Feeling inadequate

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Very little experience here. Always was told it was big and have always thought that. But recently hearing of so many dudes over 8" it makes me wonder. And second guess myself. Thoughts? I have pix in my gallery.
 
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Very little experience here. Always was told it was big and have always thought that. But recently hearing of so many dudes over 8" it makes me wonder. And second guess myself. Thoughts? I have pix in my gallery.
Biggun7,
That's a beautiful cock--go have some fun with it!
 
One of my dad's favorite methods was to logic things to death.

Are you planning on fucking a girl right after a bigger guy does?

Are you going to measure up and compare in front of a girl?

Try to find some logic as to why you feel inadequate. Usually it's just your own mind making a mountain out of a molehill. Having a huge dick does not make you a sex god, or a better man.
 
Thanks man.

Just remember to not get caught up on competition. I might pick on someone for something they did, but never because they're smaller in that department. That's just flat out against the bro-code lol.

When I was a teenager before losing my virginity, I was so afraid of being laughed out of the bedroom. So much that I read about sex and technique and massages and anything I could find. Skill would not be my downfall. Might be worth a try to boost confidence if you want to?
 
Thanks man.

Just remember to not get caught up on competition. I might pick on someone for something they did, but never because they're smaller in that department. That's just flat out against the bro-code lol.

When I was a teenager before losing my virginity, I was so afraid of being laughed out of the bedroom. So much that I read about sex and technique and massages and anything I could find. Skill would not be my downfall. Might be worth a try to boost confidence if you want to?
Honestly don't know why I am that concerned. I am married and she can't take everything I have to give anyway - I just get this way sometimes.

Far as I know there are no complaints. LOL.
 
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When I was a teenager before losing my virginity, I was so afraid of being laughed out of the bedroom. So much that I read about sex and technique and massages and anything I could find. Skill would not be my downfall.

Ahhh I connect with this bit haha brings me back!
 
Thanks man.

Just remember to not get caught up on competition. I might pick on someone for something they did, but never because they're smaller in that department. That's just flat out against the bro-code lol.

When I was a teenager before losing my virginity, I was so afraid of being laughed out of the bedroom. So much that I read about sex and technique and massages and anything I could find. Skill would not be my downfall. Might be worth a try to boost confidence if you want to?
@bigbill810 what were you afraid of exactly? I don't follow. Were you afraid that because it was so big you would get laughed out? Or some other reason? Unfortunately along with other myths there is the one that if you're above average or huge that you can't keep it up and that you can't fuck well. I disagree with that completely! But just wondered.
 
When you and your now wife first met, it was you she fell for, not a specific body part of yours. In case you didn't already know, it is us males who are preoccupied and obsessed with our sizes, not the ladies.
She married you because you're ideal for her. Yes, there are others who are richer, better looking, more endowed and more driven than you out there, but that was not what she was after. She wanted you and wanted to start a family with you. You, as a person, not just one body part.
 
@bigbill810 what were you afraid of exactly? I don't follow. Were you afraid that because it was so big you would get laughed out? Or some other reason? Unfortunately along with other myths there is the one that if you're above average or huge that you can't keep it up and that you can't fuck well. I disagree with that completely! But just wondered.

I was afraid of being horrible in bed and that getting around. You know how teenagers are. An education on sex has been far more valuable to me than size.