Feeling Of "maleness"

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Are you aware of your "maleness" when you masturbate?... and how much those feelings of maleness play a role in the pleasure they experience. Do you masturbate because it just feels good physically? Or does it also involve a deeper emotional pleasure that has to do with an awareness of being a man... being male... experiencing the very meaning of maleness?
 

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I totally understand this. Sometimes while I’m masturbating and just enjoying the feel of it all, I think about all the other men who are feeling that, who have felt it & how they know the sensation of their dick being pleasured and their balls bouncing and the lead up to the orgasm.

I look at men at work, on the street, etc. and think about how we share that, but rarely talk about it. I mean- it’s something we’ve all enjoyed since we were young men and we can rarely, if ever, discuss it openly. Weird.

Right? That's what I mean! It's something to only us men can experience and understand! We all do it, we all enjoy it. It's built in us to enjoy it and use it! It's part of being a dude.
 

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Yes! It's not just during masturbation... Feeling like a man is awesome all the time. Feeling my balls dangling between my legs, reaching down to adjust my cock, shooting a load into my wife or across my chest... feels like I'm part of a masculine club of some sort. Like I belong with the fucking big boys.
 

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I totally understand this. Sometimes while I’m masturbating and just enjoying the feel of it all, I think about all the other men who are feeling that, who have felt it & how they know the sensation of their dick being pleasured and their balls bouncing and the lead up to the orgasm.

I look at men at work, on the street, etc. and think about how we share that, but rarely talk about it. I mean- it’s something we’ve all enjoyed since we were young men and we can rarely, if ever, discuss it openly. Weird.
 

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to feel your male Ness when masturbatin just isn't grabbing your penis with your hand and jerking it up and down it is about paying attention to the head of the penis and the foreskin if you have it. stimulating your cock rubbing it the right way using your other hand to rub your stomach pay attention to your nipples feel the erotica of all the nerve endings come alive.pulling on your ballsack giving them a little squeeze feeling the discomfort of the squeeze in the pit of your stomach. getting close to coming then stopping until the feeling subsides.starting to rub again as your finger finds your butt hole . you massage it gently around and around until you finally insert it and go deep enough to press on your prostate you jerk your stick and finger your hole simotainiously you get to the point of no return and blow your load allover your chest over and over white goo covers your chest you lay there breathing heavy totally wasted then you reach over to that pool of cum wipe some up on your finger and put it in your mouth to taste the fruits of your labor
 
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Absolutely. I don't think about it too much when I'm, you know, but when I do think of it, that adds to the excitement. I'm doing something other men have been doing for ages, I'm a part of something, it feels like. I've been masturbating for years and years -- probably started younger than most -- but it's relaxing and healthy and, frankly, I do find something special about being a man. Almost the same way women surely feel there's something special about being a woman.
 

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It not just about the cock! It’s the mental experience as well. Embracing the body, the cock, balls, ass, and masculinity of it all! So I kind of get why some straight men like to masturbate with other men and nothing more! It’s soaking the experience of being male!
 
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Are you aware of your "maleness" when you masturbate?... and how much those feelings of maleness play a role in the pleasure they experience. Do you masturbate because it just feels good physically? Or does it also involve a deeper emotional pleasure that has to do with an awareness of being a man... being male... experiencing the very meaning of maleness?

Cool convo topic. Often I have said I feel very intouch with myself. When I masterbate I feel all sorts of things all linked back to my cock...my spine, arches of my feet, pelvic area, prostate. Even Charlie horse spasms upon ejaculation. Boys will be boys. It's all good. It is an emotional journey when I beat off
 

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Are you aware of your "maleness" when you masturbate?... and how much those feelings of maleness play a role in the pleasure they experience. Do you masturbate because it just feels good physically? Or does it also involve a deeper emotional pleasure that has to do with an awareness of being a man... being male... experiencing the very meaning of maleness?

Fuck yeah! I love feeling like a man. Connecting with my fucking dong of a dick. Many times I don’t need porn. Just let that feeling take over me and enjoy feeling my fully extended erection
 

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Jacking off is an awesome way to express your maleness. When I went to Burning Man last year, one of the camps hosts an all-day circle jerk. Thousands of guys of all kinds (literally - they do the World Naked Bike Ride and Naked Pub Crawl on the same day) show up throughout the day, jerk off together (sometimes side-by-side, sometimes helping each other out) and then get on with their day. While you're there, it's almost like a tribal ceremony - it's sooooooo male, alpha, and testosterone-fueled. It really lets you connect with something primal. My boyfriend and I went a couple of times that day!! ;)
 

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Right? That's what I mean! It's something to only us men can experience and understand! We all do it, we all enjoy it. It's built in us to enjoy it and use it! It's part of being a dude.
women could never understand the hornyness us men feel. The primal urge to be fully erect. To feel that power. The need to stick your cock in someplace warm and wet and hump and cum. It’s amazing. The urge to share that feeling with other men. I love being a man.
 

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Wow. What was her reaction when she caught you?
It was the classic "laptop open, shorts down cock in hand", out in the living room. Didn't hear her drive up. Oddly, she opens the front door and just rolls her eyes. It had been a few day since we fucked. After an hour (like all women) she presents me with, "what was that all about?"
I said I was horny thinking about her. We fucked later. She moved on. Btw, I never caught her...
 

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I feel maleness sometimes when I look at my naked body in the mirror

but nothing is more male to me than when I'm moaning while I am jacking off getting sucked or having sex or yelling fuck when I cum
 
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I only get my true sense of maleness when I stick my tongue on a 9V battery or let the toilet seat cover slam the back of my head when I am hung over riding the porcelain bus.

Paying for my speeding tickets to, I feel like all kinds of maleness paying that expensive male price.

Jerking off I usually just get friction burns and cramps if I do it too long
 

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I masturbate regularly, because my sex drive is much higher than that of my wife. My wife is aware that I do, and, agrees with the idea.
I'm with you! Very high sex drive here. The wife is not bad at all in that department. But mine is present a lot of the time. So for me, masturbation is a gift. Wife is aware and "caught" me a few times. She's never seen me use our anal toys on myself. Even thought she has used them on me (odd I know...). Most times for me it's thinking of another guy. That's just the way I'm wired.