- I don't; in fact, I am below average. I don't know what kind of Freudian slip I made when I typed that -- wish fulfillment, fantasy, who knows? I probably meant to search for the term "I don't have. . ." because for a long time, I have not felt good about myself for being underendowed.
So I was pretty fascinated by the posts, and began lurking (I posted something once under another username, but I can't remember what I wrote; probably something neutral). I read all the posts about how you guys with the big dicks did not like being objectified because of your generous endowment, and I admit I used to think, Some problem. But many of the frequent posters whom I read would talk about how they were/are more than any one of their parts, and that enjoying having a big cock was just a facet of themselves. That it was a part of a healty self-image to enjoy who you are, how you were built, how your personalities developed, etc.
This is getting a little sappy, so let me say this: I began to think that, well, OK, I got short-changed in that department. But I have a great smile, a good head of hair, I'm sane and healthy, with only a few bad habits. Why I wanted to write is to say that though I don't "belong" on this forum, so to speak, I'm awfully glad I found it. All the posts I read were essentially saying, "Be happy with who you are." I let one characteristic over which I have no control become a way to denigrate myself and it kept me from accepting who I was.
You guys have a wonderful community here; thoughtful, considerate, open, friendly, and wise. Thanks very much for all the posts that helped me become a much happier man.
See you around!
So I was pretty fascinated by the posts, and began lurking (I posted something once under another username, but I can't remember what I wrote; probably something neutral). I read all the posts about how you guys with the big dicks did not like being objectified because of your generous endowment, and I admit I used to think, Some problem. But many of the frequent posters whom I read would talk about how they were/are more than any one of their parts, and that enjoying having a big cock was just a facet of themselves. That it was a part of a healty self-image to enjoy who you are, how you were built, how your personalities developed, etc.
This is getting a little sappy, so let me say this: I began to think that, well, OK, I got short-changed in that department. But I have a great smile, a good head of hair, I'm sane and healthy, with only a few bad habits. Why I wanted to write is to say that though I don't "belong" on this forum, so to speak, I'm awfully glad I found it. All the posts I read were essentially saying, "Be happy with who you are." I let one characteristic over which I have no control become a way to denigrate myself and it kept me from accepting who I was.
You guys have a wonderful community here; thoughtful, considerate, open, friendly, and wise. Thanks very much for all the posts that helped me become a much happier man.
See you around!
of ones measurement of oneself as a man. That’s one of the main things about this forum and the wonderful group of people who are here on it. So welcome! Cheers to you!! Hope to be reading more from you! :hi:
