Sorry to vent folks. but tomorrow is going to be a very hard day for me as it will be the 4th year to the day since my heart was broken. I am sorry to say that I still carry around the love that I felt and the pain of my loss. I can intellectualize it and know in my head it was a bad thing but what about my heart. How can I distance my self from this pain without dwelling. And for Gods sake don't say "just get over it" because if it was that easy I would have been "over it" in the first week. Dragonfly.