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Feeling Great About Having A Boyfriend Dick

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by love2compare, Jul 28, 2020.

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    a new way of seeing things the way they really are.

    no more dick size shaming (say good bye to bigger is better).

    for a better feeling about yourself.

    Introducing: boyfriend dicks...
     
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    I've referred to a boyfriend dick before, but not quite the way you mean.

    A couple of years ago, I was at a 4th of July holiday party on the patio of a gay bar. I'm wearing shiny/metallic red, white & blue spandex shorts with a fitted pouch that I could swing my cock and do the "helicopter" in. This (slightly drunk?) straight woman grabs my dick firmly (pouch and all, she didn't reach in) and will not let go. After I while, it's getting awkward, but I don't want to be rude, and don't want to risk damaging my custom-made shorts by pulling away (she's got a serious grip on it). Finally, I say with a sweet voice:

    "Honey, it was nice, but you can let go now. Really, it's just like your boyfriend's, only bigger."
     
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    I wish I had your outlook.
     
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    I'm reading the article you linked to and this part shocked me.

    "As a straight woman, the size of the penis that chooses you as its primary point of insertion feels like as much of a reflection of your worth as your weight and your skin and your clothing size and all the other superficial measurements of female value we internalize."

    Very interesting perspective. Penis size of your partner as a kind of status symbol is very interesting.
     
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    Another interesting quote.

    "In the summer of 2018, the advent of “Big Dick Energy” led to similar boyfriend dick-adjacent conversations. Writing for Playboy shortly after BDE made its internet debut, Helen Donahue boldly declared that “big dicks fucking suck.” Despite the fact that, according to most definitions at the time, BDE doesn’t actually correspond to physical dick size, Donahue’s rallying cry to “annihilate the lore behind gigantic dicks,” to “burst from the confines of having to act like they’re good,” felt revolutionary. Guess what? We don’t want your big penis anyway. Now what are you going to do with it?"

    I have spoken a lot about the brainwashing that society does to push the idea that size doesn't matter. Is it possible that society has also brainwashed people into thinking that big dicks are best? Are we at the starting point of a revolution about the penis size discussion and debate?
     
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    The article ended with this:

    "Conversations about dick size, whether too big, too small or just right, are dated and toxic and I can’t believe we’re still having them. Much like “all bodies are swimsuit bodies,” all dicks are boyfriend dicks, because boyfriend dick is in the eyes and orifices of the beholder. It’s well past time to retire this dated conversation. Let’s stop being dicks about dicks."

    Very interesting. She seems to be pushing the idea that size doesn't matter, however she was herself a proponent of size earlier in life before coming to terms with the fact that big dicks don't feel good to her.

    If we're being honest, the penis size debate is male created. We care about the size of our dicks. We want have the biggest dick possible. But, maybe women aren't as interested in that as we would like to believe? Is the idea of bigger is better really just misogyny? A way to push male sexual values on women while ignoring their needs? Is "size doesn't matter" the ultimate slogan of female sexual empowerment?
     
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    I'll take this a step further, based on my many decades of experience.

    Men not only care about their dicks, more generally, they care about sex and, in particular, orgasms. They begin caring about these things in their very early teens and continue to care about them almost to the moment that death comes to claim them.

    Women, on the other hand, have a very short period in their lives when they truly care about sex, and a much longer period of "can take it or leave it" followed by an ofttimes even longer period of, "please, I'd rather not".

    This is the reality of life. Men in their fifties and sixties, grossly overweight, balding, and ugly still somehow manage to care about their dicks and getting off. Women at that age, even if they've taken reasonably good care of themselves, typically have little interest in sex - not only in regards to their fat, balding, ugly husbands, but with anyone else as well.

    Sure, there are outliers in both groups, but the vast majority are as described above.
     
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    important for me from this day on is that ALL the shaming should stop!

    As much as i never liked the "bigger is better mentality" i equally dislike the above quoted "big dicks fucking suck" comments! We should learn that they all have their 100% sexual potential no matter how big or small they are or how they look (e.g. i find tall men with tiny dicks super sexy and would make them feel good anytime).

    People should get away from judging and shaming each other and develop more towards enjoying the best of each.

    What's just right for some is wrong for others. It would be important to respect that and not to judge others about their different life choices and realities.
     
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    I had 3 fuck buddies in a row that were all well hung. I became a size queen for a short time until I met my 3rd boyfriend. At 6", he was the smallest boyfriend I ever had, but the sex I had with him is by far the best sex ever! He taught me that isn't the size of the boat, it is the motion in the ocean!
     
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    I totally don't blame you man. When i compare my average sized dick with other guys i also enjoy a bigger difference between both cocks more than when it's just about my own size. it's just more impressive for my eyes, the lens and the brains. I'm glad for you, that you had some great experience with a boyfriend sized guy as well!

    most people adore, respect and enjoy large penis sizes and that's alright! there's even some scientific research out there about that "masculinity capital" in sports and it makes totally sense BUT today's world has become terribly toxic when it comes to shaming and that is too much and should stop. There is no "the bigger the better" for EVERYBODY like porn and media want to imply!

    What i am missing much in today's public awareness is the I N C L U S I O N of any sexy cock and fucker, no matter his size. Hence, the boyfriend dick size concept is a very much needed approach to change this biased and media driven reality.
     
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    Ive heard this before. Before I came out...i dated women. There was this one girl I was head over heels for and she just never seemed to fully embrace me. She was sweet and nice and we had one of those long talks. She told me...."you're great. I really like you. But you're the kinda guy you marry...not the kinda guy I want to date right now". I took that as meaning I'm a really nice guy but average in every way. Someone stable to settle down with....but right now I want to date the bad boy with the big dick, etc. Thats how I interpreted it. So that was fine. Now I've always referred to myself as a nice guy with a boyfriend cock.
     
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    People should get to the level of celebrating something called "liquid sexuality" - just enjoy whatever horny happens between humans, no matter what size!
     
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    When i compare my average sized dick irl with really hung guys i often see some incredibly huge differences in cock volume and meat between mine and theirs!

    However, they very often tell me my size was fine or that they don't care about size - they just seem to enjoy mutual sexual fun with me and don't put themselves on better level at all. Clearly they want me to feel good about my normal size and there are no demeaning moments at all. Very often too, they turned out to be sucking my dick all the way in - while stereotype always tells that the little man need to suck the bigger man - irl i am rather the spoiled one by hung guys!

    I am stating this with great joy as sometimes on cam or in chats i am playing along with sph but in reality i have never had anybody ridiculizing my penis size. It really feels absolutely great to be accepted between buddies for something that you are just given in life.

    I hope this is something that everybody can relate to and if not, change the people you are with, as nobody should be turned down for his genital's size!
     
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