Dejected, rejected, ejected from seat of loveliness high above the mucky muck, etc. My girlfriend on Saturday was trying to coax out of me how I felt about her. I said I didn't want to tell her etc...Anyway, she got me to say I love her, which I do...in a way. Not in the ominous, forever kind of way. But I do more than like her and really care about her. So she said she loved me too, and things were great. Prior to that 'confession' she asked me to come to her house on Christmas Day, well practically begged me. I agreed. This morning she said she was ill, sore (down there...sorry) and didn't want to kiss me or for me to touch her, which is actually what she's like most 'morning afters'. After awhile she said she didn't love me, or didn't mean it...so then I was depressed and a bit shocked and things. She dropped me off home and she still wants to go out with me and wants things to 'slow down'. The other thing is, its her birthday the week after next. Obviously she wants me to come down to hers and go out with her for it. But what pisses me off is this guy, who she had sex with before I met her (and who is engaged!) is coming too, she asked him (before I met her). So that's gonna be awkward and I wonder will he make a move on her and things. Plus things will just be awkward because I don't feel much like seeing her or that there is anything 'there' anymore. I was just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and what to do?