Feeling like a piece of meat?

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Have any of you guys ever feel like a PEACE OF MEAT and not like a whole person? That most of the people are after you just because of the piece of meat hanging between legs and not for who because who you might be? I love exposing my goods and be admired but it sometimes you need more, Does it happens to any of you?
 

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It happened before and yesterday too. Have your cock and your body admired is hot but being told I just want your cock, nothing else, most of the time is great but man, dont know why it kept sounding in ears.
 

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Felt that way a couple times in my life. Though it all came to a screeching halt when i pulled out my sword. That i can also swing. (ha ha youtuber joke) Now that i think about, that less sexual and more "may please have some of your brainz". I'm also not too sure i was woke at the time either.

The other times weren't as much fun. Not when you realize that you have feelings for the person that see's you only as a penis of reference. The ladies have it much rougher in that area.
 

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Most interactions between people are a little bit about both people.

How you present yourself, and what the other person pays attention to, focuses on, talks about ...

I spent my teen years mostly being thought of as a mind. Successful in education, and so on.

After that, I've got fairly seriously into other things. Gym, running. Travel. Cooking nice meals. Looking after pets. And so on. So I'd like to be acknowledged as quite "well rounded" sometimes ... and indeed, on occasion, I am.

But the fact that I keep wearing small, tight swim trunks, cockrings, jockstraps, and lycra tights for running and gym, and having sex with people, sometimes focuses other people's attention in a particular way. That's OK too though, when it happens. I just need to be realistic about it ... :smile:
 

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hm. not really... maybe with one sizequeen hookup i felt like that... but i didn't mind at all. ahah. strange complaint! if it's bothering you, quit hooking up with girls that want your cock. don't advertise it. try to meet some ladies that seem interested in you, and then AFTER they want to seriously be with you, pull out your pork sword and start slaying
 

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Have any of you guys ever feel like a PEACE OF MEAT and not like a whole person? That most of the people are after you just because of the piece of meat hanging between legs and not for who because who you might be?
In my dreams!... lol

Although, I do hope for more.
 

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Get used to it, embrace it, and fuck em all. Make that emotional connection with the ones that are important to you, and for the others, like I said "fuck em all" and I do mean that literally.
 
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When you realize that your breasts have introduced you before you've had a chance to speak then you have a little idea of what it feels like to be reduced to a piece of meat.

You're just experiencing it for the first time. Since I was 13 years old the opposite sex has paid more attention to my body than mind, personality, position, charity, ability, or contribution combined.

Unwanted stares, introductions, pickup lines and just blatant crude behavior has been par for my course, as I'm sure most of the other women on the site can attest.

I'm not saying payback is a bitch, because I don't know you. And I apologize for having a laugh at your expense, but please.

And before I indict anyone I will admit that I, too, have cooed at a perfect male behind. But where we differ is that I can admire without any desire to seek a higher level of interaction.
 

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i had so completely detached myself from awareness of being looked at/objectified/sexualized by strangers, well, specifically men, until i discovered the joys of maxi-dresses.

now... i am oggled/approached/catcalled with frightening regularity.

i'm wearing a maxi dress cuz cool breezed refreshed vagina kicks ass on a hot summery day. not to have my curves speculated/commented on.

i refuse to start watching/adjusting/editting me to avoid oether folks entitlement encroaching on my day. i'm just gonna start accessorizing with brass knuckles.

"no, you suck it, mouth-breather"
 

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Both EllieP and MickeyLee speak to my experience. My boobs always arrive before I do, and I do wear maxi dresses and sandals all summer, and rarely with a bra because strapless bras suck. (Actually, they squeeze, but you understand. ) I wear comfy clothes that don't fit like circus tents. Any attempt to conceal my physical endowments makes me look hugely fat. So, lots of people assume my clothes are about them, not about me and how I want to see myself. They feel entitled to be part of my day. Like I grew huge tits specifically for them to talk to. (Yes, there are lots of men who've actually talked to my breasts as if they could talk back, to say nothing of the piles of me who've spoke to me, while plainly focused on looking at my chest.)

My agenda has nothing to do with horned up losers who lack social skills. If a man likes a giant rack, but also has a specific kind of woman in mind for any kind of companionship, he is absolutely welcome to approach me like a human being with thoughts and emotions, and say something polite to me. He should know that compliments to parts of my body make me feel reduced to a collection of appealing parts, rather than an attractive whole, and possess the self-control to talk to me of something more appropriate.
 

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Get used to it, embrace it, and fuck em all. Make that emotional connection with the ones that are important to you, and for the others, like I said "fuck em all" and I do mean that literally.


Yes man, that was my position about it. But last time it happened, left me thinking.
 
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i had so completely detached myself from awareness of being looked at/objectified/sexualized by strangers, well, specifically men, until i discovered the joys of maxi-dresses.

now... i am oggled/approached/catcalled with frightening regularity.

i'm wearing a maxi dress cuz cool breezed refreshed vagina kicks ass on a hot summery day. not to have my curves speculated/commented on.

i refuse to start watching/adjusting/editting me to avoid oether folks entitlement encroaching on my day. i'm just gonna start accessorizing with brass knuckles.

"no, you suck it, mouth-breather"
Classic..... lmao

To the OP. What do you expect to happen? You advertise your meat and then bitch about the attention. Maybe tailer your "ads" to attracted a different type of person.
 

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:) so commonly heard these days. solution, if you want sex, show the goods. If you want love and a connection, polish your social skills and start talking. Dont confuse sex for love cause it isnt. very simple if you get to the root purpose of meeting people.
 
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Classic..... lmao

To the OP. What do you expect to happen? You advertise your meat and then bitch about the attention. Maybe tailer your "ads" to attracted a different type of person.

Nice meat, bro.