feeling guilty after jerking off

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I wonder what you may be masturbating too.perhaps the subject matter is what makes you feel that way after? I can relate to this matter as I at one time felt guilty in such a way buy it was because I was hiding my habits from my partner and not sharing what I was looking at that made me feel guilty. I think you may need to analyze why you feel this way and what you may be using to get you off. That being said you should not ever feel guilty about something as natural as ejaculation. Stroke away buddy.
 

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Pay no attention to comparisons of natural hormones with opiates and other dangerous narcotics. Jacking off does you no harm. It makes you feel good and doesn't leave a chemical residue in your bloodstream (so you don't fail your next UA). Sometimes your woman will want to jack off with you, or jack you off. is there anything wrong with that? NO! Remember, it's your dick and your soap. You can wash it as fast as you want. You are not depriving anybody of anything when you masturbate. I often masturbate in the morning and make love to my partner in the evening. It makes me last a loooong time, and she digs it.

True, but i speak of a more obsessive behavior.
i used to jerk off a lot, and it caused me to late ejaculation , i'm talking about more than an hour, and that caused my partner great pain (add a large dick to it). anyway thats my case, i used to feel really bad after jerking off, but i jerked off alot (more than 5 a day).
one more thing, as long as you're with a partner its ok, at least these are the orders i got from my doctor(over the late ejaculation) .
 

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nothing to feel guilty about at all... whether in or out of a relationship everyone (male and female) needs to enjoy their own bodies. It's your gift and you know better than anyone; how good it feels, where to stroke, and how to stroke. It's OK. It's not taboo... it's normal and very healthy.
 

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jerking off/sex is also a physical need, it's not just something you feel like doing because it feels good, sometimes your body even starts to "tell" you to do it, so don't over thinking it, just go ahead and do it, I did it sometimes when I had a lot on my mind and it felt weird trying to concentrate and even after but I knew I had to do it, plus it's so personal, jerking off is all about your needs, don't feel bad.
 

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I usually jerk of once a week - use to be more but work gets to me. I find that when I'm really horny and in need of getting laid, if I jerk off, that desire goes away.

Also, I hear from guys who jerk off 3 times a day!! OMG! I don't think I did that even when I was 16. How many of you jerk off this often? Maybe we need a poll with age/number of time per day per week. :)
 

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i recently went through a really bad break up, i wont go into all the details but i didnt jerk off for about 2 months...
now everytime i do i feel bad afterwords, like that i shudnt be doing that while all this shit is still going on.
A man need to cum. Plain and simple.

Same way you eat and sleep, you also need your body to release the pressure and feel orgasm from time to time - doesn't have to be every day but at least once in a week in my humble opinion.

This is nature, for your own sake please don't try to fight it. :)
 

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Masturbation in my youth was such a great way to release the tension of my developing body. I enjoyed it several times a day.

Now that I am more mature I still enjoy masturbation along with a satisfying sex life with My Bride.

I usually work at a solo encounter at least once a week. My Bride often will work out a batch of ejaculate for me.

We both enjoy a healthy attitude toward sex and plan to for many more years.