feeling really envious of other guys w/ bigger dicks

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Perhaps that is our difference: you accept it and I don't. I may perceive I'm the king of England but the reality is not so and telling people it is "my truth" still doesn't make it true.
i don't think that analogy works quite that well. being the king of england is more of a clear-cut fact that is backed up by evidence to be false. perceptions about dick size are not so clear-cut, and can be backed up by evidence to be either true or false (depending on the perception).
 

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i don't think that analogy works quite that well. being the king of england is more of a clear-cut fact that is backed up by evidence to be false. perceptions about dick size are not so clear-cut, and can be backed up by evidence to be either true or false (depending on the perception).
Okay then, "it is my personal truth and strongly held perception that I am King of England and declare you do not have a big dick." Satisfied?
 

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To the OP, a big dick dont mean shit. There is nothing superior or maginificent about it. I couldnt cum last night because my gf’s pussy was sore and she has started to resent the size. She has been avoiding sex with me. Most pussies arent built for big dicks. Vaginas and penises are symmetrical in terms of pairing.
Them's fightin' words to the OP. I admire your pluck and humble-brag.
 
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@FrankieGuile thank you, i want the OP to understand that a big dick is useless without the right size hole. My gf could be another woman that leaves me because of my size. Being limited to one position sucks and its difficult to achieve full erection size.
 

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A big dick is useless without the right size holes
You make such a great point. When I first came to LPSG, I took the whole "big dick problems" as a tongue in cheek satire of privilege. But then I met my wife with the tiny pussy. I'm average size. But to her I'm massive. This got me to thinking that guys with really large cocks are going to run across women such as my wife.

Now for the bi/gay men... I would think there are "better fits" given girth that can be accepted anally (maybe I'm interjecting my own opinion). But in either case... Oral sex could be just licking and head sucking? So ya... I get it.
 

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To the OP, a big dick dont mean shit. There is nothing superior or maginificent about it. I couldnt cum last night because my gf’s pussy was sore and she has started to resent the size. She has been avoiding sex with me. Most pussies arent built for big dicks. Vaginas and penises are symmetrical in terms of pairing.
to be fair, it does mean being able to post on sites like these lol
 

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hey, it's me again. i know you all had this talk before with me and this shouldn't be something for me to be upset about, but i still do feel inadequate compared to other guys because of my size and other aspects of myself. there was one dude i just saw whose flaccid was bigger than a water bottle and he was 6'6". there was another dude who's >9" and 6'4". then another dude who's like 6'2" and 8.5". and all of the guys are lean and muscular. i understand that i can still change my physique, and i'm working towards that - i still work out, and i'm going to continue adjusting my eating habits. and i understand that i can't quite readily change those others things about myself beyond surgery and possibly penis enlargement, but it still bothers me from time to time. for getting a therapist, i'm still trying to find a new one since i had stopped talking to the second, but i'm admittedly worried that i can't find the right fit. just wanted to vent a bit.
 

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All those 3 individuals are outliers just like the 5’8” guy with a 8.5 inch penis. You cant compare yourself to outliers. Stop looking at naked bodies its not that difficult not too. Overall, i think you have made a lot of progress. Keep working out as much as you can. Everything works out for all of us
 

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To the OP, a big dick dont mean shit. There is nothing superior or maginificent about it. I couldnt cum last night because my gf’s pussy was sore and she has started to resent the size. She has been avoiding sex with me. Most pussies arent built for big dicks. Vaginas and penises are symmetrical in terms of pairing.
Well...no. Remember babies come out of a vagina. And a baby is much bigger than any penis. In fact, guys who 'think' their large cocks dont fit....a woman will say your (large) pencil dick is not even close to having a baby.
 

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Well...no. Remember babies come out of a vagina. And a baby is much bigger than any penis. In fact, guys who 'think' their large cocks dont fit....a woman will say your (large) pencil dick is not even close to having a baby.
Hi a baby is coming out not coming in. A womans body prepares 9 months for birth. I have never heard a woman tell me giving birth was pleasurable. There are limits to our anatomies.
 
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I would love to have a bigger dick, obviously, but am happy that I can probably out fuck any bigger dick.
 

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All those 3 individuals are outliers just like the 5’8” guy with a 8.5 inch penis. You cant compare yourself to outliers. Stop looking at naked bodies its not that difficult not too. Overall, i think you have made a lot of progress. Keep working out as much as you can. Everything works out for all of us
They might only be 3 individuals but there are many, many more outliers like them. They were the ones that stood out the most in recent times. As for improvement, what makes you say that I made a lot of progress? My physique isn’t really that great, I’m back in this thread when I probably shouldn’t :confused:
 

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Hi a baby is coming out not coming in. A womans body prepares 9 months for birth. I have never heard a woman tell me giving birth was pleasurable. There are limits to our anatomies.
Your dick goes in AND out. I guess you missed the point of all this...
 

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hey, it's me again. i know you all had this talk before with me and this shouldn't be something for me to be upset about, but i still do feel inadequate compared to other guys because of my size and other aspects of myself. there was one dude i just saw whose flaccid was bigger than a water bottle and he was 6'6". there was another dude who's >9" and 6'4". then another dude who's like 6'2" and 8.5". and all of the guys are lean and muscular. i understand that i can still change my physique, and i'm working towards that - i still work out, and i'm going to continue adjusting my eating habits. and i understand that i can't quite readily change those others things about myself beyond surgery and possibly penis enlargement, but it still bothers me from time to time. for getting a therapist, i'm still trying to find a new one since i had stopped talking to the second, but i'm admittedly worried that i can't find the right fit. just wanted to vent a bit.
I presume you are attempting to renew the thread because it died of fatigued frustration from dubious dilemmas such as the rehash you posted.
 

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No, I was feeling bad and I wanted to get things off of my chest by venting.
But, as you can see by respondents, both sympathetic and unsympathetic, no one credits you for the source of your bad feelings because they are unfounded. It is a lesson in human interaction -- not all feelings are deemed warranted or valid just because they are "feelings."
 

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But, as you can see by respondents, both sympathetic and unsympathetic, no one credits you for the source of your bad feelings because they are unfounded. It is a lesson in human interaction -- not all feelings are deemed warranted or valid just because they are "feelings."
I understand my feelings aren’t the most rational, but in my defense, after seeing a bunch of attractive, muscular, tall, big-dicked guys, you don’t think it’d be at least a bit natural to feel at least a little bad compared to them? It’s trying to change the things I can about myself, but while those things aren’t completely changed, and while there are things about myself I can’t quite readily change, how else would I naturally feel?
 

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I understand my feelings aren’t the most rational, but in my defense, after seeing a bunch of attractive, muscular, tall, big-dicked guys, you don’t think it’d be at least a bit natural to feel at least a little bad compared to them? It’s trying to change the things I can about myself, but while those things aren’t completely changed, and while there are things about myself I can’t quite readily change, how else would I naturally feel?
Your feeling are yours and yours alone, which makes them valid. To you, which is the only person that's important in this discussion.

It's how you choose to handle those feelings that's important.

As we've discussed in a few threads here and in our PM.

Continue to do you. Be you. No one does it better! :)
 
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