The article ended with this:
"Conversations about dick size, whether too big, too small or just right, are dated and toxic and I can’t believe we’re still having them. Much like “all bodies are swimsuit bodies,” all dicks are boyfriend dicks, because boyfriend dick is in the eyes and orifices of the beholder. It’s well past time to retire this dated conversation. Let’s stop being dicks about dicks."
Very interesting. She seems to be pushing the idea that size doesn't matter, however she was herself a proponent of size earlier in life before coming to terms with the fact that big dicks don't feel good to her.
If we're being honest, the penis size debate is male created. We care about the size of our dicks. We want have the biggest dick possible. But, maybe women aren't as interested in that as we would like to believe? Is the idea of bigger is better really just misogyny? A way to push male sexual values on women while ignoring their needs? Is "size doesn't matter" the ultimate slogan of female sexual empowerment?
I'll take this a step further, based on my many decades of experience.
Men not only care about their dicks, more generally, they care about sex and, in particular, orgasms. They begin caring about these things in their very early teens and continue to care about them almost to the moment that death comes to claim them.
Women, on the other hand, have a very short period in their lives when they truly care about sex, and a much longer period of "can take it or leave it" followed by an ofttimes even longer period of, "please, I'd rather not".
This is the reality of life. Men in their fifties and sixties, grossly overweight, balding, and ugly still somehow manage to care about their dicks and getting off. Women at that age, even if they've taken reasonably good care of themselves, typically have little interest in sex - not only in regards to their fat, balding, ugly husbands, but with anyone else as well.
Sure, there are outliers in both groups, but the vast majority are as described above.